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Topic Started: Oct 14 2012, 06:24 PM (61 Views)
Countrygirlllll16

Okay so i been with this guy for a while now and I'm inlove with him.He makes me so happy But some of my family and friends dont like him so they are always starting drama for us.And my older sister wont let me see my niece half of the time becuase she dont like him for no reason.
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Palistus

What do you need advice on? I don't really think there's an instant solution for getting family to like someone, but you should tell your sister that not letting you see her daughter just because of someone you're dating is cold and cruel, unless you're with him, in which case just stop being with him when you want to see her.

It depends on how much you like the guy for a course of action though. If he's worth your family's ostracizing, then just let time pass by and accept their dislike, and give them a taste of their own medicine after you move out. If you don't care about him that much, then you could always just break up with him, but I don't recommend letting your family control your dating life through their immature behavior.
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The Listener

First of all, you have to ask them why they don't like him.
My mother-in-law hates me right now, but it will not stop me to date her son.
If you really love him and thinks he's good for you, you should stick to your decision. It isn't bad either to listen to their opinion, but in the end it's your choice.
And that your sister doesn't let you be with your niece, is just childish. She should grow-up and talk like an adult.
Good luck! :)
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jmyer

Find out why they dont like him and urge them to get to know hom. As for seeing your niece, you will just have to make time to see her with out him. As a mom I can admit sometimes us moms get a little crazy and we protect our kids from some silly things so try not to look at your sis as punishing you but protecting your niece.
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