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| Morishige Sakutaro - kun | March 18, 2014, 3:49 pm Post #211 |
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Well then, I'll be sure to stay out of it (kidding, of course). But seriously, although I love the idea, I'll stay out of it and just listen. I don't really feel any teen can talk about life's hardship's seriously unless they've actually been through something trauma-creating, which is probably the main reason I really dislike emo and goth teens. I'll save talking about how tough is for when I actually do have a tough life. Morishige. Edited by Morishige Sakutaro - kun, March 18, 2014, 3:50 pm.
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| Ajogamer | March 18, 2014, 4:56 pm Post #212 |
 
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I agree with Eagle on this. In fact, I'd even say that improving on yourself and trying to change your mindset can often wind up restricting your emotions less and help you get less bogged down with the negative, so you're actually likely to feel MORE like your true self (and possibly former self, depending on how your childhood was), not less. I know feel a lot more like I'm my true self now than I did when I was younger, like in the 10-15 range. That was back when I was dealing with a lot of stuff from my shyness to a few majorly stressful events, though after spending a lot of time introspecting and working on getting past my issues little by little, not only was I starting to notice some positive changes in myself, but I also noticed myself starting to exhibit some positive traits of my younger (6-8 years old) self in various ways that I had apparently been compressing due to all the negative emotions I had before. Of course, I wasn't exactly like my younger self since I had grown as a person and was more mature, it's more like I realized just how much I was holding back and limiting certain aspects of my personality due to various negative emotions, like fear, self-consciousness, and having a bit of a martyr complex, in the sense that I felt like I needed to shoulder all my burdens on my own, due to not wanting to stress others out, and overestimating how much a single person can handle on their own (I now believe even the strongest people majorly benefit by having people with which they can trust to honestly talk about their thoughts and emotions with from time to time). Also, glad to hear you started talking to a counselor, and that it seems to be going alright so far. I do want to say that if it doesn't seem to work out with this particular counselor though, don't give up; if you find yourself not clicking with a counselor and you feel like you genuinely tried to work with them, it could be that their personality or methods simply aren't all that compatible with you. If that happens, I'd say it's probably a good idea to search around and try and see if you can find another that may suit you better, instead of giving up on counseling or therapy completely. I think one that's better at their job would be more capable of helping a wider variety of people, but due to how different and varied people are, I'm not sure even the ones who are excellent at their jobs would be capable of helping and guiding everyone.
I dunno, I feel like an entire forum section would be a bit much for it, unless we really started to have a lot of topics on that sort of thing. For the moment, any topics of that sort can simply go in the Science Lab. I'm not against a philosophical corner or other subsections being made if we started to get many threads to warrant it, but otherwise, I feel like having multiple subsections with only a couple topics would make things feel less organized, not more. Edited by Ajogamer, March 18, 2014, 4:59 pm.
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| Yoshie Shinozaki | March 21, 2014, 10:20 pm Post #213 |
The First Victim
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Have you ever been hit on by a woman and a man at the same time? I have... They love my hair.(not kidding). |
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| Yoshie Shinozaki | April 6, 2014, 1:40 pm Post #214 |
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Alright, here's a question I'm hoping somebody can help me figure out. How do you respond when you find out your guitarist is getting married and he's selling all of his equipment so save some money to buy a suit of armor to walk down the aisle like some kind of Game of Thrones cosplay? (In some ways, I think I should've asked this in the Venting Topic but I'm not mad... I'm just confused) |
| "I Return This Nightmare. I Will Find You. Sleepless, Cloaked In Despair. I'm Behind You. Man Has Made Me Oh So Strong. Blurring Lines Of Right And Wrong. Far Too Late For Frail Amends. Now It's Come To Sweet Revenge. Desperate Hands That Lose Control. Have No Mercy On Your Soul."- Here Comes Revenge By Metallica. | |
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| Morishige Sakutaro - kun | April 7, 2014, 2:36 pm Post #215 |
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Mayu's Shige-nii.
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I think you kindly ask him to re-evaluate his priorities and dedication to hobbies. But maybe that's just me being insensitive. Morishige. |
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| Ajogamer | April 7, 2014, 3:06 pm Post #216 |
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I'd probably say something like "Congratulations on the wedding! We're going to miss having you in the band, though...." I'd think if he was willing to sell his equipment for a one time splurge, he may not have been all that dedicated to his hobby or the band. It's his decision either way though; even if it seems a bit wasteful to someone like me, it really depends entirely on your priorities. I can understand how it could make for a kind of cool wedding, though I know I wouldn't want to sell personal items relating to a passionate hobby to do something pricy like that especially for a one-time event. I've one who's likely to prefer a cheap and casual wedding over the big expensive parties many seem to like though, so it's really a matter of tastes and priorities. Depending on how well you know him and how close you are though, you could possibly ask whether he may consider re-purchasing instruments and rejoining the band in the future, or possibly even straight-up ask him if he's sure selling his equipment for a one-time splurge like that is a good idea (though in a way that sounds non-judging, and like a genuine question). So long as you remember it's his decision to make and simply sound curious without acting judgmental or forceful, people are often pretty fine with some questions. It's possible the suit of armor may be able to be resold after it's been used as well, in which case he'd possibly wind up getting some of or even most of the money he spent on it back afterwards. I'm really not too sure though; I've never looked into buying or selling a suit of armor before. |
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| Yoshie Shinozaki | April 7, 2014, 6:18 pm Post #217 |
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Thank you both for your insights and thoughts on the situation. Honestly, I wasn't holding my breath for us since we hadn't played together for three years now. I'm still kinda upset that he's basically tossing our dream aside but it's for his and his fiancé's well being and I still respect his choices deeply. He's practically a brother to me and I'd still love to be able to perform with him one day, more than anything but I understand his situation. The only bright side to this is that he's selling me one of his guitars.(a guitar I've been lusting after since I suggested it to him). So all in all I wish him the best and once again, thank you both for answering my question. |
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| Yoshie Shinozaki | April 10, 2014, 12:21 pm Post #218 |
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Here's something to bring in some light from me. Ever had moments when (no matter how much you deny it) you can relate to Satoshi Mochida? Last night, I was watching some LPs of the game "Homesick" and all I kept doing was yelping. Honestly, I'd never play the game, not only because it doesn't seem to have any kind of story arc. But I hate jump scares to death. ... So, anyone else? |
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| DeathkaiserG | April 10, 2014, 10:04 pm Post #219 |
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I hate jump scares with a passion...I mean, it's just there to scare you for a moment..not to mention give you a sudden heart attack... It's like horror without a passion... I like Horror things that has substance and not only in a physical aspect.. as in like scary as a whole... I have a question if you know this story, please don't tell I just need some opinions without the bias of a main character 
Edited by DeathkaiserG, April 10, 2014, 10:08 pm.
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| Morishige Sakutaro - kun | April 11, 2014, 11:00 am Post #220 |
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Mayu's Shige-nii.
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Obviously 'Soul' is in the wrong here, although I can see why he might be bitter. Amnesiac might as well be a different person, and Soul just needs to come to terms with that and let him choose for himself. On another note, that's a lot of ellipsis you have there. Morishige. |
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