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| AwesomePrussia | Mar 25 2013, 09:56 PM Post #1401 |
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No. Nothing. I can't find anything interesting to do. |
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| Zonkers | Mar 25 2013, 10:03 PM Post #1402 |
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Yeah, there's not much happening here neither. I'm watching Pawn Stars, at least it's one I didn't see before. |
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| Suzu | Mar 25 2013, 10:11 PM Post #1403 |
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Who wants to guess what my mother's problem is this time? Anyone? Come on, guess. |
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| Zonkers | Mar 25 2013, 10:13 PM Post #1404 |
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She can't get the new cow home? Where were you? I was just going to e-mail you to make sure you were ok.
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| Suzu | Mar 25 2013, 10:18 PM Post #1405 |
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No, it's because I call her husband "the Belgian". Apparently God takes issue with this, because we're supposed to honor our parents. Yes, our PARENTS. He had legally adopted me, so yes, in the eyes of the law, he is my father. She's all like "Just because he's not your biological father". The very argument here is that any one who takes care of you, loves you, acts like a father, ect, is just as much your father as anyone who is related by blood. Which is absolutely 100% true. Now tell me, when, exactly, has the Belgian done any of those things? Sure, he takes care of us financially, takes us to anime conventions, ect, but when has he shown me love? When has he hugged me? When he has he ever made any effort to get to know me or have a father-daughter relationship with me? Not even going into all the pain he's caused us, what right does he have to be treated as my father? |
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| Zonkers | Mar 25 2013, 10:25 PM Post #1406 |
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He does take care of you but I don't think calling him that is disrespectful, I'm proud of being Canadian. And bi. Maybe you mother would like it better if he was bi. Wanna ask her? |
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| Suzu | Mar 25 2013, 10:38 PM Post #1407 |
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I doubt that would help much. Yeah, he has taken care of us, it's a good thing he's doing for us and I can't deny that. But even if he hadn't done all the stuff he has to hurt us, I don't really see how that should make him my father. Being a half-decent person doesn't mean I'm going to accept you as a member of my family just like that, whether I have anything against you or not. I've heard rumors that a lot of real parents talk to their kids. Ya know, show some interest in their lives. Know how old their kids are and stuff like that. He had his chance to be my father and he didn't take it. I'm grateful for what he has done and I'm trying to forgive him, really I am, but I think it's something I'm going to struggle with. I'm not gonna give up though, so doesn't that count for something? |
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| Zonkers | Mar 25 2013, 10:51 PM Post #1408 |
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It helped me, I was so happy to find out I was bi ! ![]() I know Suzu, I was gonna say something else but I was never saw how he treats you so I didn't say it. He does take care of you but I don't think he respects you as a daughter or treats you like one. |
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| Suzu | Mar 25 2013, 11:02 PM Post #1409 |
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You wouldn't see how he treats me even if you were here. You'd only see how he doesn't treat me. He doesn't talk to me. Seriously, literally, the most he says is "Do you know where your mom is?" every few weeks. He hugged me once when I was 7-ish because I was really upset about something and I literally do not remember him ever doing it again. He petted me a few times the night my grandma died and I was bawling hysterically. Once or twice he poked his head in while I was sick and asked if I needed anything, I'll give him that. Mom has really been getting into studying Christianity lately. She gets upset if she misses her show on the prayer channel (Sheperd's Chapel) and she listens to tapes of this preacher all the time. I 100% approve of this, I'm born-again Christian after all, but I worry that she's going to start being even more heterosexist than she already is. If she found out about... stuff... you know... I think I might be even more screwed that I ever that possible. It scares me, Dylly. I'm beginning to wonder if she'd kick me out of the house at this point. I feel like such a bad daughter. |
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| Zonkers | Mar 25 2013, 11:18 PM Post #1410 |
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*huggles Suzu* I know but I was really taught to be respectful & stuff so I try to be really careful of what I say about people. From what you tell us it sounds like he mostly ignores you & doesn't have a relationship with you. It kinda sounds like he sorta tries a bit but not very much. We don't have that network, we got Vision up here. Some of those preachers are nuts so yeah she might get more heterosexist. Where were you this weekend? |
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| Mouse Caper | Mar 25 2013, 11:35 PM Post #1411 |
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Hi again peoples! :3 I gots distracted with STUFF. @_@ |
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| Suzu | Mar 25 2013, 11:35 PM Post #1412 |
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*huggles Dylly tight* That sounds about right. I mean every once in awhile he'll do something like take us to a convention, that's pretty much his way of trying, he might ask if we want to sign up for computer classes or something and a few years back he used to take us bowling or to the movies sometimes. But all I really wanted was some affection. I remember when I was a few years younger and still thought of him as "dad", trying not to cry and wondering why he didn't love me. I just hope she doesn't teach Ryan to be heterosexist. At home. Just around. I felt rather out of sorts. Edited by Suzu, Mar 25 2013, 11:36 PM.
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| Zonkers | Mar 25 2013, 11:55 PM Post #1413 |
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Hi Mia ! ![]() I think your mother should understand your position more Suzu. How heterosexist can he be with you around? Want me to teach him the joy of wearing skirts? |
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| Suzu | Mar 26 2013, 12:08 AM Post #1414 |
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You'd think that, but remember all the things that he's done to her, and she still went back to him every time. She won't even acknowledge how he's treated her, much less us. I dunno, Dylly. I mean sure, I make jokes to him and stuff and there's the anime and all but I've never really said anything serious to him about it. In his world, whatever mother says can't be wrong. I know 'cause I used to live in that world. I once tried to emphasize to him that it's not okay to hate anyone and that it's not our place to judge, but I didn't go into specifics. I'm afraid he'd say something to mom if I did. (I'm afraid she'd take him away from me. She's threatened to before.) He's more interested in high heels right now actually. |
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| Zonkers | Mar 26 2013, 12:16 AM Post #1415 |
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I know, I'm just saying she should. She does't seem to be very realistic about this to me. As long as he has anime. Yaoi can't fail ! Be careful not to lose him. He knows how I dress, does he know I'm bi or a gender bender? Can he walk in them? I could lend him one of my bras. |
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| Suzu | Mar 26 2013, 12:28 AM Post #1416 |
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She's not. At all. To quote my aunt: "Me and your mom always seem to have picked men who are bad for us. I hope you don't do that, Sissy." I think maybe I'll start talking to him about it more and maybe introduce him to Gravitation after I move out. No. He doesn't. I admit I kinda tried to wave it off when he'd ask about it, back when I was having all that horrendous trouble with my mom because I was afraid he'd say something to her and then she might not let him (or heck, both of us) talk to you anymore. He's definitely matured since then though, so if you want, I'll tell him. Or you can. Anything that floats your boat. I don't know how he'd react but I'm pretty sure he'll keep his lips zipped. No, but he still wants to wear them. I take my eyes off him for a split second and he's waddling around in my shoes! Edited by Suzu, Mar 26 2013, 12:36 AM.
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| Mouse Caper | Mar 26 2013, 12:29 AM Post #1417 |
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Hi Dylly! ![]() Whatcha up to? I was drawing earlier. My daddy asked me to draw some tattoos for him. :3 I think the one I started is turning out OK so far. My nose is really stuffy. TT_TT I can barely taste anything.
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| Zonkers | Mar 26 2013, 12:50 AM Post #1418 |
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I hope you get a good man or a good woman, you deserve one. The Gravitation videos are a good one to start with. The mangas show more. I'd like him to know if you think he wouldn't tell your mother. You can tell him or I can, whatever you think is best. Tell him every guy needs a nice bra to go with his high heels. I got a nice lace one he'd look cute in. I got one with polka dots like from the 60's that he'd really like. ![]() I'm just watching Pawn Stars. What kind of tattoo are you drawing? I just had a sack, it stinks you can't taste anything. |
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| Mouse Caper | Mar 26 2013, 12:55 AM Post #1419 |
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Well, my daddy asked me to draw a sailor girl and a cowgirl for him. ^^ I know! D: Oh food. How I miss your yummy taste.... *Looks longingly up at the sky* |
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| Suzu | Mar 26 2013, 12:56 AM Post #1420 |
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Thank you, Dylly. You do as well. *snuggles* Yeah, he's not ready for the manga yet, but the anime doesn't show much, plus it's hysterically funny. I don't think he will, and I'll talk to him about it afterwards anyway. He's learning to keep his mouth shut about stuff and he really likes you so I think it'd be okay. I don't know which way would be best, really. So whatever you prefer. Really now? I'm sure he'd look adorable. There goes the net. Goodnight my darling Dylan, thanks for listening to my ramblings, I'll see you tomorrow. Love you! 'Night Mia! |
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| Zonkers | Mar 26 2013, 01:00 AM Post #1421 |
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G'Night Suzu !
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| Mouse Caper | Mar 26 2013, 01:17 AM Post #1422 |
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Goodnight Suzu-nee :3 Hey guys, one of my friends from school made this site. http://z13.invisionfree.com/URLStuck/index.php? I dunno if you guys wanna go talk on there too. I just thought it would be cool for you guys to meet my friends 'n stuff. :3 |
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| Zonkers | Mar 26 2013, 01:20 AM Post #1423 |
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Cool ! Are you gonna post photos when they're done? I had a Hot Stuffs cheeseburger & fried rice. It's really cool & has awesome music too ! ![]() Well you could tell him & then he could talk to me or I could tell him. I like talking to him and we didn't talk for a long time so whatever you think's better. I bet he'd like the polka dot bra, it's got different size dots in light pink, blue, yellow, orange & green. It's really nice. My mother says she wants a son she's proud of, she doesn't want a drag queen for a daughter so I gotta learn to dress right. You know I love you too Alora. |
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| Zonkers | Mar 26 2013, 01:26 AM Post #1424 |
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Wow, why did they use Invision boards? That's the old ones, I didn't know you could even use them anymore. I was never on an invision site before cuz everybody uses the Zeta Boards now. I didn't even think you could start new boards on invision. |
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| Mouse Caper | Mar 26 2013, 01:27 AM Post #1425 |
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*Shrugs* I guess so, if you want me to. ![]() I'll probably be done with the first one tomorrow. :3 |
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