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Isaac Lounge; let the craziness begin
Topic Started: Jun 8 2009, 01:50 AM (858 Views)
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LMAO I'm so proud of you.
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I warned him again. This is so much fun.
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So I'm in a relationship with this guy, Brian. He's really nice and sweet and everything, but kind of strikes me as a typical guy in that he just seems to want to get into my pants.
We're both bad at conversation. We met on the Concrete Canoe team and whenever we're together there, we hardly acknowledge each other (his first rule of us dating was that we wouldn't be all over each other at practice/meetings). I don't mind not being all over him, but because of the age difference (he's a junior, I'm a freshman), we clearly don't have any classes together and he doesn't live in the dorms, so the only time I see him outside of practice is at his place.
He lives about half a mile away from me, which isn't a big problem. I've walked there a few times. However, the problem is communication. He doesn't call, he doesn't text, he doesn't IM - unless I initiate the conversation.
This is really annoying to me. It feels like he doesn't care about me unless I try to care about him. I'm pretty sure the last time he called me was the week that I had the flu, when he wanted to make sure that I wasn't contagious anymore before kissing (and eventually fucking) me. When he was mad at me a few weeks ago, he didn't call me to tell me that he was mad, I caught on and ended up calling him.
Today, I saw him after breaking cylinders with the CC team. After he was done talking on the phone with his sister, I asked him what his plans were for tonight since I had been invited to the hockey game by two friends (just to be clear, that's two separate occasions, neither by my boyfriend) and wanted to know if he wanted to go. He said that he was taking his sister out to dinner and wouldn't be able to go.
So I ended up going to the game with a group of friends (4 guys and 1 girl; we lost the game). After the game, I went to do the homework that I thought was due today only to find that it has been moved back to tomorrow. So I texted Brian telling him that we lost the game (with the implication that 'the game is over and that I have nothing to do, please invite me back to your place so that I can spend the night').
Now it's been over an hour and I'm not walking half a mile in 30 degree weather at 11 at night when he's probably been drinking and thus less fun to sleep with anyways. I'm very upset because we haven't had a decent conversation in a week or so now.
I want to have a conversation about how we never talk and it shouldn't be up to me to do all of the talking. So I'm waiting for him to make the move but my subtle hints don't seem to be working.
Thoughts? Suggestions?

EDIT: He responded just a few minutes ago with "that sucks".
Edited by Dragon_Sniper, Nov 7 2009, 10:58 AM.
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My two cents:

Guys are blockheads. Hints and suggestions don't often work (And in fact I know fellows that take offense when girls hint at things but don't just outright say what's on their minds). Tell him what's up, see what he says. If you guys aren't communicating, that's not exactly grounds for a good relationship. See if you can [re]establish some form of better keeping in touch, and see how it goes. Of course, it also depends on your feelings.
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I still like him, but he's making me frustrated.
Like, we were working in the CC barn with a group of people today from 2-5:30ish. We were both busy with our own projects, so I didn't get a chance to be all "hey bitch we need to talk". Then, when we were all done and leaving, he asks Slippers and Cali (two sophomores on the team) what they want to drink tonight. I'm standing kind of by Brian's car, kicking at the ground, and he asks me what I'm doing tonight. I say that I have no plans, he responds "alright". No invitation to be with him, just "alright".
He better fucking goddamn call me.
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Hello there, Isaac. How you doin'?
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Jordan, come see my show. DO IT. All the violin music in the show is recorded by me, and I even play it live. Come see it. Come see it now.

Meg, I invited you on facebook too, but you're all kinds of far away.
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I really want to, man. I'll see what if I can manage it. Unfortunately, this is turning out to be an extremely busy time for me (Which sucks, considering I'm supposed to be on break =/). But it runs till late January, right? All goes well, I should be able to make that happen.

And you still need to make your way to one of my band's shows, too! We're starting to include my keys and programming skills in the music now =D
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Jon Jon, it makes me all kinds of sad that I won't be able to go.

One of these shows one of these years, I promise.

In the meantime, I wish you the best of luck. <3
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so this is were we hang. weres the fridge?
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Im not a clepto i just crap i just stole your shoes...sorry
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You know, at first, I read that as "where's the fudge?" and I thought I must be slow on the lingo these days or something.
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Hey guys, I figured we owe Manster a little something for the last battle. Any idea what we can give them in reparations for throwing the fight for us?

Thracia is getting the Dark Key, as part of the arrangement with Augustria, and by virtue of that, us too. I committed our teams mostly to help Thracia meet its goals. This should secure Agustrian and Thracian support in our upcoming campaign against Silesia.
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I don't know, you could talk to Wirt and ask if there's anything he wants? Or I guess I could, since I'm the leader or whatever. >:

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Apparently I need to post moar or lukza is going to rape me.

this is me trying to post moar.
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