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Topic Started: Feb 19 2013, 11:21 PM (41,098 Views)
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from what I observed so far (and imo)
I see some try o bring up sooyoung's example or their biases' whenever there's this kind of wank.
the problem is, the person was not saying "if that makes her happy I'm ok with it". I guess you can't exactly bring up sy, hy or whoever's example in this case.
and seriously, whoever reacted to those suspicious comments (I put it like that because idk if it was intention of any of the anons) also needs to get a grip (not that I'm the jedi here, but hey...)

also sometimes it's as if some feel offended when someone doesn't think x, y or z is a lesbian (or bi, whatever). we need to work on that
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Apr 15 2013, 01:10 AM
^ yes, please do something about that...
There are two people, one who was making the "yes they were dating" posts who is also making the sooyoung posts, and another discussing the probablity of the photos being staged/ and a promotion move.

Since now there are three complains, I am now allowed to temporarily ban her.
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^ so if we say we think they may have dated we could get banned? isn't that kind of ott? a few actually acted like sooyoung's was true and this didn't happen with it.
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No anon, there is a difference between telling people you think they might have dated and then pushing that opinion down people's throats.
And I repeat, when people were talking about Sooyoung, people never complained, the discussion never dragged on and everyone was chill about it, hardly anything to make a big deal of.
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^ so if we say we think they may have dated we could get banned? isn't that kind of ott? a few actually acted like sooyoung's was true and this didn't happen with it.
And? If people didn't complain then it's their fault. You cannot argue that because people didn't complain in one moment then all other moments are forfeit.

There was someone outright saying yes they dated and just responding to all posts about it pushing the idea, there's a difference.


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I don't give a rat's flying ass if the girls are gay or not but someone shoving a hetero pairing down my throat in this forum isn't wanted.
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Apr 15 2013, 01:48 AM
No anon, there is a difference bewteen telling people you think they might have dated and then pushing it down people's throats.
And I repeat, when people were talking about Sooyoung, people never complained and the discussion never dragged on.
sooyoung is viewed as straight so lets be real, nobody will actually care or complain because they aren't mad about the possibility if she was dating thats why most were like good for her and the conversation stopped sica is different of course people will complain about it even if this was a different situation and she was photopgrahed with another dude like she was with him, i'm sure people would try and stop it or accuse everyone who mentioned it of being an isabella

if there was only one anon saying it was real i don't see how thats everyone pushing it down peoples throats, me and i assume only one or two others said maybe, that isn't pushing it down someones throat. but honestly you can say they were a set up without saying it as an opinon but like a fact and thats fine but you can't say they dated in the same way? i never posted saying they obviously dated but i find it a little weird it's one rule for one thing

i do think this is only a problem cause its a member who is seen as gay thats why people are pissed and ran to complain about it. nobody would ever do that with hyo, sooyoung and seo for sure if we were to talk about them maybe dating guys or rumors they have had
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I agree with you thinking that the whole thing started because it was Jessica they were talking about, but different people reacted to her post, she insisted, they complained, and a wank broke out. Am I supposed to just ignore that?

If she had handled it with maturity instead only posting things like, "yes they did", like stating a fact (which might be true or not, we don't know) and kept on pushing that, the other anons might have not reacted at all and this whole thing wouldn't have happened.

If anybody reacted the same to Hyo or Sooyoung (which might not actually happen), we would have intervened as well.
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Just dropping by to say that I really like the modding system right now. If there is a complaint, all the parties involved can take the discussion off the main thread and take it here where a conclusion can be reached through exchange of opinions.

Thanks for the good work, mod/admins.
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Catching up with the complaints thread here.
(sorry I was absent during the weekend, I was partying hard because of my bday ^_^, But I'm back to business!)
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http://w11.zetaboards.com/sogayshidae/single/?p=8341762&t=8561834

Hmm...
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I'll delete the post since it really doesn't belong here as well as the replies, and that anon is on my watch list.
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The amount of pickle juice after Taeyeon's IG selca with Rino is too damn high. Please take a look at the comments, in particular 'ugly unnir' and 'Taeyeon punches below her weight class' posts.
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Just woke up. I'll take a look at them.
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I did notice a certain user making some questionable posts, but I'm not 100% sure what to do in this case. Please bear with it for a bit longer until Abc logs in and we decide what to do.

As always, we appreciate your help in reporting these posts. :hug:
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I don't think immediate action is necessary, at least the comments I pointed out were largely ignored and no wank started. Just wanted to make you aware of the user (if there was a problematic user) :thumbsup:
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http://w11.zetaboards.com/sogayshidae/single/?p=8342798&t=8561834
http://w11.zetaboards.com/sogayshidae/single/?p=8342826&t=8561834

is that the same anon? and i believe this anon also made another comment like this before, idk it could have been someone else but i think it's the same anon. and these comments are really irking me.
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^sa

http://w11.zetaboards.com/sogayshidae/single/?p=8342630&t=8561834

this is the other comment i was talking about
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It has been dealt with. Sorry it took so long, it seems this user is using several proxies or brought some friends with her.
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I'm tired of people calling Taeny bffs, I don't know what they are but it annoys me that every time they are mentioned someone will come and say they are just friends or what they do is normal bff behaviour. Is this breaking the "ship and let ship" rule or is it considered an opinion?
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I'm tired of people calling Taeny bffs, I don't know what they are but it annoys me that every time they are mentioned someone will come and say they are just friends or what they do is normal bff behaviour. Is this breaking the "ship and let ship" rule or is it considered an opinion?
I kind of did it, but I wasn't trying to be purposefully contradictory. It would be against ship and let ship to me if someone did that. I was trying to share a related opinion/thought though.
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She was just stating her opinion during a conversation, anon. Since her post is not baiting in any way, I don't think it goes against the ship and let ship rule.
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I'm tired of people calling Taeny bffs, I don't know what they are but it annoys me that every time they are mentioned someone will come and say they are just friends or what they do is normal bff behaviour. Is this breaking the "ship and let ship" rule or is it considered an opinion?
I kind of did it, but I wasn't trying to be purposefully contradictory. It would be against ship and let ship to me if someone did that. I was trying to share a related opinion/thought though.
who are you? lol
there were two? bff posts in the last pages, but we have these often - the problem is if it's the same people repeating it
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I'm tired of people calling Taeny bffs, I don't know what they are but it annoys me that every time they are mentioned someone will come and say they are just friends or what they do is normal bff behaviour. Is this breaking the "ship and let ship" rule or is it considered an opinion?
I kind of did it, but I wasn't trying to be purposefully contradictory. It would be against ship and let ship to me if someone did that. I was trying to share a related opinion/thought though.
who are you? lol
there were two? bff posts in the last pages, but we have these often - the problem is if it's the same people repeating it
I replied to the giant rant (I put the rant in a spoiler)
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who are you? lol
there were two? bff posts in the last pages, but we have these often - the problem is if it's the same people repeating it
I replied to the giant rant (I put the rant in a spoiler)
oh ok, I'm not specifically complaining about your post though, you and the other anon (with the typical Asian friendship) just reminded me that this happens often and I just wanted to ask the admins whether I can complain if during a Taeny spazzing someone butts in to say they are just bffs.
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She was just stating her opinion during a conversation, anon. Since her post is not baiting in any way, I don't think it goes against the ship and let ship rule.
I just replied to the anon - I was asking in general.
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She was just stating her opinion during a conversation, anon. Since her post is not baiting in any way, I don't think it goes against the ship and let ship rule.
I just replied to the anon - I was asking in general.
SA, cause sometimes when a Taeny pic or fanaccount is posted the ones with the bff comments react even faster than the shippers, it's hard for me to differentiate between an honest comment and anti-shipping sometimes.
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http://w11.zetaboards.com/sogayshidae/single/?p=8344922&t=8561834
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is this the same one?

http://w11.zetaboards.com/sogayshidae/single/?p=8345045&t=8561834
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is she trolling?

http://w11.zetaboards.com/sogayshidae/single/?p=8345076&t=8561834
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http://w11.zetaboards.com/sogayshidae/single/?p=8345087&t=8561834
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http://w11.zetaboards.com/sogayshidae/single/?p=8345091&t=8561834
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im sorry, can you just take a look at that particular section of the thread when you get the chance? thanks

im suspecting its a wave of trolls, we hit 80 users pretty suddenly
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http://w11.zetaboards.com/sogayshidae/single/?p=8345099&t=8561834


That's my explanation to this anon, I thought the meaning was self explanatory. Like if they were listening to Mozart I would've said pair of Classical Music lovers.

=_=

If you want a real troll go see if the anon talking about blaze and fagot on page 1111, post quoted on page 1112 and whoever made these two posts, if it's not the same troll:
http://w11.zetaboards.com/sogayshidae/single/?p=8345087&t=8561834
http://w11.zetaboards.com/sogayshidae/single/?p=8345091&t=8561834
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Wow, thank you that's obviously a troll
will ban her asap.
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about the minh0 comment, she was obviously not trolling, so you girls just chill ^_^
The other bitch (or asshole) was banned :wink:
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