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Response to my Craigslist seeking-sex ad
Topic Started: Sep 25 2014, 05:16 PM (79 Views)
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Regarding my reluctance to enable a married man to cheat:

"I am a pretty non descript office worker, doing a little bit of something for my
company. Way back when I worked in security, so we have that in common.

Yes, I do have to be home before the wife and kids. I do understand about your
reluctance to be with someone who cheats on their wife. Believe me, it is
something that I struggle with as well. That is why I am not one to try and just
go from person to person, I do not want or need any hassles with stds as well.

It is hard for me to explain, but this is a missing piece of my life. I believe
that I am a good person with flaws, and this is one of them. I like having sex
or doing sexual things with men. That is something that my wife would never
understand or be ok with. So my options are to not do anything and explore this
side of my life, with someone safe and sane. Or do nothing. I am ok with the
route I have chosen. In a perfect world, I would be free to tell my wife and
live an open existence. But it is not a perfect life and neither am I.

In the long run I am not looking to change my status in life. I am not breaking
up and divorcing my wife. But I can't ignore this part of me as well. So I do
what I can, when I can. Ideally, I would like to find someone that can be an
ongoing thing within my limits and constraints. I've not found that yet, but
maybe I will."

Mike
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apartment four
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Huh?
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What exactly is the point of your rant? That you're gay and closeted to your wife and kids? Or are you looking for excuses to cheat on your wife with other closeted/DL gay men?
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I may be wrong, but I don't believe the OP's post was something he himself wrote. I thought it was a C&P from Craigslist.
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