| The Great Purge - update #120 | |
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| Topic Started: Mar 6 2018, 08:52 AM (8,125 Views) | |
| melonbird | Mar 13 2018, 08:05 PM Post #51 |
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Did the cat pee on things before all the upheaval in your life? If not, I would tell the Humane society the cliff notes version of what has been going on, including the stray cats outside. This will help them to place her in the appropriate home. |
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| MrsJ | Mar 13 2018, 08:35 PM Post #52 |
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You need a more immediate solution for Rosie so it’s okay to not pursue the woman in Florida. Would you be open to doing a test run with the pastor? Bring Rosie there for a predetermined amount of time. If everyone is happy, she has a new home. If it doesn’t work out for any reason, you take her back and continue to look for other options. |
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| Raspberry Cheesecake | Mar 13 2018, 08:41 PM Post #53 |
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This is a good idea. You could have her mom take Rosie up this week and then stop by when you’re in Michigan and see how it’s going. |
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| Bailey | Mar 13 2018, 08:58 PM Post #54 |
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I’m so happy to have you guys to talk through this with. Being honest about the cat is probably the way to go. She hasn’t had this problem before so I don’t know what to attribute it to. But I will mention the strays and the music lessons. I like the idea of being able to visit Rosie, or at least to be given updates on a regular basis. They’re literally down the street from my parents and have been the best dog owners. We’ve commented on it before. Edited by Bailey, Mar 13 2018, 08:58 PM.
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| BeerNutz | Mar 13 2018, 09:09 PM Post #55 |
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ROSIE NEEDS JESUS |
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| Allday | Mar 13 2018, 09:14 PM Post #56 |
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If you're sure about the pastor's abilities as a pet owner and they will give her a good home, I'd go with the pastor for the dog. The cat I'm really not sure about. Definitely tell the truth about all the upheaval in your family's life. It affects the pets as well. I would say there's been a lot going on with the divorce, working, etc. and the cat has had elimination problems. |
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| Bailey | Mar 13 2018, 09:43 PM Post #57 |
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😂🤣😂 |
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| Suzanne Sugarbaker | Mar 13 2018, 10:23 PM Post #58 |
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My DD has a Newfie. She said to contact the Newfie Rescue Association closet to you and they will find a foster home and eventually a new, very suitable home. She said it’s no expense to you. https://www.facebook.com/newfoundland.rescueme.org/ Edited by Suzanne Sugarbaker, Mar 13 2018, 10:24 PM.
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| Bailey | Mar 14 2018, 11:53 AM Post #59 |
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Today is the day and I’m trying really hard to hold it together. I can’t allow emotion to take over, so I’m trying to stay focused on the big picture. My mom will be in town in a couple of hours. I’m hoping she’ll be here to accompany me to the humane society before i have to get the kids from school. I’m tired of doing things like this alone, so it would be amazing if she could join me. If not, I’ll just go through the motions and let get a huge hug when she does get in town. I broke down this morning and sobbed into Hazel’s fur. So at least I had that last moment with her. I apologized and said all the things I had to say. And now I’m crying again. I could really use some positive words right now. Please no flames as I can’t handle them right now. This is what’s best for my family and it’s the best chance I can give her right now. Thank you. ♥️ |
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| bubbles b kampin on da beach | Mar 14 2018, 11:58 AM Post #60 |
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Hugs Bailey I am so sorry. |
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| Mukta | Mar 14 2018, 12:01 PM Post #61 |
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Anchor Baby
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Doing what is right isn't always easy. You are doing the right thing for all of the living creatures in your family. Letting your animals go is going to increase the quality of life for everyone. |
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| BeerNutz | Mar 14 2018, 12:02 PM Post #62 |
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Sending lots of hugs and love, Bailey. |
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| Genny Wren | Mar 14 2018, 12:04 PM Post #63 |
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Big hugs Bailey. I know this isn't easy, but it is what's best for you and the animals. You been handling all the things for awhile now and it has to be overwhelming at times. You're doing a great job! |
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| NomNom | Mar 14 2018, 12:04 PM Post #64 |
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You are not doing the easy thing, you are doing the right thing. Of course it hurts. Hugs Bailey, you are a good mom to Rosie and Hazel. I got Mia from someone who could not support her anymore. She is the #1 woman in my husband's life. They are bonded forever. I hope Rosie and Hazel also find their forever humans. |
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| BrightEyez | Mar 14 2018, 12:20 PM Post #65 |
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*hugz* Bailey |
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| Nautilus | Mar 14 2018, 12:26 PM Post #66 |
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Bailey, you're doing the very best for everyone involved. Think how happy those animals will be in their new homes. Hugs, Nautilus |
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| allycat | Mar 14 2018, 12:28 PM Post #67 |
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(((HUGS))) You're doing the right thing. |
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| Bailey | Mar 14 2018, 12:34 PM Post #68 |
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And now that I’ve put the wheels in motion for the pastor to take Rosie, he’s unsure. He has another dog and that’s a big gamble to take. I’m unwilling to put her through that much traveling for an uncertain situation. Since I’m coming up in two weeks for spring break, I have the option of letting Rosie try it out over there for a few days. If it didn’t work oh, she would just come home with me. So that’s a back up plan I guess. I’m back to contacting the others who have shown interest. The breeder emailed me to say that she trusted that I would find a good home for Rosie, and just to pass on her info. So two steps forward...three steps back... Edited by Bailey, Mar 14 2018, 01:04 PM.
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| Raspberry Cheesecake | Mar 14 2018, 12:59 PM Post #69 |
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*hugs* |
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| Aqua | Mar 14 2018, 01:16 PM Post #70 |
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Bailey, one thing my contact said was that rescues have the resources to do all of this vetting for you. I'm less experienced in breed rescue than she is, but I've found this to be true. We have a process and what we hope the surrendering owners can give us is info that will help us find the best possible match for their dog. This isn't your fault, Bailey. You'd never have given these guys up if you had any other feasible option but you can't do it all. That's not your fault. You're not doing this to them. You're doing this for all of you. |
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| Helen | Mar 14 2018, 01:19 PM Post #71 |
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Oh Bailey, massive hugs to you. |
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| Jenny Lee | Mar 14 2018, 01:26 PM Post #72 |
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Aqua said it well. Bailey, I trust you, so I know you are doing the right thing for everyone involved. (((hugs))) |
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| Suzanne Sugarbaker | Mar 14 2018, 01:29 PM Post #73 |
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Yes! I posted this above. |
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| Suzanne Sugarbaker | Mar 14 2018, 01:30 PM Post #74 |
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Hugs Bailey! Life is hard. ❤️ |
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| PinkPaws66 | Mar 14 2018, 01:39 PM Post #75 |
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Bailey, I am so sorry you are having to deal with this. I really hope they get loving homes. I do think the Newfie rescue might be the best help for Rosie. Hugs! |
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| Bailey | Mar 14 2018, 02:46 PM Post #76 |
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Yep, we talked about it earlier on the thread and it’s in the works. Thank you! |
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| Bailey | Mar 14 2018, 02:50 PM Post #77 |
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I did it. I may have cried the whole time, but I did it. They were amazing and I feel really good about the facility. They are a no-kill shelter and have a cat room for their long-term residents. They weee heartbroken right along with me and said they would do everything they could to make sure she went to a good home. The alternative is for her to go to prison. 😂 The shelter has a program with the local women’s prison. Inmates on good behavior can be placed with an animal. They workers said this might be the best option for her as there is no carpet in prison. 😂 So that made me laugh. She’s the only child of mine that is allowed to go there. |
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| Allday | Mar 14 2018, 02:54 PM Post #78 |
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Aww ((hugs)). I'm glad you did it and I'm glad they're a no kill, that gives you peace of mind, at least it would be for me. Was your mom able to go with you? You're doing what's best for you and your family but you're also doing what's best for the animals. Even though you have to get rid of them you're still doing your due diligence. That's admirable and I don't think a lot of people would do that. |
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| Bailey | Mar 14 2018, 02:59 PM Post #79 |
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Thank you. My mom got lost on the way and I had to go alone. I did run into a girl from AA there. Haven’t seen her since my life fell apart. It was kind of fitting to have someone there who could make the joke, “girl, we can barely take care of ourselves - don’t be so hard on yourself.” So that was nice. My mom is here now and we are going to go get the kids. Time to look happy! lol |
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| TudorFan | Mar 14 2018, 05:25 PM Post #80 |
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(((Bailey))) You did what's best for her. It sounds like a nice place. The prison program sounds awesome. I can't even imagine the love I'd shower on a kitty if I was a prisoner. She's going to be just fine. ❤ |
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| Gaping Maw | Mar 14 2018, 05:28 PM Post #81 |
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Sending you hugs and support. |
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| Helen | Mar 14 2018, 05:49 PM Post #82 |
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I'm so pleased to read your update. You really are amazing. |
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| Suzanne Sugarbaker | Mar 14 2018, 06:11 PM Post #83 |
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I missed it. 🤭☺️ |
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| melonbird | Mar 14 2018, 06:19 PM Post #84 |
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Sounds like a perfect place for her, a group that will help her to find what she needs. You did the right thing, as hard as it was. |
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| PinkPaws66 | Mar 14 2018, 06:42 PM Post #85 |
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Bailey, I really like the sound of that shelter. They'll take good care of her! Sounds like a loving place! |
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| allycat | Mar 14 2018, 07:43 PM Post #86 |
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I’ve seen the prison cats on Lockup. Those cats are loved and treated better than my children. |
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| Bailey | Mar 14 2018, 09:08 PM Post #87 |
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LOL! That’s exactly what I’m hoping for! Thank you so much for saying that! |
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| Bailey | Mar 25 2018, 12:52 PM Post #88 |
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I am about to drive Rosie to meet her new parents. They are former Newfie breeders and have a 5 year old Newf who needs a sister. M I’m keeping my head up and my eye on the prize. She’s going to be in heaven with this next life of hers. A huge house, 3 fenced-in acres, and a helicopter mom who won’t drive in bad weather with her dogs in the car. Good vibes and stuff are always welcome. ♥️ |
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| Cassady | Mar 25 2018, 12:55 PM Post #89 |
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Good job! Doing what’s best for you and making sure Rosie has a fabulous new life. Best of everything 🎉 |
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| Walternate | Mar 25 2018, 12:57 PM Post #90 |
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Do you know if your kitty was adopted yet? |
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| Stimpy | Mar 25 2018, 01:08 PM Post #91 |
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Amateur Rabble Rouser
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*hugs the B* |
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| Allday | Mar 25 2018, 01:20 PM Post #92 |
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I'm so glad you found her a good home! She will be in heaven there! |
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| Lady Wolf | Mar 25 2018, 01:53 PM Post #93 |
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((Bailey)) You have done the right thing for everyone. |
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| AquarianGrandma | Mar 25 2018, 04:25 PM Post #94 |
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Purple Enchantress
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{{HUGS}}, Bailey, and sending good vibes for all involved. |
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| Gaping Maw | Mar 25 2018, 04:36 PM Post #95 |
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I’m happy for Rosie and for you. |
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| Bets | Mar 25 2018, 05:12 PM Post #96 |
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I think it's great you've worked so hard to find your pets the best options for new homes. I'm sure they will be well taken care of and have long happy lives. |
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| Shotgun Sally | Mar 25 2018, 10:11 PM Post #97 |
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That sounds like an ideal home. Who better to take care of her than former breeders? |
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| Bailey | Mar 25 2018, 10:27 PM Post #98 |
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Shit. Rosie bit her new owner. I said I didn’t think she was food aggressive, but that she should feed the dogs separately just in case. Well she poured the bag of food I had given her into another container, thus causing Rosie to attack her dog (also a Newf). The owner was bit while breaking them apart. She’s going to feed them separately and be cautious for a few days, but if this happens again, Rosie’s coming back. I don’t know what to do. |
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| Walternate | Mar 25 2018, 10:38 PM Post #99 |
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Cross your fingers she settles in and it doesn't happen again. |
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| adrienne | Mar 25 2018, 10:41 PM Post #100 |
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+1 |
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