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Well, things did get worse. We were still trying to hang on in there in the beginning, people were using both threads waiting for the storm to pass. Just because some anons came a little more strong on their opinions of Rei and the state of the thread, doesn't mean that everyone was doing it.

Perhaps the people that weren't taken part in the ''fun'' should have spoken up and told the others to cut it out.

And no, I don't see a reason to apologize. Definitely not to some random anon who could have helped to take the thread on tlc down, or might have been a shit-stirrer or troll in the past. This statement might doesn't make any sense to an anonymous poster, but it does to me.

It's late now, i'm gonna go to bed. Have a very nice day/afternoon/evening.
You think you were a good mod?

It sounded to me like you didn't like shippers and were aiming to drive them out of the thread. Must've been something you said... I can't remember, exactly. Do you remember what you said?
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We have a kind of system to specifically address a person. It's called PM, which is available to all registards.


In real life, it's common courtesy if two people are talking to each other, other people who aren't involved in the conversation should just mind their own business. This isn't really an exclusive registered privilege; it's normal social behavior.
This is a public forum, you can't have private convos in a public forum. Like, what do you want exactly? That no one is going to interrupt your convo with someone else? Not possible because people will read it and comment if they feel like it.
That's what PM (private message) is for
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Apr 10 2013, 10:48 PM
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Do you think that you were a good mod?

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Well, things did get worse. We were still trying to hang on in there in the beginning, people were using both threads waiting for the storm to pass. Just because some anons came a little more strong on their opinions of Rei and the state of the thread, doesn't mean that everyone was doing it.

Perhaps the people that weren't taken part in the ''fun'' should have spoken up and told the others to cut it out.

And no, I don't see a reason to apologize. Definitely not to some random anon who could have helped to take the thread on tlc down, or might have been a shit-stirrer or troll in the past. This statement might doesn't make any sense to an anonymous poster, but it does to me.

It's late now, i'm gonna go to bed. Have a very nice day/afternoon/evening.
You think you were a good mod?

It sounded to me like you didn't like shippers and were aiming to drive them out of the thread. Must've been something you said... I can't remember, exactly. Do you remember what you said?
SA. Oh, I seem to remember now. You told a little bird that you were grateful that the White Flag incident happened because it drove the shippers out of the thread.
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We have a kind of system to specifically address a person. It's called PM, which is available to all registards.


In real life, it's common courtesy if two people are talking to each other, other people who aren't involved in the conversation should just mind their own business. This isn't really an exclusive registered privilege; it's normal social behavior.
This is a public forum, you can't have private convos in a public forum. Like, what do you want exactly? That no one is going to interrupt your convo with someone else? Not possible because people will read it and comment if they feel like it.
That's what PM (private message) is for
They can still comment if they feel like, just like they can in real life, but if the framework is in place it will feel abnormal for them to do so. It's not like a bannable offence or even an official rule. It's just something people can start doing if they want to, and if other people don't respect that new culture, then so be it.
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This is a public forum, you can't have private convos in a public forum. Like, what do you want exactly? That no one is going to interrupt your convo with someone else? Not possible because people will read it and comment if they feel like it.
That's what PM (private message) is for
They can still comment if they feel like, just like they can in real life, but if the framework is in place it will feel abnormal for them to do so. It's not like a bannable offence or even an official rule. It's just something people can start doing if they want to, and if other people don't respect that new culture, then so be it.
What? lol
I'm confused if I don't understand you or you didn't understand me
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They can still comment if they feel like, just like they can in real life, but if the framework is in place it will feel abnormal for them to do so. It's not like a bannable offence or even an official rule. It's just something people can start doing if they want to, and if other people don't respect that new culture, then so be it.
What? lol
I'm confused if I don't understand you or you didn't understand me
I was answering your question, "Like, what do you want exactly?"

Which is nothing, on your part. You don't need to do anything as an admin.
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Apr 10 2013, 06:04 PM
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Fujiwara had enough

if the manga is going to end soon (idk when it's gonna end though), at least I want to see them hanging out as a couple and of course a kiss is required :$
omg just get together already :dramaqueen:

I miss Prism idk
ikr? just end this tension between them!
just be together ffs! they look really good together, I'm really enjoying this manga :$

I miss prism too, it really sucks that it has to stop because of that sort of plagiarism, it was a good manga.
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What? lol
I'm confused if I don't understand you or you didn't understand me
I was answering your question, "Like, what do you want exactly?"

Which is nothing, on your part. You don't need to do anything as an admin.
That's obvious. There's nothing I can do because it's something that's it's in any public forum in the world wide web

Expect to have private convos in a public forum (unless is through PM) it's absurd. That's what I explained to the anon before you


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Apr 10 2013, 11:45 PM
ikr? just end this tension between them!
just be together ffs! they look really good together, I'm really enjoying this manga :$

I miss prism too, it really sucks that it has to stop because of that sort of plagiarism, it was a good manga.
At least it isn't like Girl Friends where they spent literally like 30 chapters or something having reciprocated feelings but then they were like angsting or misunderstanding or whatever. :dramaqueen:
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I was answering your question, "Like, what do you want exactly?"

Which is nothing, on your part. You don't need to do anything as an admin.
That's obvious. There's nothing I can do because it's something that's it's in any public forum in the world wide web

Expect to have private convos in a public forum (unless is through PM) it's absurd. That's what I explained to the anon before you


Why don't you just let us try it out, and if it doesn't take off, we'll just leave it at that? This isn't wanking or trolling. It's just an experiment.

Okay?
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Apr 10 2013, 11:48 PM
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That's obvious. There's nothing I can do because it's something that's it's in any public forum in the world wide web

Expect to have private convos in a public forum (unless is through PM) it's absurd. That's what I explained to the anon before you


Why don't you just let us try it out, and if it doesn't take off, we'll just leave it at that? This isn't wanking or trolling. It's just an experiment.

Okay?
Try what? I'm genuinely curious

Ok, I guess, as long as it's in this thread
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ikr? just end this tension between them!
just be together ffs! they look really good together, I'm really enjoying this manga :$

I miss prism too, it really sucks that it has to stop because of that sort of plagiarism, it was a good manga.
At least it isn't like Girl Friends where they spent literally like 30 chapters or something having reciprocated feelings but then they were like angsting or misunderstanding or whatever. :dramaqueen:
I hope that doesn't happen if the author wants to milk this manga
but I'm enjoying this phase :love:
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About your first little paragraph, I don't know if you really realise that what you wrote can be taken as an example here rn. Like it or not, TLC SNSD was a thread for everyone, so everyone has the right to say what they want to say, the same way admins and mods tell me that like it or not you have the right to post and be here, you even have the right to agree or disagree in decisions made here cause you're part of this community (like it or not)

Everybody counts, you should have integrated everybody, not just for fun times like TLC HOT 100, in bad times too, in times where you needed help. Not the entire thread were bad apples. You're not better than the rest cause you have the mod title. As I told you before, if mods existed on the thread was because anons and regs asked for one in the beginning.

I was actually very fond of you, and I was really sad because of everything that happened. Too bad we can't be allies anymore :dramaqueen:
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^Is that someone famous?
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^Is that someone famous?
lol no, found it on Tubmlr that person is not the only one who thinks North Korea attacked Pearl Harbor they're like sheep
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ihla-sama winrar would be fine. :please:
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Got some stuff today, so it's time for another giveaway! \O/

I don't know if anybody will want these, since it's not the complete set (I'm keeping the Sunny card), but here:
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8 cards and how they look like at the back.

Also, a couple of nice quality Taeyeon and Yoona photos:
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Yoona's is a little crumpled at the top.

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So, I can send all of these together or you can pick which you want. First come, first served.

The Sooyoung sticker & photo card, as well as the fm magazine are still up for grabs, but remember you'd have to pay for the postage of the magazine if you want it.

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Never mind that. Gonna create a torrent for you instead. Give me a few minutes.
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The Oedipus & Electra complex are about identifying with your same-sex parent. Once it kicks in, you stop spending time with your opposite sex parent and start spending time with your same-sex parent to connect with them. If you had an Oedipus Complex and you were female, you'd spend all your time with your father and connect with him because you feel a sort of rivalry with him and you know that he's stronger, so you get on his good side - you feel like he's "stealing" your mother's love for you.

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If you connect with your same-sex parent = Oedipus/Electra complex.
When you say same-sex and then go on to talk about a female with the Oedipus Complex, are you giving an example of why it would be wrong to say a female has the Oedipus complex? Like, the complexes explicitly describe same-sex parent-child relationships so they cannot be used to define a girl who competes with her father for her mother? Quite confused by your reply actually lol.
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I wrote a long post... and hated myself for writing it. So I deleted it.

My two points though:

1. Make a second account. Separate your modding and social life. Listen to what people are telling you.

2. Rei isn't the victim. She could have said nothing in her introduction. That would have been better.
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Movie anon: Enjoy.
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When you say same-sex and then go on to talk about a female with the Oedipus Complex, are you giving an example of why it would be wrong to say a female has the Oedipus complex? Like, the complexes explicitly describe same-sex parent-child relationships so they cannot be used to define a girl who competes with her father for her mother? Quite confused by your reply actually lol.
Nooo, I'm just explaining what I was told they were. I can't really answer your question because I'm iffy on the theory itself as being legit - it's one of the few Freudian theories I'm somewhat cautious on espousing, lol. The Oedipus & Electra complexes are probably the most dodgy of all of Freud's theories, tbh, so keep in mind I'm not necessarily saying that you have to fit into these two, but that these are the two that Freud & Jung clearly defined.

background info, idk if you know this already but i'm posting it anyway in case anybody wants to have a gander


I think the Oedipus Complex, as defined by Freud, is specific to males in that they might "fall in love" with their mother and view their father as a rival to that love and fears that his father will take his mother's love away from him. But, the ego kicks in at this point and says, "your father is stronger than you, so don't compete with him, join him", and so the male child will associate with the male parent because he fears that the male father will castrate him if he tries to engage him as a rival. He then becomes more of a "daddy's boy" and spends more time with the father, at which point he learns morality and develops the superego.

The Electra Complex was actually a Jungian psychological counterpart rather than an actual Freudian one, but I guess the principle is the same, since they're both psychodynamic psychologists. The Electra Complex is basically the same thing but female - you fall in love with your father, but out of fear of your mother's rejection, develop a closer bond with her so that she doesn't abandon you.

They're not "competing", so to speak. It's about identification with your same-sex parent. So, in short;
If you're a male, you develop a connection with your father and this is the Oedipus Complex.
If you're a female, you develop a connection with your mother and this is the Electra Complex.

I think they're gender specific. Oedipus = Always Male.
Others can feel free to leap in and correct me if I've misunderstood anything!
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I wrote a long post... and hated myself for writing it. So I deleted it.

My two points though:

1. Make a second account. Separate your modding and social life. Listen to what people are telling you.

2. Rei isn't the victim. She could have said nothing in her introduction. That would have been better.
Damnit ninja, I love your long posts! Go write it again.
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Sigh.
I had created another account to use it for modding, however I found it incredibly annoying to be logging on and off, especially since the trolls I get, hit during the wee hours of the morning.

If you all want me to keep the separate accounts though, I will. Democracy and all that.
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^ Personally, it makes no difference to me at all, so. Do whatever's most comfortable.
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Again.
The long post I wrote.




Do what you want.
The admin on Lchat, do you ever see then casually chatting?
Do you ever wonder why that is?


Can you stop making it out like it's a hassle to log in or out off accounts?

It's a button.
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Sigh.
I had created another account to use it for modding, however I found it incredibly annoying to be logging on and off, especially since the trolls I get, hit during the wee hours of the morning.

If you all want me to keep the separate accounts though, I will. Democracy and all that.
two different browsers or browser user profiles in chrome (it's in settings) :thumbsup:
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Art's explanation of Oedipus/Electra
Very interesting! Never knew much about the the complex other than the common culture idea of "ew, you want to bang your mom". Never knew it was centralized on identifying with your same sex parent as opposed to plotting against them and partnering the opposite sex parent.

Maybe this wasn't clear from the beginning but for the purpose of my original "can a girl have the Oedipus Complex?" question, I specifically meant can a lesbian have the Oedipus Complex. And since it's defined around identifying with a same-sex parent, the answer is technically no.
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