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it does, a lot. but i'm used to it (which is not a good thing) because i've been lonely for so many years. i just don't know what to do about it. 
I usually think I already got used, too. But there are days, sometimes weeks, when I can barely bear it... So I thought I would come here and ask people what do they do about that. Hm, I wanted to be able to talk about this with someone, but since there's no one.. Well, of course there is no one, it's exactly the topic ;p also, it doesn't look like there are many interested in listening to something someone who has "nothing good to offer", "no positive views" etc has to say, but apparently they entitle themselves your friends (which you know they are not really) and sometimes they make you hear theie troubles too. Eh, they are kind of clueless I guess. I usually like to listen to them, most of the times. I just wonder why those"friends" just don't do the same. As far as I have observed, it's like they need someone to listen to their problems etc, to comfort them, but the people they choose to open to usually are not the ones they make worth their time or concern later on. Huh. A monologue, yay. Sorry about that ;p ^ ps, forgot to add. Have a virtual hug  Ps2.: I know i can't blame others 100%. Everything that happens to you is always at least 50% your fault, or so I think. Ps3.: is there something (else?) you would like to talk about?
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Apr 1 2013, 03:45 AM
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Apr 1 2013, 03:49 AM
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(op)Well, so, me too. Does it bother you? It suffocates me
it does, a lot. but i'm used to it (which is not a good thing) because i've been lonely for so many years. i just don't know what to do about it.  is y'all friends with Taeyeon or something?
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Apr 1 2013, 03:50 AM
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it does, a lot. but i'm used to it (which is not a good thing) because i've been lonely for so many years. i just don't know what to do about it. 
I usually think I already got used, too. But there are days, sometimes weeks, when I can barely bear it... So I thought I would come here and ask people what do they do about that. Hm, I wanted to be able to talk about this with someone, but since there's no one.. Well, of course there is no one, it's exactly the topic ;p also, it doesn't look like there are many interested in listening to something someone who has "nothing good to offer", "no positive views" etc has to say, but apparently they entitle themselves your friends (which you know they are not really) and sometimes they make you hear theie troubles too. Eh, they are kind of clueless I guess. I usually like to listen to them, most of the times. I just wonder why those"friends" just don't do the same. As far as I have observed, it's like they need someone to listen to their problems etc, to comfort them, but the people they choose to open to usually are not the ones they make worth their time or concern later on. Huh. A monologue, yay. Sorry about that ;p DA
why don't you look for that person? try to open up and do something different? this is what I'm doing right now, it's always good to try new things, meeting new people
I wish you success anon :gaypimp:
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Apr 1 2013, 03:55 AM
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it does, a lot. but i'm used to it (which is not a good thing) because i've been lonely for so many years. i just don't know what to do about it. 
is y'all friends with Taeyeon or something? I'd be pleased.
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Apr 1 2013, 04:00 AM
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I usually think I already got used, too. But there are days, sometimes weeks, when I can barely bear it... So I thought I would come here and ask people what do they do about that. Hm, I wanted to be able to talk about this with someone, but since there's no one.. Well, of course there is no one, it's exactly the topic ;p also, it doesn't look like there are many interested in listening to something someone who has "nothing good to offer", "no positive views" etc has to say, but apparently they entitle themselves your friends (which you know they are not really) and sometimes they make you hear theie troubles too. Eh, they are kind of clueless I guess. I usually like to listen to them, most of the times. I just wonder why those"friends" just don't do the same. As far as I have observed, it's like they need someone to listen to their problems etc, to comfort them, but the people they choose to open to usually are not the ones they make worth their time or concern later on. Huh. A monologue, yay. Sorry about that ;p
DA why don't you look for that person? try to open up and do something different? this is what I'm doing right now, it's always good to try new things, meeting new people I wish you success anon :gaypimp: Just to see somene, you know, signaling you that they paid attention, like the anons did just now by simply answering (not you, taeyeon anon.) It doesn't matter what my problem is, and I maybe will never tell anybody, but this gesture is really comforting. Almost makes you feel like there's energy again to face tomorrow. Thanks anons
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Apr 1 2013, 04:16 AM
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DA why don't you look for that person? try to open up and do something different? this is what I'm doing right now, it's always good to try new things, meeting new people I wish you success anon :gaypimp:
Just to see somene, you know, signaling you that they paid attention, like the anons did just now by simply answering (not you, taeyeon anon.) It doesn't matter what my problem is, and I maybe will never tell anybody, but this gesture is really comforting. Almost makes you feel like there's energy again to face tomorrow. Thanks anons  haha you're so cute anon, you can always come here and post, I'll reply actually I like to post here more than in the main hahaha
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Apr 1 2013, 04:27 AM
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haha you're so cute anon, you can always come here and post, I'll reply actually I like to post here more than in the main hahaha Thank you I like it here a lot, too. It's our free space after all; like sgsd's lobby it's how I see it hehe. I will be "thatanon" from now on, then
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Apr 1 2013, 04:33 AM
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I usually think I already got used, too. But there are days, sometimes weeks, when I can barely bear it... So I thought I would come here and ask people what do they do about that. Hm, I wanted to be able to talk about this with someone, but since there's no one.. Well, of course there is no one, it's exactly the topic ;p also, it doesn't look like there are many interested in listening to something someone who has "nothing good to offer", "no positive views" etc has to say, but apparently they entitle themselves your friends (which you know they are not really) and sometimes they make you hear theie troubles too. Eh, they are kind of clueless I guess. I usually like to listen to them, most of the times. I just wonder why those"friends" just don't do the same. As far as I have observed, it's like they need someone to listen to their problems etc, to comfort them, but the people they choose to open to usually are not the ones they make worth their time or concern later on. Huh. A monologue, yay. Sorry about that ;p
^ ps, forgot to add. Have a virtual hug  Ps2.: I know i can't blame others 100%. Everything that happens to you is always at least 50% your fault, or so I think. Ps3.: is there something (else?) you would like to talk about? oh, i feel for you. i really do. loneliness can be really overwhelming… i usually just try to numb myself, not think about it, but when it becomes the most dominant thing in your life, you can't just keep avoiding it... gradually you have to face it and start thinking about ways to fix it.
it is the worst feeling ever, when there's something you really want to, really need to talk about, but there's no one to hear you. it just makes your problems bigger, because everything bottles up inside you... i've experienced that. because of that, i've recently started seeing a therapist. i've only met her a couple of times, so it hasn't really helped yet, but still... it feels really nice to know that you have someone in your life, whose job is to listen to you. and idk about you, but for me it's easier to talk about my problems to someone i don't personally know (like a therapist, people on anon forums like this) than a friend. i don't know if therepy is something you're willing to try (i was hesitant for years) or maybe you tried it already and it didn't work for you, but i'm just saying! talking here (or other forums) like this could help a little, too.
no need to be sorry, i'm happy you decided to share these things about you here *virtual hugs you back* 
btw, sorry if i sound a little incoherent or something, it's 5:30AM here and i haven't slept. ugh, this messed up sleep pattern...
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Apr 1 2013, 04:53 AM
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haha you're so cute anon, you can always come here and post, I'll reply actually I like to post here more than in the main hahaha
Thank you I like it here a lot, too. It's our free space after all; like sgsd's lobby  it's how I see it hehe. I will be "thatanon" from now on, then ok bb I gotta go rn take care do well, you're not alone
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Apr 1 2013, 05:05 AM
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I'm heading out for Easter lunch real quick, I'm going to be really close by a megastore with a large entertainment shelf... thinking about buying a Harry Potter boxset...
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Apr 1 2013, 05:18 AM
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I'm heading out for Easter lunch real quick, I'm going to be really close by a megastore with a large entertainment shelf... thinking about buying a Harry Potter boxset... Marry me.
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I'm heading out for Easter lunch real quick, I'm going to be really close by a megastore with a large entertainment shelf... thinking about buying a Harry Potter boxset...
Marry me. I don't think I'm the marrying type in the context of this conversation... I haven't seen the movie series past Order of the Phoenix.
*Hangs head in shame... slowly slinks away*
... I hope the boxset comes with a bonus decorated wand or something. That would be kind of cute.
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^ ps, forgot to add. Have a virtual hug  Ps2.: I know i can't blame others 100%. Everything that happens to you is always at least 50% your fault, or so I think. Ps3.: is there something (else?) you would like to talk about?
oh, i feel for you. i really do. loneliness can be really overwhelming… i usually just try to numb myself, not think about it, but when it becomes the most dominant thing in your life, you can't just keep avoiding it... gradually you have to face it and start thinking about ways to fix it. it is the worst feeling ever, when there's something you really want to, really need to talk about, but there's no one to hear you. it just makes your problems bigger, because everything bottles up inside you... i've experienced that. because of that, i've recently started seeing a therapist. i've only met her a couple of times, so it hasn't really helped yet, but still... it feels really nice to know that you have someone in your life, whose job is to listen to you. and idk about you, but for me it's easier to talk about my problems to someone i don't personally know (like a therapist, people on anon forums like this) than a friend. i don't know if therepy is something you're willing to try (i was hesitant for years) or maybe you tried it already and it didn't work for you, but i'm just saying! talking here (or other forums) like this could help a little, too. no need to be sorry, i'm happy you decided to share these things about you here  *virtual hugs you back*  btw, sorry if i sound a little incoherent or something, it's 5:30AM here and i haven't slept. ugh, this messed up sleep pattern... Your fine bby, not incoherent at all. Give you my word.
Spoiler: click to toggle I actually visit a psychiatrist (he gives me no meds; actually he is taking off my shoulders all of the previous meds I had taken by testing and proving which are effective and which are not. I have it very clear in my mind that meds only offer you a comfort zone so you can work on yourself and what troubles you, providing you a safe zone for that, and that they are not your permanent solution (most of the times, depending of the nature of your problem of course). They just give you the meanings to do so, find the source of your problem and fix it. What i liked the most about this psychiatrist is that when i first visited him, we made a deal : from that time on, I had nothing, no psych diagnosis of anything, I was just simply me. It was the best time ever. If after therapy he (we) thought we could maybe use help of any substance to improve results, we would. After I found him I feel like i'm a human being again, not some sort of emotionless guinea pig that my previous doctors made me feel like.
Anyway, i think that this is a bit too personal, maybe polemic and maybe heavy, so I'm spoilering it.
also, i feel you when u say that you like it that there is a professional there to help you, listen to you ans focus on you. Hey, they're not really judging you, they're applying knowledge and trying to understand what is going on so they can help you... So yep, i am not ashamed of paying for that.
I sorely miss it when i can't go visit ;p
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Best ofluck for us all, my friends and thank you
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I'm heading out for Easter lunch real quick, I'm going to be really close by a megastore with a large entertainment shelf... thinking about buying a Harry Potter boxset...
Marry me.
I don't think I'm the marrying type in the context of this conversation... I haven't seen the movie series past Order of the Phoenix. *Hangs head in shame... slowly slinks away* ... I hope the boxset comes with a bonus decorated wand or something. That would be kind of cute. But did you read the books, sweetie?
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haha you're so cute anon, you can always come here and post, I'll reply actually I like to post here more than in the main hahaha
Thank you I like it here a lot, too. It's our free space after all; like sgsd's lobby  it's how I see it hehe. I will be "thatanon" from now on, then
ok bb I gotta go rn  take care do well, you're not alone  Ok bby, ty n.n sleep tight!
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Apr 1 2013, 06:12 AM
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Sometimes i see Sho Sho's face looks like Artichoke and Artichoke looks like harry potter. i don't know why..maybe it's just the hair.. chokky ILU lol
Eh when did you see Arti's face? Or did I miss out sth? selca parties happened. Some are cute and some are hot
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I don't think I'm the marrying type in the context of this conversation... I haven't seen the movie series past Order of the Phoenix. *Hangs head in shame... slowly slinks away* ... I hope the boxset comes with a bonus decorated wand or something. That would be kind of cute.
But did you read the books, sweetie?
Yup! I read all the books a couple times over...... except Deathly Hallows, I read that just the once. But I did finished it 12 hours after it was released :3
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selca parties happened. Some are cute and some are hot Some are hot, indeed.
Arsenic and Old Lace is such an amazing movie. Cary Graaaaant.
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(op)Well, so, me too. Does it bother you? It suffocates me
it does, a lot. but i'm used to it (which is not a good thing) because i've been lonely for so many years. i just don't know what to do about it.  aww there there bb
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Damn, can't belive I missed out a selca party :pain:
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DA, if i could just open a snack bar here and sell booze to underaged anons during off peak hours.
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Damn, can't belive I missed out a selca party :pain: Me too
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I usually think I already got used, too. But there are days, sometimes weeks, when I can barely bear it... So I thought I would come here and ask people what do they do about that. Hm, I wanted to be able to talk about this with someone, but since there's no one.. Well, of course there is no one, it's exactly the topic ;p also, it doesn't look like there are many interested in listening to something someone who has "nothing good to offer", "no positive views" etc has to say, but apparently they entitle themselves your friends (which you know they are not really) and sometimes they make you hear theie troubles too. Eh, they are kind of clueless I guess. I usually like to listen to them, most of the times. I just wonder why those"friends" just don't do the same. As far as I have observed, it's like they need someone to listen to their problems etc, to comfort them, but the people they choose to open to usually are not the ones they make worth their time or concern later on. Huh. A monologue, yay. Sorry about that ;p
DA why don't you look for that person? try to open up and do something different? this is what I'm doing right now, it's always good to try new things, meeting new people I wish you success anon :gaypimp: DA I feel lonely for like 3 years since my best friendwhich I had a crush on left me. I always feel incomplete without her by my side.
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Is there anyway to get around the permaban on tlc. i got banned for hinting to this place on the old snsd thread which i don't regret but I miss the other threads on the tlc.
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sigh. what's wrong honey?
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Is there anyway to get around the permaban on tlc. i got banned for hinting to this place on the old snsd thread which i don't regret but I miss the other threads on the tlc. Google proxy and try them all until one works. It's annoying but at least we can check the other threads Or maybe try speaking with Unzip to see what she can do.
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sigh. :bigeyes: Why bb
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