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I'm done..; 4 years of bulling...
Topic Started: Oct 13 2012, 09:15 PM (537 Views)
KaitlynMaybear789
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Hi, My names Kaitlyn, I'm 15 and ever since the 6th grade, I've been bullied about my looks and weight. I would tell you my whole story, but it would be a book honestly.

My sixth grade year, we have three schools combine into one middle school. My friends from my elementary school were great friends, I thought, until one day one of them started hanging out with one of the "popular" people. Well eventually all my friends were hanging out with them, but I wasn't allowed because I was "fat and disgusting". Eventually all my friends turned against me cause they couldn't talk to the "outsiders" Which their wasn't many of us "outsiders" I hated my sixth grade year.
My seventh grade year I posted a picture on facebook. This is where I got my first comment about how I look. The comment said, "Take the photo down you ugly cow" Of course no one was going to defend me, so I took the photo down. But the next day at school sucked. I got called ugly so much.
To this day people say "Here comes the fatty" or "Here comes the ugly elephant". I don't even weigh 200 pounds. I'm not sure why I'm called fat. But lately i've been starving myself. I haven't ate in 5 days. I just want the stuff to stop. I've cut. I've took pills, I've tried ending my life. I just want everything to end.....
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DeadCash

you need a close friend don't give up and i am here if you want to talk

never give up once you hit the end there is no place to go but up
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ChiTownSheWolf
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Miss Amanda
Don't give up ... it does get better! You don't need to take your own life, especially at such a young age. Just because things suck right now, doesn't mean they won't get better and you have SO much to look forward to in life! If you want to talk please please please PM me!
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KaitlynMaybear789
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I don't have anyone to be close friends with.... every time I try getting a friend, they end up finding better friends and ditch me.....
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Ceiran

Please don't take your life, it wont help, you should ignore the people who say those and just pretend it doesn't bother you, they will soon stop, Dead Cash is right, you need a friend, almost 99% of people on this website will be your friend, No One should judge you for who you are, but what you do. We're all hear if you need someone to talk to, don't be afraid. And you shouldn't starve yourself either, eat fruit and go on a diet or excercise alot. If you don't already anyway (:
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JamesA
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Pro
Who better to start a friendship with than a stranger? I'm here for a chat or whatever :) Chin up!

Jamesarnold95@hotmail.com - 24/7 hotline ;D
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SheenaStax

First you should take anyone willing to make those kind of comments off your facebook they are not worth your time.

Please don't starve yourself over a bunch of immature teenagers either. You are worth far more then that.

I've been there years from now these people will be part of your past. Don't let them bring you down. Hold your head up and do what makes you the happiest. Be You.

And if you need a person to talk to shoot me a message
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Joshua

Don't worry about stupid "popular" people they are pathetic, how they think they run the world.. They mean nothing to you right so if you get comments from them ignore them.. Its hard I know I used to be just like that things change for the best trust me.. I'm always here if you need to chat:) anytime!
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Sophidactyl
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Looks aren't everything, my friend. In order to understand why you've become the target of others, you have to first understand why bullying begins. Bullying is often done by those who have a lot of problems of their own. After all, if someone were in a good state of mind, why would they get their kicks off of humiliating others?

Bullies want to put others down in order to make themselves feel stronger. They feel that if they maintain a strong offensive front, everyone else will look bad in comparison. This means they can feel better about themselves by making you feel worse. It is not because you are any worse than anyone else.

When I was in public school, just a few years ago, I was picked on quite a bit. People would tell me that I was gay, or that I was ugly, or any number of other insults. The strange thing is, looking back, there were plenty of kids that I would have considered "uglier" than me. There were also many kids who really ended up being day, that nobody had suspected of being gay at the time.

Things will get better. Looks aren't always going to matter. What matters is that you know better than they do. While they're busy humiliating others, you're gathering an understanding of the world around you. That's so much more valuable. Just don't let them get to you, okay? Show them you're better. :]
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jenniferlove
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Jenn
Do not allow these people to get you down. Once school is over, you won't have to deal with these people ever again. It's true, I don't see anyone from my school...and honestly I could care less.

Please eat. Eat healthy if it'll help you feel better..but eat. It's so not healthy to not eat.

This person who made that nasty comment should not be a friend of yours on facebook. Delete them and anyone who is not nice to you. Make your profile private.

You have lots of people here to help. You are not a cow.

Things will get better. Do not allow them to get the best of you.
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