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Topic Started: Mar 1 2013, 06:03 AM (107,082 Views)
Jordand08
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14 more posts in I will be a member (: :o
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Me, mom and Ryan headed off to see the doctor this morning, rountine appointment just to take a look at us and discuss some things. Mom seems fine, they think Ryan's stomach is going to be somewhat easy to upset for his entire life but as long as his muscle aches are gone and we're able to control it to a certain extent by watching what he eats, we shouldn't have to do anything besides keep giving him his medicine. I got the stupid little wart thing frozen off my head. Naturally, mother wanted to discuss with the doctor her concerns about my bowels. Not going into detail there but the verdict is, nothing is going to happen for like 30 more years. But when that time comes, if I haven't bothered to do anything about it, I'm at increased risk for getting colon cancer. It's not an easy fix to do anything about either- added to that, he said that because I'm 17 years old and barely weigh 100 pounds, if I go in to see someone about it, they're automatically going to assume that the cause of the problem is an eating disorder until proven otherwise. So the decision is mine to make. Ryan got upset and started crying whereupon we had to reassure him that nothing was going to happen and that I wasn't going to die. He's okay now but it wasn't much fun.

On a more light-hearted note, today was the day Ryan demonstrated to me that he was mature enough for us to have the first in a long series of very important talks. These conversations are very important to a child's development, and we should never feel awkward talking to children about these very important and perfectly normal subjects. While the explanation I gave him was highly simplified and non-explicit, I feel this is a step in the right direction.
Scene: We are watching a video we took at the anime con of the Ouran Q&A panel. The Hikaru and Kaoru cosplayers (the twin brothers who act like they have romantic feelings for each other to please the fangirls, for those who don't watch the show) were asked a question about "pitching and catching". Now at the time, I just kind of told Ryan not to ask, but obviously since we were watching the video, the subject came up again.
Ryan: *giving me a look*
Me:"You're going to ask, aren't you?"
Ryan:"No. I think I kinda already know what it means."
Me:*rather surprised*"Really? What does it mean?"
Ryan:"... *clearly embarrassed and attempting to backpedal* I don't know."
Me:"Come on, what's it mean?"
Ryan:"I don't know."
Me:"Come on, you can tell me."
Ryan:"I don't know."
Me:"Well what's your best guess?"
Ryan:"I don't know."
Me:"Just tell me."
Ryan:"... *gives up and mutters* Like one of them is kinda the more 'man' one..."
Me:"Yes! That's exactly what it means. And the other one is more of the girly one."
Ryan:"Yeah."
Me:"As long as we're having this talk... that's also what 'seme' and 'uke' means, that word you keep seeing me use in reference to Dylly, and he calls me 'seme', which is the manly one."
Ryan: *"Oooooh I get it" expression* "Okay."
Me:"Just remember to never say those words in front of your mo-..."
Ryan:"I know."
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Jordand08
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Gee, I don't really know what to say, but for the first part I'll say sorry, and for the second part, the convo was funny.
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Hi Kat, sorry I missed you, hi Jordan ! :)

I hope you're ok Suzu but that's awesome about Ryan !
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Jordand08
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Hey Dylan!~
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Thanks Jordan :)

Hey Dylly :) Yeah don't worry, I'm good. I know, the "I already know" thing really startled me for a second, though XD Sometimes I forget how good that kid is at picking up on things because he stays quiet about it a lot of the time.
Edited by Suzu, May 2 2013, 08:25 PM.
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Jordand08
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You're welcome. (:
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Hey Jordan are things any better on KW now?

I figured he had a god idea about that stuff.
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Jordand08
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Yeah. Cats maps at me for something that happened a year ago. Other than that everythings fine.
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Yeah, not too surprising especially considering the anime I let him watch but since he often doesn't say anything, I'm never 100% sure exactly how much he understands and I'm hesitant to bring it up myself. Sometimes he acts embarrassed about it, like this time, so maybe that's why he usually keeps his mouth shut. I want him to know he doesn't have to be embarrassed to talk to me about anything and at this point I'm openly hinting that I'm a yaoi fangirl. I can tell he's not missing the hints even if he doesn't completely get it yet.
Edited by Suzu, May 2 2013, 08:42 PM.
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A year ago? Sounds like it didn't change much.
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Jordand08
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Yup a year. She's still mad and deleted me.
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Yeah he watches too much anime & catches you watching too much yaoi not to know some of it. Besides, ytou let him watch Ouran & stuff & thats mostly BL.

Really? Who is she anyways?
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Jordand08
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Beautiful death
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Yeah, and Ouran isn't exactly subtle either. I've wondered a little bit what would happen if one day I "accidentally" left my Ouran fanfiction open on the desktop when he went to use my computer (because aside from it being BL, there's totally nothing inappropriate in there. Weird for me, right?).

Anyway, how's you?
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Oh right ! I shoulda remembered !
I don't think I got to tell her where I am, try telling her, see if she forgives you. :D

No, I never had a chance to read Ouran but the parts I saw were def BL, you cna't miss it.
Edited by Zonkers, May 2 2013, 09:04 PM.
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Jordand08
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She deleted me. I don't think she will.
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LOL
I try not to delete people. I think dozi was the only person I ever deleted.
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The only actual pairings in the series are straight ones but they have a LOT of fun with the BL stuff and it's awesome.
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Yeah, I think the straights are just there as an excuse for the BL stuff.
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Jordand08
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LOL Why?
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LOL I know, right? When the creator first started the series she said she couldn't see that straight pairing happening. Ryan says hi.
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It was when he got fired from Jr Mods. He was causing a lot of problems for the Jr Mods & saying a lot of stuff about me being bi.

I don't think most people would even notice if they left the straights out of it.
Hi Ryan ! :)
How are you?
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Oh trust me, a lot of people would love that. Either that or they could just change the female character into a dude.
"I'm doing good. How's your midget lice?"
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Oh :/ I didn't even know he was a JR mod. I probably would know him if I knew his username though, lol.
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