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Topic Started: Jan 30 2013, 10:20 PM (722,940 Views)
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Jun 21 2013, 06:28 PM
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Jun 21 2013, 06:25 PM
so you girls think Sooyeon is at least bi??
jessica, i take her as bi at the very least too
her dgaf attitude makes it better for me to see that she wont end up with a guy just becoz of gender and for a better life, but bcoz it means she really likes him or something,
same goes for if she ends up with girls
ohhh i see.

for me, the way she acts around guys just says that she seems not really interested in them. just my observation though.
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Jun 21 2013, 06:41 PM
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Jun 21 2013, 06:38 PM
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Jun 21 2013, 06:36 PM
just done p/c the main thread and everything there amused me so much :rofl: :rofl:
the trollsider was funny lolz
and you farted a lot :rofl:
:rofl: :rofl:
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Jun 21 2013, 06:54 PM
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just done p/c the main thread and everything there amused me so much :rofl: :rofl:
the trollsider was funny lolz
and you farted a lot :rofl:
:rofl: :rofl:
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Jun 21 2013, 06:44 PM
Harublaze
Jun 21 2013, 06:28 PM
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Jun 21 2013, 06:25 PM
so you girls think Sooyeon is at least bi??
jessica, i take her as bi at the very least too
her dgaf attitude makes it better for me to see that she wont end up with a guy just becoz of gender and for a better life, but bcoz it means she really likes him or something,
same goes for if she ends up with girls
ohhh i see.

for me, the way she acts around guys just says that she seems not really interested in them. just my observation though.
i agree on that as well tbh
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sorry but i just have to post this nasty video again :rofl:
cause that gif reminds me of it

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/crying White Chicks will never be not funny. :rofl: :rofl:
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LOL Bunny that scene is so nasty :rofl:
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Jun 21 2013, 07:10 PM
LOL Bunny that scene is so nasty :rofl:
sorry but :rofl: :rofl: i can't
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Jun 21 2013, 07:07 PM
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OMG this cake :blinkwide:

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^that'd be perfect for our resident math lover :giveup:


just finished pc the main thread, oh gurl i feel like stripping to free myself from all the misery

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Jun 21 2013, 07:37 PM
^that'd be perfect for our resident math lover :giveup:


just finished pc the main thread, oh gurl i feel like stripping to free myself from all the misery

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The poor chick fell down. D'awwwww so cute :D
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Damn mama June is too much sometimes :rofl:
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kid you watch honey boo boo?? :rofl: :rofl:
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I'm confused right now. I don't know what are my priorities

Have to take care of my own problems right now, you know, personal stuff, and it has been really hard
on the other hand this situation is incompatible with my schedules and compromises; so I'm conflicted and have been very anxious, I don't know what to do. Anxiety freezes me, my operational side is just not functioning.

should I be "socially responsible" and go all the way and sacrifice myself and my personal matters, family etc or should I take a break, take care of whatever is left for me and deal with consequences later?

I feel as if my brain is kind of telling me "you can't have "your dignity" right now, you have to satisfy whatever people expect from you otherwise they won't trust you anymore and you won't have a second chance. you can recover yourself or whatever later. do it now, clean up the mess later, you have no actual choice. Problems? Fuck problems, everybody else has problems too, and you don't see them being as ridiculously weak as you're right now! will you let the chances pass you by? will you? it won't be yours anymore, not the same chances, and maybe never anything similar. get your shit straight".

but then there is something else telling me "don't be so dumb, if there's something you just can't throw away is yourself. go on, try to talk things out and if your superiors can't understand you fuck them, you are not living for them and they surely are not as concerned about you either. even if they were, and even if you don't have the same chances anymore, maybe it's for the best, who knows; they will understand, if they're decent enough. you will find a way, but only as long as you're fine enough. problems won't wait for you, they will only get worse and worse. also, you won't have any chances either way if you're too fucked up to take them. get your shit straight."

what do I do? what do I do? :sadangel:
I feel like crying, I don't know what to do... it also doesn't help me that no one knows about this situation in my family, except for me. this is the place I have to talk about this, sorry guys :sadangel:

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Jun 21 2013, 07:48 PM
kid you watch honey boo boo?? :rofl: :rofl:
I love it Rexie :rofl:
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Caffeine is good for you.
That wasn't nearly as pleasant as the great Soofany pagecatch revelation of last week.

Also my ex just Skyped me and I spit out my coffee all over my shirt. Smooooooth.
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Jun 21 2013, 07:58 PM
That wasn't nearly as pleasant as the great Soofany pagecatch revelation of last week.

Also my ex just Skyped me and I spit out my coffee all over my shirt. Smooooooth.
It's okay, it must have looked cute.
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it's really hard to give an advice regarding family matters. i know this will sound too generic and common, but talk it out. i personally had major family issues before, it's hard to live under the same roof knowing you have issues and pretending everything's okay. i was anxious too. i held it for months before i decided it's not right anymore. it's eating me up.i just decided to confront them, talk it out. i ended up crying in front of them, but everything became lighter after that.
i wouldn't say it was a happy ever after, but it helped a lot.

remember, one can't please everybody. it's really hard to choose between yourself and the ones you love. but how can you give them your all when you, yourself, isn't whole. try to find balance. don't force yourself too hard or you'll end up in the loosing side. i know people will tell you it's your life, why do you need to please others when it's you who will suffer the consequences. but they're your family, they're part of you. i think giving them your everything isn't the best option, but giving them your best is.

don't know if this helped, but i hope whatever it is you're facing rn will be over soon.
we're always here if you need us. :hug:
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Jun 21 2013, 07:50 PM
confused anon

hey anon, just wanted you to know that I actually read your post but I'm currently in no condition to give any advice (tired, hungry etc lol). So just hang in there and will get back to ya once I'm actually qualified as a normal-functioning human being :lol:

Stay strong bud :hug:
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^SHOOOOOOOOO FRIGGIN KYOOOOTEEEEEEE OMAGAAAAAHHHHHH :love: :love:

"Ridiculously photogenic cat!"
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I'm allergic to cats.
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Jun 21 2013, 08:41 PM
I'm allergic to cats.
:alright:

you're missing out
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^kittyyyyyyyyyyy :run:
so fluffy :blush:
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advice anon, thank you so much :crybabe: you said something very important to me, and I probably will never forget these words: " i think giving them your everything isn't the best option, but giving them your best is." I still don't know how to apply those words to my situation, but I guess I may figure it out...I wonder what should I do with my everything, since my best is probably the greatest part of it =/

rexie, thank you dear, if you decide to comment on my post (you and whoever else may want to) I'll appreciate it very much. thank you :'(
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Jun 21 2013, 08:41 PM
I'm allergic to cats.
aww bb :alright:
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Jun 21 2013, 08:41 PM
I'm allergic to cats.
aww bb :alright:
My ex had this fluffy white cat and, I swear, that bastard knew. He knew! He was always too close for comfort. In a room filled with people, he'd pick me to just chill on.
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Jun 21 2013, 08:53 PM
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I'm allergic to cats.
aww bb :alright:
My ex had this fluffy white cat and, I swear, that bastard knew. He knew! He was always too close for comfort. In a room filled with people, he'd pick me to just chill on.
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Jun 21 2013, 08:53 PM
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I'm allergic to cats.
aww bb :alright:
My ex had this fluffy white cat and, I swear, that bastard knew. He knew! He was always too close for comfort. In a room filled with people, he'd pick me to just chill on.
lol maybe he simply preferred you than other people
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Jun 21 2013, 08:43 PM
advice anon, thank you so much :crybabe: you said something very important to me, and I probably will never forget these words: " i think giving them your everything isn't the best option, but giving them your best is." I still don't know how to apply those words to my situation, but I guess I may figure it out...I wonder what should I do with my everything, since my best is probably the greatest part of it =/

rexie, thank you dear, if you decide to comment on my post (you and whoever else may want to) I'll appreciate it very much. thank you :'(
anytime.
just remember we're always here.

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