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Apr 11 2013, 03:28 AM
Very interesting! Never knew much about the the complex other than the common culture idea of "ew, you want to bang your mom". Never knew it was centralized on identifying with your same sex parent as opposed to plotting against them and partnering the opposite sex parent.

Maybe this wasn't clear from the beginning but for the purpose of my original "can a girl have the Oedipus Complex?" question, I specifically meant can a lesbian have the Oedipus Complex. And since it's defined around identifying with a same-sex parent, the answer is technically no.
I'm glad you found it interesting, and I'm glad it answered your question, too.

The kneejerk reaction to most of Freud's theories is "lol no!" because it's so sex-oriented, but a lot of it is about childhood development and the relationship with your parents, too, and the aspects of sexuality and childhood are used in tandem so that they actually make a lot of sense. He was pretty ahead of his time. Obviously he falls down in some areas because of the knowledge that simply wasn't available then, but he was pretty revolutionary in that he invented parenthood as we know it, along with people like Harry Harlow and his Rhesus monkey experiments.

He also placed a lot of emphasis on tiers of consciousness, i.e. the conscious mind, the preconscious mind and the unconscious mind.

If you want me to carry on talking about bits of Freud that I've been taught, I will. And I extend that invitation to other people, too - I relish the opportunity to learn new things.
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Apr 11 2013, 02:54 AM
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Apr 11 2013, 02:45 AM
I wrote a long post... and hated myself for writing it. So I deleted it.

My two points though:

1. Make a second account. Separate your modding and social life. Listen to what people are telling you.

2. Rei isn't the victim. She could have said nothing in her introduction. That would have been better.
Damnit ninja, I love your long posts! Go write it again.
this is why ninja is unanimously the most popular mod of all time: she listens.

communication. like, holy shit, imagine that.
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so the tlc drama continues:

basically the anons are now questioning the rule that prohibits people from advertising other forums on the threads

smurf admin's response: http://s1.zetaboards.com/L_Anon/single/?p=9096437&t=4686283

anons counterresponse: http://s1.zetaboards.com/L_Anon/single/?p=9096612&t=4686283

this shit is heating up
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Apr 9 2013, 05:51 AM
bishes have dem tiddays bouncing fiercely today

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oh my, what a beautiful gif of trolled :please:
belated happy birthday unnie :drink:






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Apr 11 2013, 03:56 AM
so the tlc drama continues:

basically the anons are now questioning the rule that prohibits people from advertising other forums on the threads

smurf admin's response: http://s1.zetaboards.com/L_Anon/single/?p=9096437&t=4686283

anons counterresponse: http://s1.zetaboards.com/L_Anon/single/?p=9096612&t=4686283

this shit is heating up
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Meh, not everyone operates the same way.
The people have spoken though.
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two different browsers or browser user profiles in chrome (it's in settings).
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This actually quite a nice solution. Thanks a bunch, anon. :hug:
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Taengoo, change me back, please.
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Taking it back after some consideration. I want the chance to prove that one account can be enough.
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I changed my icon.

What do you think.
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so the tlc drama continues:

basically the anons are now questioning the rule that prohibits people from advertising other forums on the threads

smurf admin's response: http://s1.zetaboards.com/L_Anon/single/?p=9096437&t=4686283

anons counterresponse: http://s1.zetaboards.com/L_Anon/single/?p=9096612&t=4686283

this shit is heating up
I don't (or didn't, rather) visit other parts of the TLC forum, just visited the SNSD thread. I don't follow the thread anymore but it seems to be going great when I check every once in a while. All the anons and regs that are still there want to be there so I don't see any importance to be able to advertise sgsd there.

Both places show up on google searches, they will both continue to grow naturally from now on, no need to really worry about 'saving' anons who missed the schism that happened (I feel like they basically all made it in the spam session that happened in early March). There probably quite a few anons completely loss in the abyss of the internet (in terms of a les spazz forum), but they probably won't be helped by advertising sgsd over at tlc anyway.
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Apr 11 2013, 04:08 AM
I changed my icon.
What do you think.
It's...scary.
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Apr 11 2013, 04:08 AM
I changed my icon.

What do you think.
I like it. I like animals with pink noses.
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Apr 11 2013, 04:17 AM
It's...scary.
It is beautiful, I agree.
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Apr 11 2013, 03:47 AM
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Apr 11 2013, 02:45 AM
I wrote a long post... and hated myself for writing it. So I deleted it.

My two points though:

1. Make a second account. Separate your modding and social life. Listen to what people are telling you.

2. Rei isn't the victim. She could have said nothing in her introduction. That would have been better.
Damnit ninja, I love your long posts! Go write it again.
this is why ninja is unanimously the most popular mod of all time: she listens.

communication. like, holy shit, imagine that.
preach! :gaypimp:
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Apr 10 2013, 10:57 PM
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Do you think that you were a good mod?

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Well, things did get worse. We were still trying to hang on in there in the beginning, people were using both threads waiting for the storm to pass. Just because some anons came a little more strong on their opinions of Rei and the state of the thread, doesn't mean that everyone was doing it.

Perhaps the people that weren't taken part in the ''fun'' should have spoken up and told the others to cut it out.

And no, I don't see a reason to apologize. Definitely not to some random anon who could have helped to take the thread on tlc down, or might have been a shit-stirrer or troll in the past. This statement might doesn't make any sense to an anonymous poster, but it does to me.

It's late now, i'm gonna go to bed. Have a very nice day/afternoon/evening.
You think you were a good mod?

It sounded to me like you didn't like shippers and were aiming to drive them out of the thread. Must've been something you said... I can't remember, exactly. Do you remember what you said?
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too much banning and deleting things you didn't like either
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Really?
create a second account? that makes no sense o.O
At least not in my eyes.
You have a point ninja, I mean Admins on TLC only showed up when something was REALLY going wrong.
Usually when that happened ppl started freaking out, "Oh the adms are here!"
But I don't see the point right now tbh (In my humble opinion), I don't want ppl to feel I gave up on being Abc the old reg just because I gained the "admin" tag.
I still joke around, voice my opinions and so on. I haven't changed at all, the only diff is I have a "job" now.
I honestly don't see the need to create a second account.
I'm sorry but I have to disagree.

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If we have a massive poll (I don't know whether it was made already, I wasn't around) and the majority rules that way, I'll do it.
Bu if ppl don't care, I honestly don't see the need :wat2:
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did someone say poll
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Live coverage from TLC -- Smurf basically said, albeit without actually saying it, that she made up the rule about linking discussion forums and that The Bitch gave her authority to do so.

I noticed some people don't like their decisions being challenged, and when that happens their first response is to stay mum and refuse to discuss their reasoning behind it. If they don't understand your logic, they can't challenge your logic. IRL, you should never do that. It's an obvious defense mechanism for incompetent leaders. There isn't a more blatant admission of stupidity. Nobody will take you seriously as an authority figure if you admit to them that you're stupid.

With every single move you make, you should be prepared to be challenged in every possible way. There should be no hole in your game. You should be one step ahead of your subordinate and have a response for every objection that he raises.
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i just realised that literally everything i say is now 100x more hilarious with this icon

i am keeping it

or maybe im just tired who knows life is a mystery
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Apr 11 2013, 05:13 AM
i just realised that literally everything i say is now 100x more hilarious with this icon

i am keeping it

or maybe im just tired who knows life is a mystery
It's true :rofl:
Fabulous avatar!
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Apr 11 2013, 05:15 AM
It's true :rofl:
Fabulous avatar!
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i concur it is a fabulous avatar indeed

maybe i should find a monocle on google and photoshop it onto this cat

then it would not just be fabulous
it would be exquisite
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guys look what i found
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I also think that using two accounts its unnecessary.
Don't you think it would just be easier with just one? Like I said before, not everyone operates in the same way, and it's not like we're going around scrutinizing every ip in the thread.

Recent events excluded (since it's what started this whole argument), do you think we've been doing a bad job as Admins/Mods?
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"why is a raven like a writing desk"
to find the answer, deep into the darkness peering
long i stood there, wondering, fearing, doubting; dreaming dreams no man had ever dared to dream before

suddenly i look up from the fragments of documents preserved in an age long past, memory of life long left this planet

the darkness gave no token, but the silence had been broken
as of some one gently rapping, rapping at this forgotten door














im tired but i dont want to sleep
keep me entertained, sgsd :dramaqueen:
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Apr 11 2013, 05:29 AM
I also think that using two accounts its unnecessary.
Don't you think it would just be easier with just one? Like I said before, not everyone operates in the same way, and it's not like we're going around scrutinizing every ip in the thread.

Recent events excluded (since it's what started this whole argument), do you think we've been doing a bad job as Admins/Mods?
Can you explain in a little bit more depth why you think this is a bad idea?
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Apr 11 2013, 05:29 AM
do you think we've been doing a bad job as Admins/Mods?
not at all :) if there is ever anything that needs sorted out, everything gets handled nicely

mods, regs and anons are all treated the same i feel which i like
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Apr 11 2013, 05:35 AM
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I also think that using two accounts its unnecessary.
Don't you think it would just be easier with just one? Like I said before, not everyone operates in the same way, and it's not like we're going around scrutinizing every ip in the thread.

Recent events excluded (since it's what started this whole argument), do you think we've been doing a bad job as Admins/Mods?
Can you explain in a little bit more depth why you think this is a bad idea?
It's usually just me who's around at night (3am-6am), and like I mentioned before, that's when the trolls like to hit the thread; although there haven't been any around lately, thankfully. It's tiring and annoying to be jumping from one acocunt to another just to be able to make "normal user" comments and then back to be able to delete posts and delete trolls; especially since the bastards like to pop in sporadically, use a bajillion proxies and spam like there's no tomorrow.

I accepted the "job" since I don't sleep much (doesn't mean I'm not tired) and because I wanted to help out. It would be so much easier to do the "job" with just one account.
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Apr 11 2013, 03:17 AM
Again.
The long post I wrote.




Do what you want.
The admin on Lchat, do you ever see then casually chatting?
Do you ever wonder why that is?


Can you stop making it out like it's a hassle to log in or out off accounts?

It's a button.
Have you considered what the moderators/admins their stance is on two accounts? it's rude for you to throw it out in the open like this.
Oh wait, sorry.... this is not how i should talk to you.
Excuse me for my rudeness my queen. should i simply pull up your skirt and bury my nose in your rose smelling ass, or would you like to squat on my face?
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"the polls are still open"
i say to no-one, sirens blaring voteless candidates to empty streets
i continue to wait


http://www.surveymonkey.com/s/Q267RMV


no its ok i can entertain myself just leave me
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I also think that using two accounts its unnecessary.
Don't you think it would just be easier with just one? Like I said before, not everyone operates in the same way, and it's not like we're going around scrutinizing every ip in the thread.

Recent events excluded (since it's what started this whole argument), do you think we've been doing a bad job as Admins/Mods?
Can you explain in a little bit more depth why you think this is a bad idea?
It's usually just me who's around at night (3am-6am), and like I mentioned before, that's when the trolls like to hit the thread; although there haven't been any around lately, thankfully. It's tiring and annoying to be jumping from one acocunt to another just to be able to make "normal user" comments and then back to be able to delete posts and delete trolls; especially since the bastards like to pop in sporadically, use a bajillion proxies and spam like there's no tomorrow.

I accepted the "job" since I don't sleep much (doesn't mean I'm not tired) and because I wanted to help out. It would be so much easier to do the "job" with just one account.
That's a fair explanation.

I'll give you my explanation now.

I've complained about unprofessional mod behavior on the Complaints thread. This is for reasons that I find justifiable and Taengoo agreed with me as well. You all know who I am just by looking at my IP and you've probably memorized it by now. I have done/said nothing wrong since then, but I know you still recognize my posts. It makes me really uncomfortable, and I don't trust you to be impartial to me.

For people who post in the complaints thread against mods in the future, they will be in the same position that I am in. I would go as far as to say the realization that complaining about a mod could cause backlash would even deter them from speaking up against you or giving you any negative feedback whatsoever. It is a systematic deterrent to what should be an otherwise efficient check-and-balance.
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didn't people used to use the "tiffany we were all rooting for you" gif way more back on tlc, or was that just my imagination. we should bring that back
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i miss stepho
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didn't people used to use the "tiffany we were all rooting for you" gif way more back on tlc, or was that just my imagination. we should bring that back
There was once a video on Youtube of Tyra yelling at Tiffany(a contester on ANTM) and someone photoshopped Tiffany her head onto the girl. I tried to watch the video several weeks ago but couldn't find it anymore :(
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ok im going to sleep and when i wake up im either going to find this hilarious or hate myself and my life and also you for witnessing this

vote in da poll http://www.surveymonkey.com/s/Q267RMV xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxxoxoxoxox luv u guiz megabad mwah <3
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I've come to recognize your Ip anon, that's true, and I recognize that I also get pissed off by you, and we collided a lot. But I tried my best to be as helpful as possible, did it not seem that way to you?

I really don't care if they want to give negative feedback, I would actually appreciate it since it could help to become a better Mod, and actually encourage anons to speak their minds.

It's not like you would belive my words, but it's actually the way it is. It's a thin rope I'm walking here, since I could get banned from the thread if I use the "Mod powers" to my own means.
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Apr 11 2013, 06:14 AM
I've come to recognize your Ip anon, that's true, and I recognize that I also get pissed off by you, and we collided a lot. But I tried my best to be as helpful as possible, did it not seem that way to you?

I really don't care if they want to give negative feedback, I would actually appreciate it since it could help to become a better Mod, and actually encourage anons to speak their minds.

It's not like you would belive my words, but it's actually the way it is. It's a thin rope I'm walking here, since I could get banned from the thread if I use the "Mod powers" to my own means.
I would like to trust you to be forever, completely unbiased and impartial. I really do, but I also trusted Windmill. We all did. From my perspective, that didn't work out.

If you all decide not to make separate accounts and/or not to hold a vote on it, forgive me if I start posting with proxy IPs. I'm reclaiming my right to be anonymous.
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