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Sad things happened to this board and this community has moved to the new place. If you lost touch with us, please find us at www.sogayshidae.com. First 10 pages of the new Forum Discussions thread should fill you in with the details of this drama. This forum was restored and frozen for archive purposes. |
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| TaeJawLine | Jan 31 2013, 11:52 PM Post #71 |
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| Guest | Feb 1 2013, 01:43 AM Post #72 |
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I hope so but still I don't like her at all. Well, sometimes people make mistakes, no one is perfect *trying to be positive, but it's hard at least I'm trying*
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| Poulet | Feb 1 2013, 05:05 AM Post #73 |
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After all, she made quite a mess I hope for the better concerning the lchat thread
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| Guest | Feb 1 2013, 06:04 AM Post #74 |
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seems like an anon is lost and doesn't have the link to this thread? looks like it's a criptic message or something
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| ninja | Feb 1 2013, 07:10 AM Post #75 |
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I only found the chat today because of snsd-blair posted the link on ask.fm Yesterday I did a search with "sogayshidae zetaboards" and no results would show... and then the entire L Chat forum disappeared for a good minute or so, and freaked me the hell out. |
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| Guest | Feb 1 2013, 01:36 PM Post #76 |
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I don't what to feel after reading Windmill and Rei's post. I was at the chat when Wind discussed what she would post and answered questions. I'm still apprehensive with everything right now. The old thread just doesn't have that old feeling of a fun home anymore. I would still monitor it, but I think I won't post anymore.
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| Guest | Feb 1 2013, 01:39 PM Post #77 |
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My head hurt after reading that on L Ch@t I kind of just... just want to lay into them both for some of the language they use. But that would be wrong. And a shower to clear my head would be better than lashing out because a word or a sentence bothers me. Not sure what to do either. |
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| Taeng | Feb 1 2013, 01:41 PM Post #78 |
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Yeshh, Windy's & Rei's posts... Dunno. I still don't feel like coming back there y'know |
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| Frost | Feb 1 2013, 02:44 PM Post #79 |
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Quoting what I said at the main:
That's my opinion. |
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| Guest | Feb 1 2013, 03:34 PM Post #80 |
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First, viewing objectively, if we prefer new fans(lesbian or others) who are interested in snsd to be able to find us, the tlc thread is the best established platform. The way I see, the tlc thread has space to grow in terms of members and visitors while sogayshidae would most likely suffer stagnant growth simply because it isn't as out there and that all the current members and anons come from the tlc thread. Second, we have freedom and a pleasant community here in the new thread but we will most likely suffer inadequate activity due to limited members. As of now, the thread doesn't have enough members and anons to post news/stuff/comments from time to time. For me, one of the things that makes the tlc thread great is that it is constantly moving. For the moment, I think there are the two points acting against the new thread. I think it really depends on how much we weigh in these two against the rest of the pros of this thread. I guess it is down to what are the things we choose to compromise. These are my two cents. |
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| Guest | Feb 1 2013, 03:57 PM Post #81 |
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^^ Agreed. I think with little doubt, this place will eventually become stagnant without L Chat, kind of like what happened with White Flag. The high turnover brings quite a lot, even if the "power chatters" (most active users) are here currently. I quite like L Chat, even though it's a little maddening. I don't wish to be there forever but it has it's moments. |
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| Frost | Feb 1 2013, 03:58 PM Post #82 |
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^ Hmhm, I think we have enough people to make this place move. TLC thread is also full of lurkers who rarely post. The more active this place becomes, the more chances for it to be found (I think). Also, attracting new people = more trolls and men. There was a time when snsd tlc thread was not as popular as it is now (and less regulated if not at all), those were the best days imo. But yes, we are now at disadvantage. I don't think it really matters tho. We have to succeed at making this an awesome place.
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| Guest | Feb 1 2013, 04:38 PM Post #83 |
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Well to be honest i still can't accept them like before. I was there when everything started. From the ban thing, Mrei's investigation to the temporary close thread. I don't hate them but the thread has lost its spirit and fun. With strict mods and rules like that i don't think i can post freely like before there. I'm not a reg but i'm a regular anon there. It had so much fun until it had ruined. It's not easy to bring back what we had lost after what had happened. So, i'm thinking to be just a lurker there since the thread has so many sweet memories but i'll spend much more time here. It's up to you guys to decide which options you want to but i hope the admins, regs and anons will keep this thread alive and post here. Anyway i want to join too
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| Guest | Feb 1 2013, 04:59 PM Post #84 |
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totally agree with you t's the best this way, less lurkers, less trolls and problems. The thread wasn't popular in the beginning.Yesterday t lc thread got no replies for almost an hour, while this one was kinda active, I feel like most of the people who move the thread is here rn, I'm glad lots of regs come here, even though we had some regs v/s anons fights once in a while, we are still a family in the end. :gaypimp: I was expecting an apology but it didn't happen (nazi rei trying to look normal), but at the same time I'm so glad that unzip came here and speak up, I respect her more now. on other news, I can't believe an anon call us shit stirrers who manipulate, did I understand correctly? maybe my esl is showing
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| Rum | Feb 1 2013, 05:09 PM Post #85 |
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I was keeping up with the Rei drama but I haven't been back there in a while so I can't say much about the mods. But the thread on the other hand... I think at one point the dynamics started changing when we were linked everywhere and so many new people found us. Trolls, people who didn't get our jokes and then bit back at us saying we were rude/a bunch of kids blahblah - then all the fighting shit started escalating and there was stricter modding and we became this seriousbiz thread. I didn't like it, it wasn't fun and it felt like some mainstream forum (think S$F.) I would think it's hard to get things back now esp after all the drama so we should probably work on this place instead. Then again, that's just my personal opinion. Let me join the fun yo
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| Frost | Feb 1 2013, 05:12 PM Post #86 |
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| xyz | Feb 1 2013, 05:15 PM Post #87 |
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It's true that there are several points in favor of TLC thread right now: 1) It's much easier to find. Search engines love it. And the reason for it is all the content that we ourselves filled it with. 2) It has non-SNSD audience that can convert 3) It's well-known among SNSD fans It would take time for this new forum to reach those levels. But it's possible. Search engines like fresh content and the more we post, the more we'll be catching up. We can try and intentionally optimize the board a little to make it more Google-friendly. Word spreads. Most people that know about TLC thread will know about this one after a while. What this thread has in favor and what TLC can't be helped with is administration. Even if we let Rei do her job in peace now, it will not change the fact that there'll be a hammer hanging above people's heads. Even if we go back now and pretend everything is fine, it's a matter of time before it it's anymore. It's a trouble waiting to happen. I mean 'admins are generously allowing us to talk about things we want to talk about'. Do we really need this kind of favor? In situation like this, mods will do anything and say 'admins made us do it', admins will point finger and say 'zetaboards made us do it'. They all will have their actions justified and we'll be left in a place that just isn't fun. Staying here and being allowed to talk about things means more interesting content will be posted that can attract both real people and search engine bots. Sticking with TLC is may be better for the present but SGSD gives more hope for the future. Whatever we pick, we better pick soon and get done with this drama already. SNSD are fun, forum threads about gay SNSD are meant to be fun. |
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| Guest | Feb 1 2013, 05:21 PM Post #88 |
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yeah when we got linked we got unnecesary attention. at least gaylord derpina and yuriblazer are not used outside the thread we would never be like happy place though, I'll probably get banned just for sayin: I'm agree with you bitch! that was fucking amazing I'm not a sheep
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| Guest | Feb 1 2013, 05:33 PM Post #89 |
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I want to stay here, but I only represent myself lol maybe we need a poll or a big discussion again, since the 2 mods that didn't speak before just did it now. |
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| spooky | Feb 1 2013, 05:37 PM Post #90 |
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This bit is so true, xyz. Posting on these boards should be fun, and it ceased being fun for me a long time ago because of how the thread became. It's more than us just wanting to stay here though, enough anons have to want to be here in order to keep it going. |
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| Guest | Feb 1 2013, 05:42 PM Post #91 |
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some regs can't post into tlc. wonder what's happened
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| Guest | Feb 1 2013, 05:44 PM Post #92 |
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^^^ sorry, didn't meant to quote that. my mistake
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| Guest | Feb 1 2013, 05:49 PM Post #93 |
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About the number of anons, tlc has 100 but no one posts anything. Most are just lurkers or bots. I think we have an average of 30-40 people here right now. We should post more content and people will be attracted soon enough. |
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| Guest | Feb 1 2013, 05:52 PM Post #94 |
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I saw SBS show The Discovery of Trend that sooyoung appeared today it was about increasing unmarried persons in Korea. more single than family and new services for them (like karaoke&restaurant for one person) even though I'm a lesbian and I will not marry, I think this situation is kind of sad.. |
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| Guest | Feb 1 2013, 06:00 PM Post #95 |
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Initially I am concerned that the new thread might fail if there isn't enough posters and the possibility that others would decide to stick back with tlc once things calm down. Then I remember the old tlc thread became well-known because of the amount of discussion happening there. The tlc thread might have the upperhand in terms of numbers but if the interesting discussion happens here, then it will be just a matter of time that people would eventually seek here. From another perspective, we can be considered on advantage too since most regs are actually opting to stay here and they are the visible active source from tlc thread. I am with xyz on this. People will stay at anywhere as long as it is interesting and informative. I would like to give this thread a chance and time. |
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| Guest | Feb 1 2013, 06:02 PM Post #96 |
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x2 but at the same time I think it's quite practical, the thing is: people are not getting married, so things have to adjust to this new fact, I'd prefer things adjusted to my way of living otherwise I'll feel like I'm interrupting something. you won't marry cause korea doesn't allow gay marriage, but you can totally find a lover and live with her :gaypimp: |
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| Guest | Feb 1 2013, 06:05 PM Post #97 |
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^ sa well I replied as if you were living in korea, but if you don't well, I was trying to say that if the place where you live doesn't allow gay marriage that's why you won't marry but you can live with your partner at least
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| Guest | Feb 1 2013, 06:12 PM Post #98 |
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is it really important to have lurkers here? you have 85 lurkers but not too many people posting. the thread started with less people lurking and ever less people posting and it was actually better than now. now there's a rule for everything, I don't think all of them are lesbians but god forbid if you say it (I'm against straight shipping in the thread though I just want quality non trolling discussion ) I think we're not here to entertain lurkers but ourselves. |
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| Guest | Feb 1 2013, 06:20 PM Post #99 |
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I'm a Korean ![]() I agree with you. of course I want to live with gf but I mean It's kind of sad for our country..It's not only gays but also straights..living/dying alone is so sad and dreary...:(( |
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| spooky | Feb 1 2013, 06:25 PM Post #100 |
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Even if lurkers don't post much, I think the attraction of having lurkers is that when people share stuff about the girls, they would want to share it with as many people as possible. And when a thread only has say, 20 anons lurking, it's a bit discouraging to keep posting new updates. Just my opinion. |
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| xyz | Feb 1 2013, 06:41 PM Post #101 |
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There is regular information and insider-like one. If we are talking first kind, it's mostly gathered from other sources by active users and we have many of those here. As for insiders and insider-wannabes (I think they were fun personally), this forum leaves more space for that to happen. TLC got rid of that culture the moment mods started checking everyone's IPs and deleting everything that fell out of 'happily delusional all gay every day' box they decided to put us in. Serious discussions can't happen there these days, let alone insider stuff. That place is neither free nor anonymous enough. Plus people aren't stupid. TLC has some established audience but it won't stay there if the place is empty. Loyalty means few in the matters of fun. People will go where things are happening. It's only a matter of time. |
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| Guest | Feb 1 2013, 06:49 PM Post #102 |
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Yea, I understand what you are saying, but it is also true that not everyone here joins the thread at the same time. People come, get interested, want to be part of the community and then stay if they like it. Of course, what we would like to attract are active voices instead of silent lurkers. However, not all lurkers are here to just watch, some stay silent because they cannot find anything to add into the conversation and only join when they have something to say. They simply don't find the need to post constantly. Besides, the probability of lurkers un-lurking is higher when there is discussion than say spazzing about pics or gifs. The lurkers may not be that important in terms of moving the thread and tend to go along with the flow, but I think they will be helpful when there is any sort of discussion that may interest them. |
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| Guest | Feb 1 2013, 07:53 PM Post #103 |
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Sorry Taengoo, I didn't realize people were discussing this issue in here, you can delete my other post. (I love you, btw )Anyway, I'll just copy what I post on the other thread, even tho everyone already said what I feel. This thread is feeling exactly like our first SNSD thread, not that many people but still enough to have good discussions or knowing the latest news about our girls. It was just later on that as the thread progressed we start appearing more on the google search and hence got more people. And that's probably what's going to happen in here if we just keep posting like we did in TLC. I have no problem going back to the other if everyone decides to go, but I'm enjoying this sense of calmness and freedom. And I want to add that Windmill's and Rei's posts did nothing for me. It felt like they were just throwing the blame around instead of owning up to their mistakes and ridiculous actions. |
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| Guest | Feb 1 2013, 09:33 PM Post #104 |
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Hi girls! This is my first post! I want to write some opinions Introduction about the tlc situation mods last post about the "war" about the new thread to the creator of this thread problems loading new thread Sorry for the very long post but I want to share my feelings with all of you.
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| Brity Spear | Feb 1 2013, 09:34 PM Post #105 |
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I'm still apprehensive with everything right now. The old thread just doesn't have that old feeling of a fun home anymore. I would still monitor it, but I think I won't post anymore.

t's the best this way, less lurkers, less trolls and problems. The thread wasn't popular in the beginning.
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I'm torn without continue there or just here.



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