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Why are many gay men mean?
Topic Started: Mar 26 2014, 11:32 AM (131 Views)
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Like perez before he lost his weight? :(
I hate these types which seem to be most of the not ugly gay men. Even many of the fugs who should not be talkin are like this. :(
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I think if you were a fly on the wall when straights are talking you'd find that gay men are not really any meaner than our straight counterparts overall. We may be cattier, but that's only because we are generally far wittier than straight men. But straight people, both male and female are just as hateful as gay people IMO.
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We once asked a tuna-taster(str8 guy) this same questia, and he responded "cuz their butt-holes are sore"!
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“The mass of men lead lives of quiet desperation. Henry D. Thoreau

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I agree that I think there are plenty of mean straight people too. So the reasons can be varied. A cornered animal becomes mean, perhaps some gay men live lives in which they feel trapped.
Perhaps it's a defense mechanism to cope with a hostile world. There's no one reason why someone becomes mean. A lot of time anger comes from pain, whether straight or gay. Maybe it's from pain and it's part of "putting up a wall".

Often the bullies on the playground are straight. Do they grow out of it? not likely, they go on to become soldiers, police or other positions of authority where they can continue their bullying behavior, but it's not seen as bullying because it goes with the territory. Which reminds me, maybe in some cases it's arrested development.

I've known gay men who were as sweet as honey and didn't have a mean bone in their body, but they were older men. So maybe meanness is tied to age and you mellow like wine over time.
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The statistic I find disturbing about the gay community, gays make up about 15 percent of the total population, yet 43% of serial killers are gay.
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That 43% statistic has been bandied about for a long time and it is constantly misquoted. The 43% figure supposedly represents the percentage of serial killers who have had homosexual experience at some point in their lives. It does not represent that the people who make up that number are homosexual. Same sex experience does not a homosexual make.
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43% would more accurately describe the minimum number of males who have tasted pinga more than once in their lifetime.
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You live a very cloistered life, OP. Have you ever eavesdropped on straight guys talking? They gossip and put each other down, but it's not of the MARY variety it's "loser" "cocksucker" "wimp" "I fucked your wife last night". They're like meangirls, but because it's "mantalk" no one picks up on it.
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