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I don't think I give off any vibes. Is it a conscious thing that you can learn to do?
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I'm Asian too, But some are really easy to tell. Like here in where I live, lots of lesbian dressed like a guy, really boyish. I don't mean girls who dressed like guys are all gays but for those girls here. You know they are gay. But those feminine ones are hard to tell unless you see they are dating a boyish girl.
Asian girl here. I have never seen any asian femme X femme couple in my whole life and I lost hope . :unsure:
I know that feel. I don't even know any asian gay girls. :'(

I wish there was a community for gay asians. :dramaqueen:
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those asian gay girls i know are the ones who dressed/act like guys.
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I don't think I give off any vibes. Is it a conscious thing that you can learn to do?
i have no idea... maybe if you act more flirty toward girls? or be nicer toward girls?
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i have no idea... maybe if you act more flirty toward girls? or be nicer toward girls?
i'm always nice to girls (and not so much to guys but they seem to take this as encouragement - where's that retard emote?) but i think the problem is they think i'm just being nice, which most of the time i am. i'm just curious to know if i can somehow get girls to hit on me instead of guys because i'm not the type to initiate conversation/flirting.
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Asian girl here. I have never seen any asian femme X femme couple in my whole life and I lost hope . :unsure:
I know that feel. I don't even know any asian gay girls. :'(

I wish there was a community for gay asians. :dramaqueen:
i know :dramaqueen:
those asian gay girls i know are the ones who dressed/act like guys.
DA why dont y'all just hook up (if you are all femmes)
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I need to rant this out. My dislike towards guy intensified just now. The case goes like this:
My class decides to hold a gathering and thus the organizer made a poll to enquire on whether we can make it on this saturday, there's two options - yes or no. At first, i chose to ignore because i know my decisions sometimes waver, and who knows there might be external activities, thus i decided not to choose, and see whether how it goes. But later on, the organizer tag me into that post, asking me to decide. I then commented, "depends on the majority". He replied me, "if everybody like you, might as well call off this dinner before we even start planing it. Please decide yourself" I thought that it was kinda rude and sarcastic, or am i just assuming things here and that's a common reply?
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I need to rant this out. My dislike towards guy intensified just now. The case goes like this:
My class decides to hold a gathering and thus the organizer made a poll to enquire on whether we can make it on this saturday, there's two options - yes or no. At first, i chose to ignore because i know my decisions sometimes waver, and who knows there might be external activities, thus i decided not to choose, and see whether how it goes. But later on, the organizer tag me into that post, asking me to decide. I then commented, "depends on the majority". He replied me, "if everybody like you, might as well call off this dinner before we even start planing it. Please decide yourself" I thought that it was kinda rude and sarcastic, or am i just assuming things here and that's a common reply?
i think he's a little hot tempered but it's a normal response. if i'm organising an event i side eye people who don't give me a response.
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^I think it's common courtesy to indicate your dis/interest in an event to which you've been invited. I don't think he was being rude or sarcastic in pointing out that if everyone decided to do as you have done, there would be no majority to inform your decision.
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Asian girl here. I have never seen any asian femme X femme couple in my whole life and I lost hope . :unsure:
I know that feel. I don't even know any asian gay girls. :'(

I wish there was a community for gay asians. :dramaqueen:
i know :dramaqueen:
those asian gay girls i know are the ones who dressed/act like guys.
asian here, sometimes boyish, sometimes femme. Yeah, agree, i don't see femme + femme couple, and we don't simply grab boob(?) like brazil is it(?) if i am not mistaken... lol
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lol That was gross, Dys.
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^I think it's common courtesy to indicate your dis/interest in an event to which you've been invited. I don't think he was being rude or sarcastic in pointing out that if everyone decided to do as you have done, there would be no majority to inform your decision.
you can actually checked the majority near the side of the poll, including the person who is going/not going. And i don't see there's a problem when he actually replied one of his friend on the latter's, "Maybe not, but the majority is going, I will try to make it"
It's also dependence.
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I need to rant this out. My dislike towards guy intensified just now. The case goes like this:
My class decides to hold a gathering and thus the organizer made a poll to enquire on whether we can make it on this saturday, there's two options - yes or no. At first, i chose to ignore because i know my decisions sometimes waver, and who knows there might be external activities, thus i decided not to choose, and see whether how it goes. But later on, the organizer tag me into that post, asking me to decide. I then commented, "depends on the majority". He replied me, "if everybody like you, might as well call off this dinner before we even start planing it. Please decide yourself" I thought that it was kinda rude and sarcastic, or am i just assuming things here and that's a common reply?
i think he's a little hot tempered but it's a normal response. if i'm organising an event i side eye people who don't give me a response.
it's actually not an invitation directly, it's a post in fb on the group, it's not necessarily to be replied imo, some also didn't give their response towards him. I really regretted it for actually commented, i should just ignored it. All i got is humiliation, there's one even like that harsh reply he gave me :(
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I need to rant this out. My dislike towards guy intensified just now. The case goes like this:
My class decides to hold a gathering and thus the organizer made a poll to enquire on whether we can make it on this saturday, there's two options - yes or no. At first, i chose to ignore because i know my decisions sometimes waver, and who knows there might be external activities, thus i decided not to choose, and see whether how it goes. But later on, the organizer tag me into that post, asking me to decide. I then commented, "depends on the majority". He replied me, "if everybody like you, might as well call off this dinner before we even start planing it. Please decide yourself" I thought that it was kinda rude and sarcastic, or am i just assuming things here and that's a common reply?
i think he's a little hot tempered but it's a normal response. if i'm organising an event i side eye people who don't give me a response.
it's actually not an invitation directly, it's a post in fb on the group, it's not necessarily to be replied imo, some also didn't give their response towards him. I really regretted it for actually commented, i should just ignored it. All i got is humiliation, there's one even like that harsh reply he gave me :(
he was probably annoyed that people weren't responding to his poll and was probably not directing that statement at you personally.
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^I think it's common courtesy to indicate your dis/interest in an event to which you've been invited. I don't think he was being rude or sarcastic in pointing out that if everyone decided to do as you have done, there would be no majority to inform your decision.
you can actually checked the majority near the side of the poll, including the person who is going/not going. And i don't see there's a problem when he actually replied one of his friend on the latter's, "Maybe not, but the majority is going, I will try to make it"
It's also dependence.
Yes, I'm saying the reason you can check the preliminary results of the poll is because other people have voted. And idk if it's the OP but if it's a large fb group then I guess it's not important whether you (specifically) reply or not but I honestly don't think it was harsh or intended to be humiliating but that's just me.
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I don't think I give off gay vibes. Unless occasionally, because there are a few times I looked gheigheighei when dressing up for a concert (I wore a fucking blazer and had on a collared shirt...it was cute, but ghei). :P

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It is, lol. A lot of it doesn't require proofs because probability theory is based off a set of axioms and as such, do not require validation. i'm gonna try, I don't know anyone else taking my diff eq. course whereas I normally would during the long semester, so if it'll affect anything for me, probably the amount of time to work through problem sets and study since I won't have a group to work with or ask questions when I have a problem. Ultimately, it might end up being more beneficial - and rewarding - for me. ^_^
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I don't think I give off gay vibes. Unless occasionally, because there are a few times I looked gheigheighei when dressing up for a concert (I wore a fucking blazer and had on a collared shirt...it was cute, but ghei). :P
sometimes i wear something hipsterish, those are the times i think i give off gay vibes ^_^
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What are you bishes talking about?
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What are you bishes talking about?
something you're good at - giving off gay vibes :lol:
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What are you bishes talking about?
something you're good at - giving off gay vibes :lol:
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That man looks like the vehicle on the sign.

idk it's weird.
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That man looks like the vehicle on the sign.

idk it's weird.
It's not weird, it's funny look at his sad face because he's not allowed to be there :rofl:
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That man looks like the vehicle on the sign.

idk it's weird.
It's not weird, it's funny look at his sad face because he's not allowed to be there :rofl:
There are plenty of drawings by the same author, they are pretty weird lol
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anyway, girls, do you think you give off gay vibes?
Lol Nope. I think it's because I'm Asian.
I'm Asian too, But some are really easy to tell. Like here in where I live, lots of lesbian dressed like a guy, really boyish. I don't mean girls who dressed like guys are all gays but for those girls here. You know they are gay. But those feminine ones are hard to tell unless you see they are dating a boyish girl.
Yeah I get you. Most of the lesbian couples here in Asia are so typical. One looks a tomboy and the other is more feminine. To me it's like, if you want to date a guy why don't you just do so? I'm still sexually confused,bi maybe, but if I ever be a lesbian, I won't date a tomboy or be like them. Not that I hate them(one of my friend is a TB), its not my kind of thing
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Yeah I get you. Most of the lesbian couples here in Asia are so typical. One looks a tomboy and the other is more feminine. To me it's like, if you want to date a guy why don't you just do so? I'm still sexually confused,bi maybe, but if I ever be a lesbian, I won't date a tomboy or be like them. Not that I hate them(one of my friend is a TB), its not my kind of thing
Well, they're not dating a boy, are they? They're dating a girl.
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That man looks like the vehicle on the sign.

idk it's weird.
It's not weird, it's funny look at his sad face because he's not allowed to be there :rofl:
His balls :rofl:
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What are you bishes talking about?
something you're good at - giving off gay vibes :lol:
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That man looks like the vehicle on the sign.

idk it's weird.
It's not weird, it's funny look at his sad face because he's not allowed to be there :rofl:
There are plenty of drawings by the same author, they are pretty weird lol
Yeah he's awesome!
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It's not weird, it's funny look at his sad face because he's not allowed to be there :rofl:
There are plenty of drawings by the same author, they are pretty weird lol
Yeah he's awesome!
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It's not weird, it's funny look at his sad face because he's not allowed to be there :rofl:
There are plenty of drawings by the same author, they are pretty weird lol
Yeah he's awesome!
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anyway, girls, do you think you give off gay vibes?
Lol Nope. I think it's because I'm Asian.
I'm Asian too, But some are really easy to tell. Like here in where I live, lots of lesbian dressed like a guy, really boyish. I don't mean girls who dressed like guys are all gays but for those girls here. You know they are gay. But those feminine ones are hard to tell unless you see they are dating a boyish girl.
Yeah I get you. Most of the lesbian couples here in Asia are so typical. One looks a tomboy and the other is more feminine. To me it's like, if you want to date a guy why don't you just do so? I'm still sexually confused,bi maybe, but if I ever be a lesbian, I won't date a tomboy or be like them. Not that I hate them(one of my friend is a TB), its not my kind of thing
DA

these days, many Korean lesbians don't like too mannish girl...so It's more hard to recognize couples these days
but still can recognize typical butch femme couples lol
I have been seeing butch hating on lesbian site like on a daily basis, like TLC but fortunately new site banned all hating.
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Yeah I get you. Most of the lesbian couples here in Asia are so typical. One looks a tomboy and the other is more feminine. To me it's like, if you want to date a guy why don't you just do so? I'm still sexually confused,bi maybe, but if I ever be a lesbian, I won't date a tomboy or be like them. Not that I hate them(one of my friend is a TB), its not my kind of thing
that's what i thought when i was still sexually confused, but then i realized no matter what they dressed like they're still girls. it's just i'm not into that type of girls.
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