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Topic Started: Jun 9 2013, 01:46 PM (234 Views)
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I still can't believe it's not butter!

Do you have a friend who is friends with someone you cannot stand? Have you ever told them of your dislike of that person? Do you think it's the right thing to do or hold your peace?

I have two stories for this...

One time, when I was about 14... I told my best friend IRL that I didn't like his other friends that I had met before.
Now that I look at it in the present, it was really rude to say at the time.
The ironic part is that he is still great friends with them, but he and I aren't really friends anymore. It has nothing to do with what I said years ago; but in fact we are just two completely different people now... he is basically just like his friends that I don't like, which is also why we aren't really friends anymore.
One of the annoying things was when I used to hang out with him, sometimes his other friends would be there, and he would only really pay attention to them.
The reason why I didn't like his friends was because they were obnoxious and rude.


I also have this one friend online (No one that is a member here or on any forum, just so you know.). We are really good friends, but she is also probably better friends with this other girl that I don't really care for. Usually I have no problem with this girl, but on occasion tends to say rude and ignorant things, so I am not the biggest fan of her.
I wouldn't tell my friend I don't like her though.
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Yep, I know this feeling of not liking some one. My 'friend' girlpants (a nickname I use for this person) is ones of those kinds of people I really can't stand. Thus when I moved away I didn't tell them where I moved to. Still didn't stop them as they stalked my husband to where he works anyway. <.<; *sigh*
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I still can't believe it's not butter!

The irony of my earlier post is that I am no longer friends with either of the people I mentioned above!

The one guy in the first paragraph I grew apart of, and now he's like an alien to me.

The second person, was a girl who changed overnight and turned into someone else! Although, we patched things up.. things were still not the same.
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Yep that happens a lot in life & people do tend to change over time. It's just a part of growing up & getting out and meeting new people you get different expectations from them.

I know that I'm not friends with a lot of people online that I used to be really close with & tbh I'm kinda glad I'm not. One person was just using me as a way to get free stuff for them self seeing as it's a privilege for me to be their friends & I had to buy them stuff in order to stay friends with them & all. So I'm GLAD to be out of that relationship... And the other person was just expecting way to much out of me to have stayed friends with them anyway. ^^; XD

Still I know that all of us have changed over the years & to say were all the same kind of people we were a few years ago is just 'ignorant' so I'm sure that we'll all change & grow over time. Hopefully I can remain friends with you Hotspot cause your a very important online friend to me & I'm very grateful to have you as one of my close friends who I know that I can count on. So thanks for being so patient with me & sweet: I do appreciate it. ^^V
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I have a friend who I know online right now (not a member here btw) and they have been a close and amazing friend to me over the last 1-2 years now. However, they have some other friends who are....questionable. In the sense that they are adults who act like they are 13, they really annoy me but, my friend is ALWAYS with them, so it feels like to be friends with my friend, I have to like these annoying people too. (One of these friends of friend keeping eating into his mic, it's disgusting T_T)
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