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| Topic Started: August 18, 2012, 11:26 pm (17,068 Views) | |
| Ajogamer | October 22, 2012, 2:38 am Post #51 |
 
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Sorry to hear that... Arguments always suck. Anyway, I'd say you should probably just try apologizing; Not necessarily for your opinion, since people should be free to disagree on stuff if they want, but for the way you voiced it, and your rudeness. So long as you're sincere with the apology, I figure they'd probably forgive you, especially seeing as this seems to be someone you seem to have a bit of a relationship with. I know things can seem pretty dismal after you've had a big argument, but how you handle things afterwards can count for a lot as well. Most people understand that a person's mood can waver based on a various factors, and that no two people will agree 100%, so any decent friend would likely judge you more on the overall friendship than a single argument, especially if you handle it well after the fact. Edited by Ajogamer, October 22, 2012, 2:39 am.
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| superdubes | October 22, 2012, 2:54 am Post #52 |
The horror.
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It wasn't as much of an argument as it was me being an ass. It's not someone I know irl either. It's an online friend, as most of mine tend to be. That however doesn't mean that they weren't a "real" friend to me. I know I don't post here or anywhere else in any regular fashion, but I think that I'm just going to avoid the internet all together for the next couple of days. Save for maybe youtube and my online english class. |
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| Ajogamer | October 22, 2012, 3:15 am Post #53 |
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Even if it wasn't an argument, I'd say you may want to try apologizing if you felt you were in the wrong; It certainly couldn't hurt, at least. I guess you could hold it off a bit if you want some time to recover first, though I'd suggest not waiting too long, even if you only keep the apology simple and excuse yourself afterwards. I think that could still help the situation a decent bit, since then your friend will know how you feel, rather than being left wondering, or possibly thinking you're still mad. I hope I'm not sounding too opinionated; It's your choice how to handle the situation, of course. Regardless of how you decide to work things, I hope the situation improves for you soon. |
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| superdubes | October 23, 2012, 4:53 pm Post #54 |
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The horror.
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The very last thing I told them was I'm sorry before signing out of MSN so I think the person knows. Now for the venting for today. I had to go see a really bad art "exhibit" if you even want to call it that... it was awful. Then on the way back to my car I started to feel a little dizzy so I sat down to catch my breath. A woman saw me and went to the school nurse for the high school the "exhibit" was at. She then called the nurse at my college's campus, which is across the street, and told them I was coming. The nurse then took my blood pressure and listened to my breathing. My pulse was high, I was gasping for air, and my blood pressure was 199/... I put ... because she couldn't get a reading for the bottom number. So she told me to come home and rest and that's what I'm doing.... resting.... doing nothing.... wishing I'd just had a stroke so I wouldn't have to deal with things... |
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| Apollomatic | October 23, 2012, 7:38 pm Post #55 |
The Hermit.
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So much stuff going on in my Life......First I'm having to go through a Bad case of Depression, :/ And if you want to know why, I had just gone through a Nasty Break-up, Seeing That we have the same friend group I'm forced to be around her and I know if she stays around I won't be able to get over it..... And the Reason why we broke up is because she Was cheating on me with One of my Best friends that I've known for a long time, It was even worse because I couldn't tell anyone at all...... So to anyone who reads this, Thinks For listening. |
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| Mayu Suzumoto | October 23, 2012, 7:57 pm Post #56 |
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I'm so sorry to hear that, Nahomatic. You mention that you two share the same group of friends, no? Does that mean that this former best friend of yours is in that group as well? If so, I believe that continuing to stay with the group might be more harmful in the long run.  At the same time, I completely understand that friends are important; and it does seem unfair because others were in the wrong, *you* would have to leave.In that respect, I think if you stay strong and stick with your friends (the *true* friends) that you'll end up getting over her. I don't mean to belittle what you've been through of course - but feelings do dissapate over time, especially in such a situation as yours. So, at the same time, I don't think you should deprive yourself from your other friends simply because two people really messed up. If anything, they should be the ones leaving. Those are two perspectives I have, but I'm inclined to agree with the second, personally. It just sounded a little rough, so I hope you don't mind that I offered forth some advice.  I really wish you the best of luck! Break-ups are really difficult, but as I said, in time, it will get easier. Having good friends by your side will make it even better, even if they're not aware of the situation. Just having people you enjoy being with can mean all the world. Good luck!-- Okay! Venting on my end... - Money's pretty low. I mean...lower than usual. Has me really stressed out. I actually haven't been eating very well the past two weeks because of it! So many bills, so little money for food. It really sucks, because I'm small anyway. (I have a really fast matabolism.) So, it's easy for me to get hungry, you know? I know it'll pass and things will be okay again, but it's still pretty rough. - My father and I usually get along really well (almost like best friends) but lately he's been rather rude. I'm not sure if he realizes it, but a lot of the things he's saying lately make me feel as though he's belittling me. I actually went out of my way to impress him a few days ago, but it *completely* back-fired and had him quite annoyed. I'm generally the type that's always looking for his approval, so this really bummed me out. He couldn't focus on the good I did for him and instead focused on what displeased him. /sigh - Besides my father, I'm just not very happy at home anymore. I'm 22 and I just feel like I should be doing something, or going somewhere. I just got over a major health issue, actually! I had surgery a few weeks ago, and now that I'm feeling better, it's made me a tad restless. However, this goes back to lack of money - and also my anxiety of not being able to stand on my own two feet completely alone. Blah. - On a much, much less serious note: I really, really want a Playstation Vita, only because Persona 4: The Golden is out for it. It's rather eating me apart to know that IT'S OUT and I have no money for it. I figure I'll get lucky around Christmas, but still...I'm dreaming about it, guys! The Persona franchise was, until last year, the only franchise of games I could play continously and not be bored. I'm really trying to ignore anything P4 related. (Oh, the other franchise that I can play all the time now is Corpse Party! Hehe. Except at night, alone in my room. Seriously. I just can't.)That's my rawr for the day. |
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| Apollomatic | October 23, 2012, 8:14 pm Post #57 |
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The Hermit.
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Thanks for the Advice, -Ouch..... Try relaxing a little on the weekends if you can. I hope it gets better. -You should probably tell your father about it, Maybe he'll stop. Do some positive things for him, That's all that I can say, Seeing that my father abandoned me, -Try Doing some exercises or some Yoga, Or some community service? -P4G Is out for you already? Ouch...... I'm Pre-ordering P4G. Besides, Who could play CP At night anyways? Heheh, I can't. |
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| superdubes | October 30, 2012, 1:25 am Post #58 |
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The horror.
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Just one more amongst many other completely sleepless nights. I slept for about 2 hours yesterday, and then another hour waking up every 9 minutes to the snooze function of my alarm clock. I still can't manage to fall asleep now though. |
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| superdubes | November 7, 2012, 11:21 pm Post #59 |
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The horror.
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I've just had one of those days where I wonder if I'm making the right choices with my life. I seriously doubt that I am sometimes. I just deleted about half of my posts on deviantArt out of frustration with myself. I know that I love to draw. When there is nothing else for me to do I want to draw. I know that I'm not great at it, but I like to do it. Maybe I should just give up on trying to do anything because I break everything I touch. |
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| Diabolic | November 8, 2012, 1:01 am Post #60 |
When you and your girl weren't ready for what happened next.
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Well I had a rather....crappy day, I think. Day started out as it normally did; I woke up, did a few things around the house, worked on my online assignments, and did some job searching. Normally, this wouldn't result in anything in anything more than me going to bed with a feeling of stagnation. However today (And I guess for a while, now that I'm actually thinking about it), my mom's been asking me if I feel like there's anything wrong with me mentally. Normally, I shrug it off (This has been going on for years, I just keep telling her she's just way too uptight and controlling and at 20 there's no reason for her to try and mold my personality into whatever she wants.) But today, I just wasn't having it. Sorry guys, but just to let you know, we're gonna be here a while. To really understand this situation, you gotta understand that my family on a daily basis. Now we have me, someone who's been taking online classes to have the chance to save up some cash (Still don't have a job though, that gets on my nerves.) and I also took up online classes because I was burnt out from actual college life. (Too much has happened in too little time, I'm over it, so I won't complain about the past.) Then we have my little brother, 16 years old, potential pothead with a bad attitude problem and a bad habit of just messing up everything in the house. Then we have my mom, nice lady and I love her to death, but she seriously needs to understand that we live in the 21st century and half of the stuff that applied 'back in the day' no longer applies. My dad? Nice guy, lives in Baltimore with my step-family so he doesn't exactly apply right now lol (though I wish he would stop asking me to move down there with him all the time, I keep telling him, I'd rather not because his lifestyle is too different from my own. I'll get into that in a little bit.) Now back to my mom, I understand that she wishes things could be different for all of us, but I think she's directing her frustrations at the wrong person. She's in (kind of) a relationship right now and constantly turns to ME for advice on how guy's brains work (note; I can NEVER UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCES tell her what goes on in detail, for obvious reasons.), as well as general moral support and that sort of thing. I have no problem doing this, but whenever we get done talking, the next day she complains about how immature I supposedly am in the fact that all I do is play games and watch anime all day. First off; no I do not, and even if I did, I'm pretty sure that's a lot better than what I could be doing. Second, whine about my little brother, he's the one blazing it up (unconfirmed), and I'm pretty sure that's illegal and falls under those worse things I could be doing. Third, my mom literally hates everyone she comes in contact with, I mean LITERALLY. She constantly changes jobs because of that alone, which makes me mad because I'm still trying to get one for myself and I know when I do I certainly wouldn't quit just because I was mad at a few coworkers. Now I know there are things I can work on to improve myself, but unlike everyone else in my household, I'm actually doing those things. Next up, we have my dad with a potentially bigger pain in my neck. He's always asking when I'm going to move to Baltimore and live with him. Uhh, no offense dad, but it's not going to happen. His lifestyle consists of running across the mason dixon line every other day to visit this person, or help with this project that he's sure the whole family enjoys. Now my stepmom and stepsister have no problem doing this, but I do. I can't stand doing too much like that in the course of a day unless I'm getting paid, which I doubt I would be. And when they get back, they're usually catering to neighbors with children my stepsister's age (like 9 or something). Now let's remember that I'm turning 21 soon, I have no problem with kids, but I have my limits. Not to mention I'm a laid back person to begin with, which my dad doesn't understand after all these years. I'm not exactly a fan of moving and starting over (I've done so several times in my life and it's not fun.), so I'll pass on completely changing my lifestyle because he wants his sons around all the time (Love you, Dad, but this is why people should think before divorce.) I dunno, normally these things don't bother me, but today it just seemed like it was too much at once. I didn't wake up in the best mood, and these little annoyances kept me from concentrating on something personal I really should have kept my focus on. Well, I guess that's enough whining for today out of me (Because that's really all it is, people have it much worse off than me, I know this.), and tomorrow's another day so yeah. @Naho, I know I'm late, but I know that feel bro. Same thing happened to me about a year back, let me know if you need someone to talk to. @Mayu, (I'm also late, sorry) I'm glad your surgery went well, and I can certainly understand wanting to see the world at this age. I kind of want to as well, but cash and resources say otherwise ^^; (Also about the vita...man I wish I had money...) @Superdubes, not sure what you're going through man, sounds like you have a lot going on with you. But you shouldn't give up (At least, I don't think so.) I've seen your art, I think you're pretty good to be honest. This is just me talking, but I personally feel like everyone can do something in this world. as for choices, live and learn dude. At least you're trying to move forward and make choices, and that's saying more than a lot of people who just live day by day and fear making choices. I guess the fact that you're trying says more than you think. Maybe I'm not the best person to speak on these things, like I said, I don't know what you're going through personally (and I barely have my life together as it is myself.), but that's just my thoughts. |
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