Pokewars9000

October 20, 2014, 6:44 pm

F*** LOVE! LOVE IS A LIE, I THOUGHT WE WOULD BE SOMETHING GOOD AND BETTER THAN FRIENDS!! BUT NOOOOOOO! SHE HAD TO F*** IT UP EVEN MORE THAN WHAT I ALREADY SCREWED UP.!

L3Z4

October 20, 2014, 6:56 pm

Pokewars9000

October 20, 2014, 6:44 pm

F*** LOVE! LOVE IS A LIE, I THOUGHT WE WOULD BE SOMETHING GOOD AND BETTER THAN FRIENDS!! BUT NOOOOOOO! SHE HAD TO F*** IT UP EVEN MORE THAN WHAT I ALREADY SCREWED UP.!

Love is not a lie, Poké.
Sure, it's harsh and painful, but not a lie. Eventually, and if you keep trying, you'll find someone, believe me.
And not just "someone", but your special one. When this day comes, you'll realize the truth; even if it takes years, love is the greatest reward you'll ever get in your life.

Souly

October 20, 2014, 7:15 pm

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I recently met with one of my old friends, and the past me was not the best person. I did terrible things to them, but then they said that all was well and that they forgive me. It was about two years ago, and two years ago seems like so long ago.

Just because I did terrible things, if I've changed and such, am I still a bad person? Am I still a monster? Another person from the same group still hates me to death; and then this one is now my best friend, I guess.

I mean, I get that weighing our actions is something; but if I changed; the scars won't go away. I'm still labeled 'bad', but I'm... good. Does that make sense? But if I'm seem as good, even today, but in the end, I still hurt people; so that would still make me a terrible person, right?


Like, example, someone killed someone else. The murderer does millions of hours of Charity work and helps millions of lives; but he's still a bad person because he killed someone.

So, no matter what I do, I'd live with the suffering of, "I'm not good enough, I'm terrible," forever, right? I'd be labeled bad forever.

sniperskaya

October 20, 2014, 7:34 pm

Souly

October 20, 2014, 7:15 pm

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I recently met with one of my old friends, and the past me was not the best person. I did terrible things to them, but then they said that all was well and that they forgive me. It was about two years ago, and two years ago seems like so long ago.

Just because I did terrible things, if I've changed and such, am I still a bad person? Am I still a monster? Another person from the same group still hates me to death; and then this one is now my best friend, I guess.

I mean, I get that weighing our actions is something; but if I changed; the scars won't go away. I'm still labeled 'bad', but I'm... good. Does that make sense? But if I'm seem as good, even today, but in the end, I still hurt people; so that would still make me a terrible person, right?


Like, example, someone killed someone else. The murderer does millions of hours of Charity work and helps millions of lives; but he's still a bad person because he killed someone.

So, no matter what I do, I'd live with the suffering of, "I'm not good enough, I'm terrible," forever, right? I'd be labeled bad forever.

I have too greatest enemies from mid school who now are some of my best friends, and not on the fake variant of a friend, true friend.
So, what I want to say it is, you may feel a little bit odd, or to feel that it is wrong because they may caused to you lots of troubles or maybe 'emotional scars' or vice versa, but, believe me, TIME, is the best medicine for lost friends, broken hearts and old enemies, and believe me, I know perfectly about 2/3 of those above (I don't have a girlfriend, never had, but other had the 'issue' above with their own girlfriends and time cured it ) (okay, probably it start to send a little unclear, but I try my best to explain [and compress all what I want to say])
What I mean..., well, look, let's say that you did (just as example) something that bad that made the respective person to hate you, well, after time, this person meet others, and starts to be more mature (a teenager is more mature than a child, an adult is more mature than a teenager, an elder is more mature than an adult), this person starts too look back, to realise that the trouble wasn't the end of the world, neither as big as he/she evaluated it and starts to think: ''look at how childish we were'' (not exactly, but on main idea) and he/she starts to feel sorry for it, and when he/she gets the chance, from compassion and guilt, wants to befriend with you again, and talk to you and repair what once ''was broken''.
Hmm... this makes any sense? I tried my best to explain....
Anyway, Soul, I consider you a wonderful person^^

Souly

October 20, 2014, 7:40 pm

sniperskaya

October 20, 2014, 7:34 pm

Souly

October 20, 2014, 7:15 pm

Spoiler: click to toggle

I recently met with one of my old friends, and the past me was not the best person. I did terrible things to them, but then they said that all was well and that they forgive me. It was about two years ago, and two years ago seems like so long ago.

Just because I did terrible things, if I've changed and such, am I still a bad person? Am I still a monster? Another person from the same group still hates me to death; and then this one is now my best friend, I guess.

I mean, I get that weighing our actions is something; but if I changed; the scars won't go away. I'm still labeled 'bad', but I'm... good. Does that make sense? But if I'm seem as good, even today, but in the end, I still hurt people; so that would still make me a terrible person, right?


Like, example, someone killed someone else. The murderer does millions of hours of Charity work and helps millions of lives; but he's still a bad person because he killed someone.

So, no matter what I do, I'd live with the suffering of, "I'm not good enough, I'm terrible," forever, right? I'd be labeled bad forever.

I have too greatest enemies from mid school who now are some of my best friends, and not on the fake variant of a friend, true friend.
So, what I want to say it is, you may feel a little bit odd, or to feel that it is wrong because they may caused to you lots of troubles or maybe 'emotional scars' or vice versa, but, believe me, TIME, is the best medicine for lost friends, broken hearts and old enemies, and believe me, I know perfectly about 2/3 of those above (I don't have a girlfriend, never had, but other had the 'issue' above with their own girlfriends and time cured it ) (okay, probably it start to send a little unclear, but I try my best to explain [and compress all what I want to say])
What I mean..., well, look, let's say that you did (just as example) something that bad that made the respective person to hate you, well, after time, this person meet others, and starts to be more mature (a teenager is more mature than a child, an adult is more mature than a teenager, an elder is more mature than an adult), this person starts too look back, to realise that the trouble wasn't the end of the world, neither as big as he/she evaluated it and starts to think: ''look at how childish we were'' (not exactly, but on main idea) and he/she starts to feel sorry for it, and when he/she gets the chance, from compassion and guilt, wants to befriend with you again, and talk to you and repair what once ''was broken''.
Hmm... this makes any sense? I tried my best to explain....
Anyway, Soul, I consider you a wonderful person^^

Well, even now, he/she hates me still, heh.

But even if all is forgiven, would that suddenly just make me a good person, again?

I'm glad you think so, haha. ; v ; That makes me feel better, heh.

sniperskaya

October 20, 2014, 7:14 pm

L3Z4

October 20, 2014, 6:56 pm

Pokewars9000

October 20, 2014, 6:44 pm

F*** LOVE! LOVE IS A LIE, I THOUGHT WE WOULD BE SOMETHING GOOD AND BETTER THAN FRIENDS!! BUT NOOOOOOO! SHE HAD TO F*** IT UP EVEN MORE THAN WHAT I ALREADY SCREWED UP.!

Love is not a lie, Poké.
Sure, it's harsh and painful, but not a lie. Eventually, and if you keep trying, you'll find someone, believe me.
And not just "someone", but your special one. When this day comes, you'll realize the truth; even if it takes years, love is the greatest reward you'll ever get in your life.

I wanted to say something about this that L3 wrote above, but, I can't write or add anything ''new'' to it, it is just, that explanation, ↑ that is perfect, I couldn't say it better, so I'm gonna just point this out:
Poke, pay attention to what L3 said just now, because, it is VERY true, she knows very well what she talked about, so take her advice, I would do the same, but I already know it: true love is the greatest gift the man could ever get.