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tonight i had a little chat with my mom. and i don't remember how but we got in to marriage topic. and she said "your dad and i, we really hope that you could find a good man". i didn't really know what to say so all i said is i'm still young.
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i thought she suspected me being gay though :unsure:
I've had little chats with my parents that scared me. Most recently I get questioned everytime I mention my girlfriend's name. They keep asking stuff about her and I think they're trying to connect the dots about me. :unsure:
I'm completely out and I remember having those conversations with my parents. They kept trying to set me up with boys and I just wasn't interested in the slightest and threw myself into school as a distraction. They would always ask my questions about my first girlfriend as if they knew what we were but I was still in the closet. And yet my mom was still shocked when I came out three years later lol.

Questions are good though. It means they are noticing things about you and can start going through the process of recognition and hopefully, acceptance.
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"weird smells" and "soulless rich people" I can't :rofl:
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"weird smells" and "soulless rich people" I can't :rofl:
They should have tornadoes replace turnpikes in Oklahoma.

Also, gay cowboys made me laugh so hard.
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This is sad and a bit scary. They are basically condoning gay bashing. I still don't understand how they are going to enforce this law.
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da, i kinda miss umaibo...where are you girl...
x2. I miss her and Futminao.
omg yes, they were a hilarious couple
I still remember those "reported" comments, I think it was futminao :rofl:
I miss those crazy bitches
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Rollcall: FutMiNao :gaypimp: Umaibo :gaypimp:
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Ask her to ask him the real reason he left/was kicked out of 2 pm.
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Ask her to ask him the real reason he left/was kicked out of 2 pm.
i doubt they still have contact plus she's not even a kpop fan. it'll be awkward.
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tonight i had a little chat with my mom. and i don't remember how but we got in to marriage topic. and she said "your dad and i, we really hope that you could find a good man". i didn't really know what to say so all i said is i'm still young.
:rofl:

i thought she suspected me being gay though :unsure:
I've had little chats with my parents that scared me. Most recently I get questioned everytime I mention my girlfriend's name. They keep asking stuff about her and I think they're trying to connect the dots about me. :unsure:
I'm completely out and I remember having those conversations with my parents. They kept trying to set me up with boys and I just wasn't interested in the slightest and threw myself into school as a distraction. They would always ask my questions about my first girlfriend as if they knew what we were but I was still in the closet. And yet my mom was still shocked when I came out three years later lol.

Questions are good though. It means they are noticing things about you and can start going through the process of recognition and hopefully, acceptance.
i'm really scared of coming out to my parents cause most people in my country are still pretty conservative.

i don't know what do they think about homosexuality, never had a conversation about it with them.
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Jun 12 2013, 10:11 PM
tonight i had a little chat with my mom. and i don't remember how but we got in to marriage topic. and she said "your dad and i, we really hope that you could find a good man". i didn't really know what to say so all i said is i'm still young.
:rofl:

i thought she suspected me being gay though :unsure:
I've had little chats with my parents that scared me. Most recently I get questioned everytime I mention my girlfriend's name. They keep asking stuff about her and I think they're trying to connect the dots about me. :unsure:
I'm completely out and I remember having those conversations with my parents. They kept trying to set me up with boys and I just wasn't interested in the slightest and threw myself into school as a distraction. They would always ask my questions about my first girlfriend as if they knew what we were but I was still in the closet. And yet my mom was still shocked when I came out three years later lol.

Questions are good though. It means they are noticing things about you and can start going through the process of recognition and hopefully, acceptance.
i'm really scared of coming out to my parents cause most people in my country are still pretty conservative.

i don't know what do they think about homosexuality, never had a conversation about it with them.
when I talk with my mom about me being a lesbian I always get hurt
maybe in a few years she'll finally accept me, idk she's like in denial
we talk normally she acts normally, but as soon she the topic appears she'll turn into her homophobic self
she's like: if you want to live like that you'll have to do it outside my house, I can't accept that, I won't attend your wedding if you marry a woman.

the last time we talked about it was a few weeks ago, she was saying that gays are violent because they get passionate when they fall in love and I couldn't stop myself, and I just said: how could you say that, not every gay is like that, I'm not like that, I'm a lesbian and you better start dealing with it. I didn't yell, I was calm enough :rofl: my sister is cool about it, telling my dad and brother is out of the question, they wouldn't understand, I'm still their little cute anon who wouldn't dare to fall in love with a girl.
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Jun 13 2013, 06:07 AM
when I talk with my mom about me being a lesbian I always get hurt
maybe in a few years she'll finally accept me, idk she's like in denial
we talk normally she acts normally, but as soon she the topic appears she'll turn into her homophobic self
she's like: if you want to live like that you'll have to do it outside my house, I can't accept that, I won't attend your wedding if you marry a woman.

the last time we talked about it was a few weeks ago, she was saying that gays are violent because they get passionate when they fall in love and I couldn't stop myself, and I just said: how could you say that, not every gay is like that, I'm not like that, I'm a lesbian and you better start dealing with it. I didn't yell, I was calm enough :rofl: my sister is cool about it, telling my dad and brother is out of the question, they wouldn't understand, I'm still their little cute anon who wouldn't dare to fall in love with a girl.
I believe your mom will accept you, she just needs some more time :))

I'm not sure about my brother, I think he suspects me being gay cause I once caught him staring at my phone when I came back to livivg room(I was texting my best friend, we were talking about my sexuality) he just looked away when he realized I came back. So maybe he knows. And my dad, I don't know, we don't really talk. He wouldn't understand, he might blame my mom for not teaching me right. As for my mom, I think she would accept me being a lesbian, I don't know how long would that take though.

But right now I don't even know when should I come out to my mom, and how :unsure:
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Anon who was problematic yesterday. Thanks to the anon who gave advice. ^_^

About the coming out thing, I'm not sure how my family would take it. My family is pretty liberal but still on the conservative side (Asian and religious) but lately my mom has been giving me hints or dropping words in passing that she's got suspicions about my sexuality, and my relationship. She even said to my aunt one time that only my siblings are the ones that she expects to get married. Anyway, I'm still observing them and making a feel of their stand on the matter. I don't know yet about my dad, he's just neutral but I think a little less strict than my mom or maybe because I'm a daddy's girl?
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idt i could come out to my parents. i think it's that asian part of me that doesn't want to disappoint them even tho i know it isn't wrong to be gay, but they think it is and i don't want to break their hearts bc i know i will :/.
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is anyone pressed @mber h3ard is dating jooohnny d3pp bc i sort of am. i get why she may have wanted to date him like 5 years ago, but like seriously, he's so fug these days and he looks like he's going through amid life crisis. why would you want that mess in your life idk.
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Jun 13 2013, 10:18 AM
is anyone pressed @mber h3ard is dating jooohnny d3pp bc i sort of am. i get why she may have wanted to date him like 5 years ago, but like seriously, he's so fug these days and he looks like he's going through amid life crisis. why would you want that mess in your life idk.
Wasn't she dating a french girl?

As far a I know, D3pp wanted her but she dgaf.
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is anyone pressed @mber h3ard is dating jooohnny d3pp bc i sort of am. i get why she may have wanted to date him like 5 years ago, but like seriously, he's so fug these days and he looks like he's going through amid life crisis. why would you want that mess in your life idk.
Wasn't she dating a french girl?

As far a I know, D3pp wanted her but she dgaf.
i thought it was fake until i saw pictures of them holding hands and going to concerts together. it's really weird.
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is anyone pressed @mber h3ard is dating jooohnny d3pp bc i sort of am. i get why she may have wanted to date him like 5 years ago, but like seriously, he's so fug these days and he looks like he's going through amid life crisis. why would you want that mess in your life idk.
Wasn't she dating a french girl?

As far a I know, D3pp wanted her but she dgaf.
i thought it was fake until i saw pictures of them holding hands and going to concerts together. it's really weird.
How old are those pics?
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is anyone pressed @mber h3ard is dating jooohnny d3pp bc i sort of am. i get why she may have wanted to date him like 5 years ago, but like seriously, he's so fug these days and he looks like he's going through amid life crisis. why would you want that mess in your life idk.
Wasn't she dating a french girl?

As far a I know, D3pp wanted her but she dgaf.
i thought it was fake until i saw pictures of them holding hands and going to concerts together. it's really weird.
How old are those pics?
quite recent, the last couple of months or so
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I heard they were done a few months ago. Apparently he was smitten, even got her a horse so they could go riding together. I was a little pressed because I thought her and Tasya were a hot couple but ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
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Jun 12 2013, 08:50 PM
girls, what color are your eyes?
mine are dark brown, i just wish they were a bit lighter.
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Light brown, they are actually kinda unique here, 'cause blue eyes are our country's most mutual ones. So they flatter them a lot.

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idt i could come out to my parents. i think it's that asian part of me that doesn't want to disappoint them even tho i know it isn't wrong to be gay, but they think it is and i don't want to break their hearts bc i know i will :/.
^this x1000000000

Society can judge me all they want, I don't give a flying fuck about it. But the thought of my parents facing those judgement just because of my doing is unbearable. I dunno ya'll, I still think of this every single day and I dont think I could ever be 100% happy with my life. Shit is tough :-/
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idt i could come out to my parents. i think it's that asian part of me that doesn't want to disappoint them even tho i know it isn't wrong to be gay, but they think it is and i don't want to break their hearts bc i know i will :/.
^this x1000000000

Society can judge me all they want, I don't give a flying fuck about it. But the thought of my parents facing those judgement just because of my doing is unbearable. I dunno ya'll, I still think of this every single day and I dont think I could ever be 100% happy with my life. Shit is tough :-/
I feel you :alright:
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idt i could come out to my parents. i think it's that asian part of me that doesn't want to disappoint them even tho i know it isn't wrong to be gay, but they think it is and i don't want to break their hearts bc i know i will :/.
^this x1000000000

Society can judge me all they want, I don't give a flying fuck about it. But the thought of my parents facing those judgement just because of my doing is unbearable. I dunno ya'll, I still think of this every single day and I dont think I could ever be 100% happy with my life. Shit is tough :-/
i think it's wrong for anyone to judge you or me for not coming out given our circumstances, especially if they don't know what it's like to be growing up in an ethnic and conservative family.
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idt i could come out to my parents. i think it's that asian part of me that doesn't want to disappoint them even tho i know it isn't wrong to be gay, but they think it is and i don't want to break their hearts bc i know i will :/.
^this x1000000000

Society can judge me all they want, I don't give a flying fuck about it. But the thought of my parents facing those judgement just because of my doing is unbearable. I dunno ya'll, I still think of this every single day and I dont think I could ever be 100% happy with my life. Shit is tough :-/
DA This is part of the reason why I can't make myself to come out to my parents. I can't fathom the idea of my parents being judged and talked about by other people just because their daughter is gay. It's also why my girlfriend and I always get into arguments, because she's out and I'm not. She's asking me why can't I come out, am I ashamed of her or whatever. She says that she doesn't care about what society thinks, I tell her, so do I. But of course, it's different. Given the social status and all, that I also have to take into consideration for my parents.

I'm blabbering now. -_-

Where are you from Bunny and Rexie?
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idt i could come out to my parents. i think it's that asian part of me that doesn't want to disappoint them even tho i know it isn't wrong to be gay, but they think it is and i don't want to break their hearts bc i know i will :/.
^this x1000000000

Society can judge me all they want, I don't give a flying fuck about it. But the thought of my parents facing those judgement just because of my doing is unbearable. I dunno ya'll, I still think of this every single day and I dont think I could ever be 100% happy with my life. Shit is tough :-/
I feel you :alright:
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and I can't change, even if I tried, even if I wanted to....

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SA who asked, I enjoy my visits there. :) Specially the malls. :lol:
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Lol I used to do this, stopped drinking energy drinks a while go though. :P
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@Rexie Unfortunately, we can't change who we really are. Even if we wanted to.

@Anon The girls are coming here for the world tour next month ;)
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i'am thinking of changing to a new laptop.. can I transfer all my data from my previous to a new one? all the programs etc.
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Jun 13 2013, 01:52 PM
SA who asked, I enjoy my visits there. :) Specially the malls. :lol:
just to be fair, where are you from anon??

yeah these damn malls, cant live with them...cant live without them :lol:

@Taeng I used to have the biggest addiction to energy drinks, esp r3dbull. It was so bad that my body just tolerated caffeine, like I could drink a cup of coffee just before bed and still be able to sleep soundly haha. It doesnt really help that they taste so good and refreshing, better than normal sodas (which are already bad)

edit: @bunny bish you betta go!! seriously.... :icu:
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Im fairly certain im going to be sacked tomorrow =/
I woke uo this morning with like the worst headcold ever, could barely stand, speak or stay awake for that matter, managed to call work and my supervisor told me to 'try and get a doctors certificate'.

But I couldn't even leave my flat, I pretty much passed out for six hours, waking up occasionally :(
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Jun 13 2013, 02:19 PM
Im fairly certain im going to be sacked tomorrow =/
I woke uo this morning with like the worst headcold ever, could barely stand, speak or stay awake for that matter, managed to call work and my supervisor told me to 'try and get a doctors certificate'.

But I couldn't even leave my flat, I pretty much passed out for six hours, waking up occasionally :(
and yet, you are here :lol:

sorry, bad timing hehe

awwwwww get well soon bb! I dont think they'd be that heartless though, it's not like you're intentionally get sick or anything :(
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