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| Response to my Craigslist seeking-sex ad | |
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| Tweet Topic Started: Sep 25 2014, 05:16 PM (79 Views) | |
| Single Gay White Male | Sep 25 2014, 05:16 PM Post #1 |
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Regarding my reluctance to enable a married man to cheat: "I am a pretty non descript office worker, doing a little bit of something for my company. Way back when I worked in security, so we have that in common. Yes, I do have to be home before the wife and kids. I do understand about your reluctance to be with someone who cheats on their wife. Believe me, it is something that I struggle with as well. That is why I am not one to try and just go from person to person, I do not want or need any hassles with stds as well. It is hard for me to explain, but this is a missing piece of my life. I believe that I am a good person with flaws, and this is one of them. I like having sex or doing sexual things with men. That is something that my wife would never understand or be ok with. So my options are to not do anything and explore this side of my life, with someone safe and sane. Or do nothing. I am ok with the route I have chosen. In a perfect world, I would be free to tell my wife and live an open existence. But it is not a perfect life and neither am I. In the long run I am not looking to change my status in life. I am not breaking up and divorcing my wife. But I can't ignore this part of me as well. So I do what I can, when I can. Ideally, I would like to find someone that can be an ongoing thing within my limits and constraints. I've not found that yet, but maybe I will." Mike |
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| Guest | Sep 25 2014, 05:20 PM Post #2 |
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| Guest | Sep 26 2014, 01:13 AM Post #3 |
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| apartment four | Sep 26 2014, 10:54 PM Post #4 |
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| Guest | Sep 26 2014, 11:01 PM Post #5 |
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What exactly is the point of your rant? That you're gay and closeted to your wife and kids? Or are you looking for excuses to cheat on your wife with other closeted/DL gay men? |
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| Tybee | Sep 27 2014, 07:20 AM Post #6 |
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I may be wrong, but I don't believe the OP's post was something he himself wrote. I thought it was a C&P from Craigslist. |
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