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| Hotspot | Jun 29 2012, 06:17 PM Post #1 |
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Do you have any ex friends? If so, what happened to you and them that they are now ex friends to you? Did you break apart, have a fight.. etc.. I had one friend that I've known since I was about seven, we were great friends. We laughed, we cried, we had so much fun together! We played some of the same games, we watched some of the same shows; he was my best friend for a long time. But, as we got older, our friendship would fade and fade. He was a popular kid that hung out with obnoxious kids, I was the shy kid with no friends. I hated his friends, and I even told him that I didn't like his other friends. In fact, some of his other friends picked on me for playing video games all of the time; they asked me if I had heard of a game that wasn't real because they made up the name on the spot and it was a ridiculously sounding name. He had great grades in school, and I had average. He liked Women and I liked Men...... We just became so much different after the years went, that it is actually hard for me to even say to him. Meanwhile, ten years ago I could say to him and start an immediate conversation with him. But now, I just find it so difficult, he is just so different now.I don't see him anymore though, we're just two completely different people now that used to know each other. We still say happy birthday on facebook to each other, but that's about it. |
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| Grungie | Jun 29 2012, 08:07 PM Post #2 |
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This girl I used to be friends with my freshman year in college. She was a little strange, but she was fun to be around at first. Then she later started turning into "herself" and that's when I found out she's a massive attention whore and meets up with guys and then talks about how they "raped her" if it was 1 or 2 guys, I would probably have believed her, but then it turned into every guy that we knew she knew. |
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| Queen Pikachu | Jun 30 2012, 08:14 PM Post #3 |
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I used to be really close friends with this person I know online, but because this person got their wires crossed about something they didn't like, this person decided to end their 5 year long friendship with me before I got a chance to do it quietly. You see; the truth is that I had been slowly moving away from this person & felt like I was being used by them in order for them to be more popular. I always felt like I was being tossed under the bus because they always wanted to be the more popular friend & thus would use manipulation in order to get my friends to fight with theirs. And in the end; I was just getting tired of it & honestly I just wanted it to end. So I planned to actually go offline a week before I moved & not say a word to this person; but before I could do it this person was able to get to me & un-friend me me before I was able to move & thus ended the "friendship" long before I had a chance to quietly vanish from their life any way. Btw; just recently this person who I wanted to get away from has tried to get back in contact with me.. Idk if I believe that this person wants to try to be friends with me again or not; because deep down I wonder if they have ulterior motives to make them self the popular friend to every one in their circle by using me (yet again) as their target to make them self more popular by comparison. <.< Idk maybe I'm over reacting, but it feels that way to me. Edited by Queen Pikachu, Jun 30 2012, 08:16 PM.
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| Prince | Jul 6 2012, 01:48 AM Post #4 |
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I used to have a close friend myself. She was a HUGE furry fan & had her own pretend furry life, a furry family with tons & TONS of kids that she had with her boyfriend who she's in love with.. Yet the reality was that she lived many many miles away from her boyfriend who promised that some day they'd get married. The problem is, they dated for over 4 years & he never once purposed to her & kept lying to her that he'd come out & live close to her so that they could be together. In the end she ended up moving out to be next to him & HE had moved away before she got there. Needless to say; she was crushed. So she came back & took her disappointment out on me for over a month. Then one day I told her I had it, I wasn't her old boyfriend & I wasn't the reason she was angry & miserable & that as of that day we were finished as friends. Just because I was the one who tried to stick by her side & comfort her; when in the end she wanted the dream that this a**hat had sold to her over the internet. We haven't spoken to each other for over a year now since because of this incident.
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| toetapping | Jul 22 2012, 05:03 PM Post #5 |
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I think as you get older you both change and in the end you have nothing in common. You start to drift apart and neither of you really want to contact each other so you don't. I have many ex friends over the years but never argued with them you lose contact especially as you shift around to try and find your little niche in the world. You are better to have a couple of closer friends than 2 dozen acquaintances. |
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| Leo | Jul 22 2012, 09:10 PM Post #6 |
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Everyone changes over time. I had some friends in elementary school who now ignore me in HighSchool because they think they're too cool to talk to me. It's a shame, but whatever just comes to show you that those kind of people are not your real friend. |
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| toetapping | Jul 23 2012, 04:11 PM Post #7 |
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They certainly have a problem thinking they are so cool Leo. One day they will get an awful shock. Every one is equal and they will find that out eventually. |
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| Hotspot | Oct 13 2012, 08:15 PM Post #8 |
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It's interesting if I think about it, but I've never really had friends that have stuck with me. After I would leave a school or a job, we would drift apart. When I was in school, I would be great friends with someone, and then we would drift away each year. I had this one friend named Kaylyn in the 8th grade, and we were the best friends ever. But, by the time we were in the 12th grade, we were strangers to each other. Year after year, we just grew apart. Although, I did meet knew people in the 9th grade that I knew from 9-12 grade, which was good. But even then, we grew a part a bit. I actually had a bunch of college friends that I made friends with in September of 2010, and ever since I graduated, I have not really spoken to them at all. Just a really short conversation with two of them, I've only seen three of them after my graduation, and as of the 31st of December, it will have been a year since I've seen all of them. I also worked in a mail room for four months, and when I was excused from the job.... I have not talked to them at all, even though I have their facebooks. It seems to me like I only have friends for that certain place and or time, but I'd really love to have at least one friend that sticks around with me and tries to stay in touch with me. |
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| Naiwen | Oct 14 2012, 10:50 AM Post #9 |
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Nop, I don't got any of those... |
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| Chaco | Nov 2 2012, 01:36 PM Post #10 |
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I had a friend who was very close to me once, he and I would chat every day and you know the drill? Well he and I are actually still friends, just not "close" like we once were. But it's a real loss when your trust of someone can drop so thin. My reasoning behind it, is that we both moved to different places in life, and we just were not compatible anymore. Anyway, this is a morbid topic so I'm going to keep it short. |
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| Flik | Nov 23 2012, 12:29 PM Post #11 |
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When i lived in London and Chatham when i was younger but lost contact with them all after moving a way from those places. |
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| Chaco | Nov 26 2012, 09:42 AM Post #12 |
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Yeah, I have lost many a friend because they moved away. For some reason trying to sustain a long distance relationship with these people has been hard if not impossible. |
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| Hotspot | Jun 10 2014, 05:18 PM Post #13 |
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I am distancing myself from a person that I met in December; I met them from a very good friend of mine, they will probably be an ex friend of mine eventually. They're very rude, a show off and a snob. My good friend does not like this person anymore.. and after last night when she blew up on me over nothing.. I am pretty done with her myself... she's crazy! She's very negative and gets angry over stupid things. |
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