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SIGNS of our times...Dish 31
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Topic Started: Sep 12 2014, 09:20 AM (38,074 Views)
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Sep 14 2014, 07:58 PM
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please don't get mad at me for the OT: but I need some advice and can't doscuss with family because of conflict of interests. Long story short: my grandpa had a stroke and was no longer able to by himself, my aunt offered to take him and we recently found out that money has mysteriously gone missing from his bank account. If I have proof that my aunt has been basically stealing, would I be considered a traitor for calling the cops on a family member? The stress of losing his indepenence and mobility has stressed him and he had another major stroke this weekend so telling him that we suspect someone (his own daughter) has been stealing from him is too much stress to handle.
Thanks in advance for your advice.
Can your parent talk to your aunt and work out what happened without involving your grandfather? If I tell my mom she is going to have a huge freak out and call the police, she is already taking it badly with his most recent stroke. I'm wondering if I could report it anonymously?
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Sep 14 2014, 07:58 PM
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please don't get mad at me for the OT: but I need some advice and can't doscuss with family because of conflict of interests. Long story short: my grandpa had a stroke and was no longer able to by himself, my aunt offered to take him and we recently found out that money has mysteriously gone missing from his bank account. If I have proof that my aunt has been basically stealing, would I be considered a traitor for calling the cops on a family member? The stress of losing his indepenence and mobility has stressed him and he had another major stroke this weekend so telling him that we suspect someone (his own daughter) has been stealing from him is too much stress to handle.
Thanks in advance for your advice. You need to talk about this before calling the cops. First, do you know what expenses your aunt has had to take on to care for your Grandfather? Not everything is covered by medicare/insurance. And SS does not go very far.
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Sep 14 2014, 07:58 PM
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She his the results for payback as I remember it. RC had a scene with Liz and Jason remembering what Sam did to with Jake. I think it was a little revenge but then she felt bad.
Wtfever! Miss me with that bullshit, she thought she was gonna get to ride Jason's dick and he told that whore nope I.dont.want.it.! Oh , so those other scenes never were on the screen?
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Sep 14 2014, 07:58 PM
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I think I ran down both sides. Both sides need to realize it is a soap. Jasam should not be a forgone conclusion and Jasam fans should not be telling other fans to not have hope. same with the other side
I am a Jasam fan and I know that the next year is probably going to be very frustrating. First, I was happy with the way Jasam finally ended. 2) I was very torn about a recast and am still unsure if I am going to like Jason. 3) I'm happy to talk about realistic stories that RC might tell, not fanfic of great romance. Well that let's out jasam. Glad you're realistic.
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Sep 14 2014, 07:59 PM
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please don't get mad at me for the OT: but I need some advice and can't doscuss with family because of conflict of interests. Long story short: my grandpa had a stroke and was no longer able to by himself, my aunt offered to take him and we recently found out that money has mysteriously gone missing from his bank account. If I have proof that my aunt has been basically stealing, would I be considered a traitor for calling the cops on a family member? The stress of losing his indepenence and mobility has stressed him and he had another major stroke this weekend so telling him that we suspect someone (his own daughter) has been stealing from him is too much stress to handle.
Thanks in advance for your advice. Is what your Aunt is "stealing" more or less than what your lazy asses would have had to spend for round the clock nursing care?
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Sep 14 2014, 07:59 PM
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They are not going to give Billy Miller to BH. lol
Not saying they won't tease shit to rile up fanbases but lets be real here, he will end up with their pet KeMo.
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Sep 14 2014, 07:59 PM
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please don't get mad at me for the OT: but I need some advice and can't doscuss with family because of conflict of interests. Long story short: my grandpa had a stroke and was no longer able to by himself, my aunt offered to take him and we recently found out that money has mysteriously gone missing from his bank account. If I have proof that my aunt has been basically stealing, would I be considered a traitor for calling the cops on a family member? The stress of losing his indepenence and mobility has stressed him and he had another major stroke this weekend so telling him that we suspect someone (his own daughter) has been stealing from him is too much stress to handle.
Thanks in advance for your advice. If you have rock solid proof the bitch is stealing from a helpless old man, call the police. This is elder abuse and no one has the right to help themselves to his money - no one.
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Sep 14 2014, 07:59 PM
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They need to keep him far away from Sonny. That's the kiss of death for any character.
That is the only thing I miss jason for. Sean is not a good replacement for Jason No he is not and I miss my Sason. :'(
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Sep 14 2014, 08:00 PM
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please don't get mad at me for the OT: but I need some advice and can't doscuss with family because of conflict of interests. Long story short: my grandpa had a stroke and was no longer able to by himself, my aunt offered to take him and we recently found out that money has mysteriously gone missing from his bank account. If I have proof that my aunt has been basically stealing, would I be considered a traitor for calling the cops on a family member? The stress of losing his indepenence and mobility has stressed him and he had another major stroke this weekend so telling him that we suspect someone (his own daughter) has been stealing from him is too much stress to handle.
Thanks in advance for your advice.
Get a lawyer and start documenting. Does she have signing rights on his account? No, she is not his POA, his wife was but she passed away and I don't think he changed it over before he got sick. I have his statements here, and see random withdrawals that are unusual and happen right around the time his pension is deposited into his account. She happens to have had a rise in income lately.
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Sep 14 2014, 08:00 PM
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