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Fear of Girls
Topic Started: Jan 22 2010, 06:29 PM (2,412 Views)
Blank
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I kind of hate to admit to it but... I think I'm afraid of girls. Or maybe just too darn shy to talk to them. At the very least girls around my age that I'm not familiar with. Probably even more so if I think they are cute. It's rather embaressing and a little depressing.

How does one get around something like that?
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Wirtjr
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Picture them in their underwear.
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Zoe
 
Wirtjr, Be all My Sins Remember'd says: (7:48:27 PM)
*Pops his bones*
Zoë says: (7:48:54 PM)
which boners and why
Zoë says: (7:48:57 PM)
WHOOPS
Zoë says: (7:49:03 PM)
omg >_>;

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Wirtjr
Jan 22 2010, 06:30 PM
Picture them in their underwear.
Wouldn't that possibly make it worse?
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If by worse you mean the girl asking "Please stop staring and trying to grope me, I'll slap you with a sexual harassment suit" then maybe.

But if that doesn't work, start drinking. It'll remove your fear, but do it with a sober wingman, who can tell you whether or not its a fat chick.
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Wirtjr, Be all My Sins Remember'd says: (7:48:27 PM)
*Pops his bones*
Zoë says: (7:48:54 PM)
which boners and why
Zoë says: (7:48:57 PM)
WHOOPS
Zoë says: (7:49:03 PM)
omg >_>;

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... Sometimes your ideas are the best in the world. Why aren't you an advisor here?
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To be honest, Blank, I think just about every male here can empathize with you... because chances are they're all socially-awkward nerds on the inside. :tom:

My advice is just to stop thinking and go for it, because chances are you're overthinking. Girls aren't rabid bears who will maul you if you make a sudden move, you know.

It's just your male tendency to think about having sex with her every three seconds that gets in the way!
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I always give frying pans to female survivors in Dead Rising. It's really the only thing I'm confident they know how to use.
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Am I one of the few guys here that rarly thinks about that? And to Blank just go for it. Don't let fear hold you down. She won't be single forever.
just so everyone knows, when I rant or I'm mad or I'm happy I curse. Sorry if anyone is offended. though no one tends to give a shit here...

Here are a few small sites I'm on that need help:
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Sora
Jan 22 2010, 07:21 PM
Am I one of the few guys here that rarly thinks about that? And to Blank just go for it. Don't let fear hold you down. She won't be single forever.
I don't even know if she is single or not.

@Crysta: That's part of the problem, but another part is... What do I even say? "Hey, you're f*ckin' hawt! Want to go get some coffee?" Suppose I could always use Kamai's polar bear introduction.
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I'd try to bring it up in casual conversation. Immediately indicating that you want to get into her pants could be a turn off unless you're incredibly hot. :Psyduck:
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GODonPCP
 
I always give frying pans to female survivors in Dead Rising. It's really the only thing I'm confident they know how to use.
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fear of girls? i knew you were a sissy nerd that spends too much time in pr0g class.

BEER (or alcohol in general) solves all shyness issues. drink beer. sam adams.
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Overthinking leads to problems. I asked a girl to homecoming, without knowing she had a boyfriend. She laughed, and they eventually broke up. We went to homecoming together as a result. Things work out.

Just date her first and if she's the kind that lets you in her pants go for it. [manswers]Otherwise, go by the logic that those that take vows are roughly 60-75% more likely to give you a bj. [/manswers]
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Fuck Sam Adams, a classy man drinks scotch.
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Wirtjr, Be all My Sins Remember'd says: (7:48:27 PM)
*Pops his bones*
Zoë says: (7:48:54 PM)
which boners and why
Zoë says: (7:48:57 PM)
WHOOPS
Zoë says: (7:49:03 PM)
omg >_>;

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Well to be honest, there are quite a few nasty girls. But the majority of us are nice (myself obviously not included :NomNomNom: )

Maybe it's where you meet them that makes all the difference. Try finding a girl with a common interest. You like computers right? try teaming up with a girl on a lab or something. A hot girl at the bar with a large group of snoody friends, isn't very likely to give you the time of day, but a girl from your class, school, whatever, might.

Just act friendly and not like we're a piece of meat and you'll be fine.
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You will never fall apart, Diana
You're still in our hearts
Never let you fall apart
Together we'll dance in the dark

She looks good, but her boyfriend says she's a tramp
She's a tramp, she's a vamp
But she still does her dance
She's a tramp, she's a vamp
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Also, when'd I get friends?
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spadeinthehat (6:13:57 PM): I dont know enough about penises
spadeinthehat (6:14:08 PM): *is waiting for an innuendo*
shadowbinder293 (6:14:30 PM): you can know more about my penis *rimshot*
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Piss them off with arrogant stupidity online and then apologize to them a few months later, revealing the intelligent, worldly side of you that they never would have imagined was there.[/autobiography]

Really, just be a gentleman. Stand up straight, always make eye contact, smile and act casual. Start with simple, not heavy things like outings in the day. Lunch, coffee, something of that sort. Discuss interests, treat it as a friendly thing at first. That will put out the 'sex sex sex' mentality and take the pressure off. The better you know a person, the more comfortable you will be. It's all about taking the first steps confidently. What happens from there is up in the air, though. Be aware that rejection is part of the game, but don't let it get you down. If she's not happy, you wouldn't be happy in the long run, either.
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Wirtjr
Jan 22 2010, 08:09 PM
Fuck Sam Adams, a classy man drinks scotch.
You are a fool. :kermit:

Sam Adams is amazing.

A real American beer. :hank:
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