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Our husband has threatened us; unless we do exactly as he wants in
Topic Started: Aug 8 2013, 02:49 AM (171 Views)
Erna
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our doing a free favor for him on which we will not make a penny and will actually cost us!

He has threatened that he will leave us for good and maybe other things as well!

What should we do?
Edited by Erna, Aug 8 2013, 02:51 AM.
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Continue writing about it on social media.

We sit, enthralled.
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Erna
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Now that he has threatened us with who knows what, we are frightened.

We feel that the marriage is now officially over, we are afraid to have anything more to do with him.

We are trying to contact a dear sister in NYC to ask what to do.

Discuss!
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Zzzzzzzzzzzzzzz.
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You already know exactly what to do. The real problem is that you haven't done what you should have done long ago.
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It would help if we knew what the favor was. Does he want you to clean the bathroom grout or commit murder?

The fact that it will cost you is interesting. Marriages surely aren't about spending money on each other!
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Tybee
Aug 8 2013, 04:53 AM
You already know exactly what to do. The real problem is that you haven't done what you should have done long ago.
Thanks,Tybee, you are 100% correct but we are afraid to face it, afraid of the misery and tears that we are going to experience, in fact that we are feeling as we type!
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Yes, it involves cash to some extent, cash that we have already spent on air fare to help him with something, that he seems not sure if he wants to re-imburse us as we agreed upon.

We sort of agreed and then were overcome by fear, but we will acquiesce to our husband because if we caused the divorce we would never forgive our self.

Also, the thought of going through another divorce is more than we can endure.
Edited by Erna, Aug 8 2013, 07:29 AM.
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What is so wrong about being alone for awhile?

Would it make you more miserable than you already are?
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Thanks, r9, you are correct, there is nothing wrong with being single, in fact our most productive periods were when we were single and our least productive were when we were married. Upon reflectia, we had to admit that we did, in a weak moment, promise those things to our husband so we have just reconciled and agreed to them. But we will use this as a lesson never to to it again and to secretly prepare for Divorce down the line. We also believe our husband is getting actia on the side......
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Aug 8 2013, 09:25 AM
We also believe our husband is getting actia on the side......
Did your Pakistani Manhunt tricks clue you in?
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Is anyone else sleepy?
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This experience has taught us to NEVER make a committment like this so far off.From now on when he or anyone else nags us for something in the future we will either say NO or I CANNOT COMMIT TO THAT NOW>
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