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| Spear | Sun Mar 23, 2008 2:37 am Post #1 |
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HIGH LIFE!!!!!!!!!
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About six months or so ago I made a thread informing everyone that I had broken up with my girlfriend. Well since then, I've been trying to get her back. I've tried practically everything, some being conscious decisions, some sub-conscious. I've tried overpowering her with sweetness, tried the hard to get thing. Had her worry about me. Everything. Nothing's worked. She went out with this other guy for a month. Things seemed to be going okay with them, until he texted her when she was 800 miles away saying they're done. (pansy) She couldn't get a clear reason why out of him. Best thing was, "you're just not what I'm looking for". So she gets over him, and moves on. Her best friend and her friend's boyfriend break up. She made a fan-fucking-tasmical decision IMO to come dangerously close to going out with her friend's ex. I also add that this second dude is also her ex's (guy that cheated on her) best friend. See the red flags here? Not sure what ended it, but from the sounds of it, they got REALLY close to going out, and the whole thing blew up in their faces. Her friend and the guy got back together, and everything was peachy again. I get a call from her not too long after that. She sounded really upset. Turns out she found out the reason why her ex broke up with her. Apparently, he cheated on her with this sleazy whore with whom he works with. She continued to talk to him, which baffles me. So anywho, she's been camping for the past week with her friend and her friend's boyfriend. Oh, AND the guy who cheated on her. I haven't talked to her in a week, and to be honest, I'm starting to think that her and this guy are going to get back together. I don't get it. This is the same guy who cheated on her, then tried to undermine her intelligence by lying to her about it, and yet she's giving him another chance? What in the blue hell? But here's what's confusing me. Throughout this whole thing, I'VE been the one she calls at night. I'M the guy she texts when she's bored. We STILL say I love you to each other. And yet she keeps making bad decisions like almost dating her friend's ex, and giving this fucko of an ex of hers the ability to get back into her life, rather than getting back together with me? Seriously, what the hell? No real point to this. Just felt like venting. If you have an opinion, go ahead and post. If you're SN is yoda or spiderpig or whatever it is now, just go click another thread. |
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| LAL | Sun Mar 23, 2008 2:46 am Post #2 |
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That's what friends are for. You're that friend so you gotta suck it up. Had a couple interesting things occur tonight (slightly related to this topic but not really) but I think I'll save it for the morning. I'm too lazy to type... |
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| CELTS20 | Sun Mar 23, 2008 2:50 am Post #3 |
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Mission 17: Complete
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Yeah, it does sound like you're sort of in the "friend zone." Another thing, don't you and her live very far away from each other? If so, then she probably doesn't want a long-distance relationship. But I get what you mean by her making bad decisions. No reason for her to go back to a guy who cheated on her in the first place. Women can be crazy sometimes. |
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| yankee242B | Sun Mar 23, 2008 2:52 am Post #4 |
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I'm a lead farmer, motherf...
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I didn't read the whole thing, but my advice is move on. I've tried the "get back together" thing, and it never works. Did that with my HS girl, one in college and even my ex-fiance for a while. If it didn't work the first time, there really isn't much chance of it working the second time. I'd just move on if I were you. |
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| RTT | Sun Mar 23, 2008 3:40 am Post #5 |
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Throw Your Diamonds In The Air`!
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I don't know man. One part of me says that everything will be cool, she still loves you and it's all meant to be. But that's because of two things. 1# I'm a hopeless romantic. and more importantly 2# You and Shelby are awesome friends, who doesn't like to see two great people together? But then the realist side of me punches through and says that there's emotional attachment still involved in the situation but it will never be what it once was. |
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| jrmycmpfan | Sun Mar 23, 2008 4:00 am Post #6 |
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Keep cool my babies
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Faggot.... Lol, just had to do a Spiderpig-esque comment. But, isn't she like 15 years old? Girls are stupid and immature then and don't really know what they want yet. I wouldn't overreact and be patient. She might get over the guy eventually. But then again I don't really know her. But speaking in general. |
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| Spear | Sun Mar 23, 2008 10:53 am Post #7 |
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HIGH LIFE!!!!!!!!!
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*16 The reason I'm holding out hope for this though, is that with a lot of the things she does, you can TELL she's still in love with me. Maybe she's put those feelings aside somewhere, but you can tell they're still there. A friend of mine's girlfriend gave me the best explanation I've heard so far. She said.... "The reason she's doing this kind of stuff like dating other guys and sort of putting you out of her life for now, is because she knows she can't really have you right now. You're several states away, and every time she starts to really think about you, she misses you too badly." RTT knows more than anybody else here about how close we were/are, and just how good of a couple we ended up making. I dunno. I'm sort of thinking that once we have the ability to see each other a lot more, then I'll get my chance again. |
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| osubeaver69 | Sun Mar 23, 2008 11:15 am Post #8 |
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Hayden be mine. <3
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go 'spear' her in. She is 16, how old are you? |
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| KRS-One | Sun Mar 23, 2008 11:31 am Post #9 |
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So long, and thanks for all the fish...
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You're in the friend zone now. The only way to escape it is to be the best friend you can be for many months, or possibly years. It is escapable, though. I've done it. It took about 18 months, but I did it. |
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| shinpapoose | Sun Mar 23, 2008 12:24 pm Post #10 |
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Bronx Breed
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16 year old girls dont know what they want.. my ex is 16.. and she stays flirting with me.. but then she like changes her mind.. so i just pay less attention to her.. now she all over me.. but i moved on.. they really dont know waht they want till its gone.. |
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