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Topic Started: Mar 1 2013, 06:03 AM (106,756 Views)
straightedgeninja
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Dylan was quite the brat. Maybe was isn't the right word Dylan is a brat. I will keep the egg thing in mind. Bulimia can be even worse. Extremely dangerous. I always got a kick out of telling people when this all started that I had a crappy gag reflex so I couldn't purge. Which is not as true now but purging has never been my thing really. You should be careful hiding the evidence. Really not doing her a favor. I'm around 150 and I decided that 100 is a nice number but realistically it probably would not stop there. My therapist today told me that dizziness is the first sign that your body is giving up. Always great when you're sitting in the room and here oh you're dying. It's not at that extreme level yet. I'm going to start by eating breakfast and slowly we will normalize every other meal and I think she wants me to do snacks too. We had found a 1000 calorie meal plan we were going to try a little bit back and she told me at this point I can't do such a increase. She said to go from like 200 calories to a 1000 would be really bad. I'm sick and tired of being sick and tired. It's always something around here.
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Jordand08
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It's okay now, I mean, I've grown up, but not being able to be a kid while you should be able to is hard. Because once you grow up and you're in the "real world" there's no going back to being innocent and young.
Bulimia is just where they'd eat and make themselves throw up. Which throwing up burns your throat, no good.
I'd definitely watch out for her, no body needs to go throw that, and don't let her get under 115. Because you can easily lose weight, but getting it back is just as hard. If she's not a certain weight with a certain height, she'll have to go to the doctor. She may hate you, but I would talk to someone who can do something about it. because, it's better to get help rather than not, and something bad happen. You'll regret it, and think it's your fault if anything happened to her.
I go to the hospital November the 24th, to see what's causing my glands to be as high as they are, they think it can cause cancer, but I'll have to take medicine to control my weight gain.
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straightedgeninja
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Sounds like a thyroid issue Jordan. I am believed to have the opposite problem they believe my thyroid is too low and is what is causing me to lose even more weight.

Yeah I would agree with Jordan the faster this gets treated and under control the better. The longer you go engaging in behaviors the harder it is to stop. Recovery is slow and painful and almost a 2 steps forward 1 step back sort of thing though. You just don't get better over night. I would definitely encourage her to see someone.
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Jordand08
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Lucas, your therapists person is right ( I love how I do that I always say a type of person and they say person at the end) anywayyy, start by eating more everyday. Start with breakfast first, eat that for about a week, then slowly, eat breakfast, and lunch. After about another week or so (don't do it too fast because then your body will reject it, or you'll end up gaining way too much weight) after you've felt comfortable about breakfast (I'm assuming you eat lunch) then eat lunch, then start eating snacks, whether its a banana or poptarts, start off small, then go to dinner.
Your therapists might rush you, but remember she's doing it for YOUR sake, and for the one's you love. I wouldn't recommend starting with breakfast if you don't feel comfortable about it, but because I'm saying that doesn't mean you can push it off, and do nothing. I don't eat breakfast but my mom tells me putting something in my stomach is better than not. But remember do it when you're comfortable. c:
I'm sorry you're feeling this way. :( *hugs* but I promise, it'll get better. Just listen to her, and don't put yourself down. It's not worth it, no matter what. You're worth it to me, Dylan, and Dale, and even more people than that.
It's not my thyroid, but it's something that controls it. It sucks because I'm afraid of needles, and they took four tubes of my blood. It really scares me.
They say that it's something that's causing mine to go high (considering it's just now start happening about a couple years ago.) What it is, they're not sure, so they have to get even more blood (I might pass out this time) to see what it is, they think they can give me medicine and I'll be okay, but if they find out what it is that's messing with it, it could cause cancer
Edited by Jordand08, Oct 29 2014, 08:44 PM.
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straightedgeninja
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Thank you for the kind words. Those mean more than you will ever know. I used to always eat breakfast. I think I can handle something small at least. At this point 2 bites is better than what I get most days.
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Jordand08
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Oh yay I get your amazing hugs. *hugs*
And I know, I said it because I meant it, and because in my days of doubts, and saddness, and depression, that's all I ever wanted, was, for someone to care, someone who would tell me something I NEEDED to hear, even if I didn't want to hear it.
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straightedgeninja
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There's a quote I like. Be the person you needed when you were growing up. I think that quote is very true.
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Jordand08
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Its a quote you should go by.
Just remember, it's easy to give up. That's the easiest thing in the world, but, you were put here for a reason, and you shouldn't do anything to harm it. If you stay strong, you won't regret it, you'll see that it was worth it, all of it.
I still haven't figured out why my parents target me out, or why they do what they do, but when I thought I should give up, someone told me that there's always people out there who see light in others when they see darkness, and, ever since then, I wanted to be that person. I wanted someone to know they have someone when they feel alone or afraid.
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straightedgeninja
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Extremely easy to give up. I'm a fighter though. I'm not going down without a fight. I'd like to believe I'm not going down at all but.... I've gotten through other things this should be no different.
*hugs*
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Jordand08
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Good always remember that, my dear Lucas. I feel like bad things happen for reasons. :3 and I'm here for you through out the whole journey. c: *hugs*
But, is there a reason why you think you're over weight which causes you to be anorexic?
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straightedgeninja
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I've always struggled with my weight. It was under control for a good while then when they doped me up on psych pills I started gaining weight and it wouldn't stop. It was bound to happen just some conditions made it worse.
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Oh, I've gained like 20 pounds in about a year, or less. because of my gland problem, which is so embarrassing.but there's not much I can do.
I know everything will be okay and get better
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straightedgeninja
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That's always hard. Not much you can do for that. As long as you are eating healthy you should be fine.
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Yeah, hopefully the medicine they give me will help.
I really need to get out of the "I'm so tired" stage. I fell asleep on the bus.
Yeah, hopefully the medicine they give me will help.
I really need to get out of the "I'm so tired" stage. I fell asleep on the bus.
Edited by Jordand08, Oct 29 2014, 09:20 PM.
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straightedgeninja
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I hope so as well. I never fell asleep on the bus before. I used to fall asleep in class or in random places.
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Heheh, I try to stay awake during class, I don't trust those people, however, today I couldn't force myself to stay awake, and fell asleep.
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straightedgeninja
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I had a first thing in the morning double block advanced placement biology class. I was always falling asleep. I haven't fallen asleep in college so far though.
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Nevermind it's better o:
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straightedgeninja
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I hate when computers mess up. Right now my sound is messing up.
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Jordand08
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That sucks! My phone's speaker is messed up D;
*hugs* what classes do you have tomorrow?
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My sister was in a hospital with anorexia and bullemia grils and boys. They would force them to eat fattening foods. The anorexia girls would take forever to eat. My sister would gobble her's down, then try to get more from the others. Then she'd ask to go the rest room, and someone would stand outside the door listening to you. It was a horrible experience. I was surprised to see anorexia boys there too, but I guess they can go through it too. After a week, it did not do my sister any good at all. She's taking different SSRI meds to try to overcome this herself. They work for a while, then she has to try another one. She's seeing a female doctor, who let's her try different meds.
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I understand.
hopefully all goes good for her. I'm sure things will though.
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I have the worst time trying not to fall asleep in class right after lunch. I fell asleep once in the front row of my Calculus class. That was embarrasing. After that, I sat in the back of the class. College is so much different in that respect than H.S.
In H.S. Spanish class, four of us arrived early to class, so we could sit together in the back of the class. When the teacher came in, the front row was empty, so she had all four of us come up to fill in the front row. I hated her after that. When she said, we'd have to do extra credit work to get an A, none of us four did. We still got an A, because we did the homework and passed all the tests.
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I know, I heard college is a lot of fun, but also, once you leave high school you'll miss it. As a junior it's gone by sooo fast.
This is my third year in Spanish. I know nothing. We use the book so much I rely on it.
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straightedgeninja
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Oh inpatient is always the first thing they want to send you. Take a page from my book it doesn't work at all. Also force feeding and especially high fattening foods just doesn't work. I could go on and on. Anorexia in males has always existed it is just getting more and more attention but I think it will always be seen as a girl's disease. Usually males who are athletes are most prone to get it. I worry with karate a lot. It seems to be a gateway. Medication works wonders when you are on the right combination. I was having trouble with my combination when the doctor figured out that my body could not metabolize capsules. She switched me to tablets and I am right back on track. That may be something to look into.
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