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a serious question
Tweet Topic Started: Oct 17 2006, 09:04 PM (505 Views)
Askio	Oct 17 2006, 09:04 PM Post #1
Beginning and End Posts: 3,215 Group: Veteran Member #436 Joined: October 1, 2005	I put it here since people may have crazy things to say, but.... anyhow, this girl I know seems to have gotten pregnant as a junior in high school. And the potential and most likly father just cheated on her and well, obvious thrashing he got. But Im trying to to comfort her and all, but she is being closed mouthed. Does anyone have any advice here?? Im sort of stuck, even though I know the situation well since my family has had some things too.



Feez	Oct 17 2006, 09:12 PM Post #2
Ebullient Future Posts: 9,782 Group: Veteran Member #3 Joined: May 16, 2005	interestingphenomenonperhapsitwasyouthatcommitedtheacteheh? Talk to someone, preferably someone older than the both of you. It'd make most sense to speak with a counselour or something, but that can be risky at times too.



JASON_AFC	Oct 17 2006, 09:26 PM Post #3
Posts: 7 Group: Fusionite Member #958 Joined: October 16, 2006	Sorry man, cant help you. I wish I could.



Inui	Oct 17 2006, 09:29 PM Post #4
Power of Flower Posts: 23,952 Group: Veteran Member #40 Joined: June 9, 2005	Wow @ kids these days.



Yes	Oct 17 2006, 10:08 PM Post #5
The Real OG Posts: 3,299 Group: Veteran Member #6 Joined: May 16, 2005	Brendas got a baby I remember the first time I got a girl pregnant. Those were some wild times. Sucks for the dad, but he'll probably just leave her, thats pretty normal.
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*Crysta*	Oct 18 2006, 12:38 AM Post #6
wat Posts: 12,681 Group: Admins Member #443 Joined: October 8, 2005	Usually just talking works. She needs support at its finest.
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Light Yagami	Oct 18 2006, 01:04 AM Post #7
As dog as a Fetch Posts: 3,424 Group: Veteran Member #959 Joined: October 18, 2006	Seth Oct 18 2006, 02:29 AM Wow @ kids these days. I second that emotion Well, I would be a total hard ass If I were in your situation. I would probably even make her cry. So Mayber, just maybe, you should ask someone with some life experience.. like a counselor, I mean the counselor doesnt sit in his/her office to collect dust, ya know.



Kovu	Oct 18 2006, 01:08 AM Post #8
Zidane was always entitled to 12 MOV! Posts: 14,895 Group: Veteran Member #7 Joined: May 16, 2005	Crysta Oct 17 2006, 10:38 PM Usually just talking works. She needs support at its finest. Agreed. ~ Kovu
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Soja	Oct 18 2006, 04:17 AM Post #9
Gentle Water, Crashing Waves Posts: 5,794 Group: Veteran Member #451 Joined: October 15, 2005	Well, the two solutions are obvious. If it's not too late in the development cycle, she can abort the unborn child and live with the guilt, if the latter applies. If not, she can go through with the pregnancy and give the child up to adoption. But junior high? Wtf. Give her your support, but don't let her think that what she did was "okay." Because of ONE mistake, her entire future is now in jeopardy. But if she acts methodically and with proper guidance, it isn't too late.
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Askio	Oct 18 2006, 08:05 AM Post #10
Beginning and End Posts: 3,215 Group: Veteran Member #436 Joined: October 1, 2005	thanks all. Im still trying to make sure she doesnt kill herself at this time, but my mom knows how this goes and all, so maybe she can give advice.



Inui	Oct 18 2006, 09:14 AM Post #11
Power of Flower Posts: 23,952 Group: Veteran Member #40 Joined: June 9, 2005	Wow @ Yes.



Bosceon	Oct 18 2006, 10:59 AM Post #12
姚明 Posts: 6,826 Group: Veteran Member #51 Joined: June 9, 2005	I've had a lot of experience comforting people in many different ways, but I'm afraid this is out of my league right about now. XD My only suggestion to you is to try and focus on the more optimistic points of having a baby. Not just the negative points. Problem is, when you're a Junior in Highschool there are a lot more negatives them normal. :/ Good luck, though.



Santi	Oct 18 2006, 12:03 PM Post #13
Da Niggaz Leader Posts: 4,749 Group: Veteran Member #57 Joined: June 9, 2005	Around here we have a little day care for mamas in school to drop off their babies and pick them up after school's done. It's not all that bad. Just drop her the good things about having a baby.



Daaku	Oct 18 2006, 12:19 PM Post #14
Teh G Posts: 388 Group: Fusionite Member #208 Joined: June 20, 2005	Seth Oct 18 2006, 02:14 PM Wow @ Yes. I'm glad i'm not the only one that caught that.
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LadyArienne	Oct 18 2006, 07:14 PM Post #15
JUNPEI++ Posts: 513 Group: Fusionite Member #496 Joined: November 16, 2005	Daaku Oct 18 2006, 05:19 PM Seth Oct 18 2006, 02:14 PM Wow @ Yes. I'm glad i'm not the only one that caught that. Same. Even though underaged teen pregnancies are unbelievably common over here, that's one hell of a comment to make.



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