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Topic Started: Jan 30 2013, 10:20 PM (722,926 Views)
Die Zicke
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Jun 23 2013, 05:11 AM
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Jun 23 2013, 04:44 AM

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We love you just the way you are Orange :hug:
very true :hug:
Very easy to say to someone over the internet that you don't even know and only have a superficial interaction with. -_-

I disagree, actually. This may be only a board where anyone can post and we only have brief, superficial interactions but to a lot of people who visit this site it's the only place they can interact with other gay girls with similar interests and that means a lot to them. I'd like to think that we've developed a kind of rapport with one another that has created a small amount of trust, and dare I say, affection.
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Key of Jail.
anyway, as random of a person as I might be in og's life, and even if I don't have irl contact with her, it was me, and I still believe I can base myself on something to have x2ed.
are we done yet
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Die Zicke
Jun 23 2013, 05:11 AM
Is anybody out? I don't think I've asked that question here before...
no I'm not. it's really hard since most people here don't accept gay people. I want to know what my mom think about homosexuality but I can't just randomly ask her :unsure:
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Jun 23 2013, 06:12 AM
Die Zicke
Jun 23 2013, 05:11 AM
Is anybody out? I don't think I've asked that question here before...
no I'm not. it's really hard since most people here don't accept gay people. I want to know what my mom think about homosexuality but I can't just randomly ask her :unsure:
where are you from, might i ask?
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Jun 23 2013, 05:49 AM
anyway, as random of a person as I might be in og's life, and even if I don't have irl contact with her, it was me, and I still believe I can base myself on something to have x2ed.
are we done yet
I don't understand what you are saying but :hug:

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Die Zicke
Jun 23 2013, 05:11 AM
Is anybody out? I don't think I've asked that question here before...
no I'm not. it's really hard since most people here don't accept gay people. I want to know what my mom think about homosexuality but I can't just randomly ask her :unsure:
where are you from, might i ask?
I'm from Taiwan bb ^_^
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i'm not out, but i'm out to my mom only. she took it quite well thankfully :)
very sure my bro knows, he caught some messages of me and the gf and some tlc memebers :faint: but i lied after so that he wudnt tell my parents, dont know if he believes me for real or not tho lol
but i ended up telling my mom a few months ago anyway :rofl:
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Jun 23 2013, 07:47 AM
i'm not out, but i'm out to my mom only. she took it quite well thankfully :)
very sure my bro knows, he caught some messages of me and the gf and some tlc memebers :faint: but i lied after so that he wudnt tell my parents, dont know if he believes me for real or not tho lol<br />but i ended up telling my mom a few months ago anyway :rofl:
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It's great to have your mom support you.
did your mom say anything when you came out to her? if you don't mind sharing ^_^
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Jun 23 2013, 04:54 AM
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Jun 23 2013, 04:44 AM
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Jun 23 2013, 04:24 AM
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Jun 23 2013, 04:22 AM
i'd rather not -_-
Why not?
Because of reasons
We love you just the way you are Orange :hug:
thanks y'all :hug:

I'm not sure why I even came home this weekend. it's always such a bad idea.

and no, i'm not out. Not to family anyway. Well, my brother knows but that's it (he doesn't give 2 fucks, his best friends have always been butch lesbians so :rofl: ). Some of my friends know, and i've been working on being more open to all of my friends. ^_^
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Well, that was one lame party, didn't even get tipsy.
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Jun 23 2013, 04:19 AM
ever asked your parents what they think about you?
should be the other way around in my case, I been waiting for that to happen -_-
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It's great to have your mom support you.
did your mom say anything when you came out to her? if you don't mind sharing ^^
of course not :) ,
i cried and apologized (coz i thought i disappointed her greatly) when i told her, she said "why are you sorry, there's nothing to be sorry about, you are what you are, God made you that way. it's normal to be gay, you're just born with it, you never asked for it
but all you can do is hold yourself back. i know you cant stop the fact that you ARE what you are" etc etc.

well, at first she was like "i used to get excited when girls hugged me too ( :rofl: ) , but just hold yourself back, you'll change once you get married"
i knew she knew that's not true and that she was just trying to make me able to change (still alittle traaditional tho she understands me), so i told her it doesnt work that way, and that i dont want to get married (but i meant to a guy, but i didnt mention) and she didnt have a problem with me not marrying. jsut stuff like that

so for now basically she's definitely okay with me BEING gay, but not so much on the ACTING on my "lust" or preference (even if it was a guy, she wudnt let me of course)i told her it's not the lust or sexual needs, idc about that much and can hold myself when it's just that
but when i fall in love and emotionally attracted to them, it's undeniable and she said she "i understand, and know but just try to hold yourself back esp the lust part" lol
but there's always a first step to everything ^_^ and i'm VERY satisfied with her reaction as is tbh the fact that she didnt give negative reaction alone is already a homerun!
plus, i'm pretty sure she had it coming and just ready to hear me say it :rofl:
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@Haru you are extremely lucky to have a supportive parent, I dont think it would be the same in my case unfortunately -_-
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Jun 23 2013, 10:20 AM
@Haru you are extremely lucky to have a supportive parent, I dont think it would be the same in my case unfortunately -_-
my mom has said some quite anti stuff before tho not such in a bad, verbal way
just in a form of indirect "advice" like when glee is on lol (i think coz she knew i'm gay too even then)
so i wasnt expecting her to react that well, tbh
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Jun 23 2013, 05:09 AM
You've seen me too :P
I need a new selca of you to refresh my memory.

Die Zicke
Jun 23 2013, 05:11 AM
Is anybody out? I don't think I've asked that question here before...
I'm out to my family. My mother, brothers and sister are very supportive as well as my mother's side of the family, but my father and his side of the family are mostly all bigots and only "tolerate" me because they have this need to keep this front to the rest of the world that we're all a perfectly normal and happy family.

My father pretty much disowned me when my mother accidentaly let it slip that I'm a lesbian about 7 years ago, but he has been slowly trying to get in touch with me again...every time I talk to him though, we we wnd up arguing because he is one of those people who thinks I only need to "find the right man". -_-
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Jun 23 2013, 10:23 AM
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Jun 23 2013, 10:20 AM
@Haru you are extremely lucky to have a supportive parent, I dont think it would be the same in my case unfortunately -_-
my mom has said some quite anti stuff before tho not such in a bad, verbal way
just in a form of indirect "advice" like when glee is on lol (i think coz she knew i'm gay too even then)
so i wasnt expecting her to react that well, tbh
My mum too has said some comments regarding gay stuff lol, sadly, they werent pleasant at all. I dont know, I think my family (even extended ones) are pretty open minded, but it's another story when the gay ones are actually in the family haha. I think you kinda get my background, our countries arent that far off in the cultural and religious department, and mainly, I dont think I could live with the guilt of disappointing my parents. sigh
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I feel like I should come out to my mom before I leave for study abroad. I don't want her to think it was the environment or the people there that changed me :unsure:
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Jun 23 2013, 10:31 AM
I need a new selca of you to refresh my memory.
Swap? it's only fair. ;)

Die Zicke
Jun 23 2013, 05:11 AM
Is anybody out? I don't think I've asked that question here before...

Nope, living with a christian family who think I'm a good straight christian kid. still trying to juggle my faith and the fact that i like girls, don't know how that's gonna work out tbh but i doubt i'll be out anytime soon, if ever.
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Jun 23 2013, 11:09 AM
I feel like I should come out to my mom before I leave for study abroad. I don't want her to think it was the environment or the people there that changed me :unsure:
this.
i think it was part of why i came out to my mom
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Jun 23 2013, 05:07 AM
I'm eating a pizza and I can't taste anything. Also I'm sick rn cos of stupid monthly bs!!!! :dramaqueen:
IM SO EMOTIONAL I NEEEED A HUG BUT THE ONLY THING THAT'S HERE IS THIS CRAYCRAY SATAENG DOG!!!
/rantend
Cray cray sataeng dog HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA :rofl:
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I have no idea what are they talking about in the main thread tbh lol
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Jun 23 2013, 03:42 PM
I have no idea what are they talking about in the main thread tbh lol
some people are taking this fandom too seriously haha
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Jun 23 2013, 03:43 PM
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I have no idea what are they talking about in the main thread tbh lol
some people are taking this fandom too seriously haha
lol I see.
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Jun 23 2013, 03:36 PM
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Jun 23 2013, 05:07 AM
I'm eating a pizza and I can't taste anything. Also I'm sick rn cos of stupid monthly bs!!!! :dramaqueen:
IM SO EMOTIONAL I NEEEED A HUG BUT THE ONLY THING THAT'S HERE IS THIS CRAYCRAY SATAENG DOG!!!
/rantend
Cray cray sataeng dog HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA :rofl:
His name is actually Luffy ,but I call him sataeng. :rofl: He looks just like Prince Fluffy. ^_^

And damn I went off last night I was in so much pain.
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washed my hair around 2 hours ago, it's still far from being dry :giveup:
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Jun 23 2013, 04:01 PM
washed my hair around 2 hours ago, it's still far from being dry :giveup:
I know that feel, my hair is naturally really curly and it refuses to dry unless I use a hairdryer :dramaqueen:
I got it cut from mid back length to just below shoulder length in November and it's grown so much already
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Jeccica why do you have to use that derp sica :rofl:
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Jun 23 2013, 04:01 PM
washed my hair around 2 hours ago, it's still far from being dry :giveup:
I know that feel, my hair is naturally really curly and it refuses to dry unless I use a hairdryer :dramaqueen:
I got it cut from mid back length to just below shoulder length in November and it's grown so much already
omg we can be hair buddy :dramaqueen:

hahah yeah I feel ya, my hair's really thick and wavy, it always takes ages to dry and mine grows quickly too. #thickhairproblems :lol:
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Jun 23 2013, 04:13 PM
Jeccica why do you have to use that derp sica :rofl:
I love that derp face :rofl: :rofl:

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Jun 23 2013, 05:11 AM
Is anybody out? I don't think I've asked that question here before...
/PC

I'm out, even to my mom. B-)
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Jun 23 2013, 04:13 PM
Jeccica why do you have to use that derp sica :rofl:
I love that derp face :rofl: :rofl:

it's gorgeous lol

btw did guys you create a weibo account just to follow Jessica? or I'm the only one who did that?
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Jun 23 2013, 05:11 AM
Is anybody out? I don't think I've asked that question here before...
/PC

I'm out, even to my mom. B-)
so she's fine with you being gay?
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Jeccica why do you have to use that derp sica :rofl:
I love that derp face :rofl: :rofl:

it's gorgeous lol

btw did guys you create a weibo account just to follow Jessica? or I'm the only one who did that?
I will never :rofl:

I'm just gonna rely on this forum for the updates :lol:
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Jun 23 2013, 03:51 PM
His name is actually Luffy ,but I call him sataeng. :rofl: He looks just like Prince Fluffy. ^_^

And damn I went off last night I was in so much pain.
post sataeng :gaypimp:
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Jun 23 2013, 04:13 PM
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Jun 23 2013, 04:01 PM
washed my hair around 2 hours ago, it's still far from being dry :giveup:
I know that feel, my hair is naturally really curly and it refuses to dry unless I use a hairdryer :dramaqueen:
I got it cut from mid back length to just below shoulder length in November and it's grown so much already
omg we can be hair buddy :dramaqueen:

hahah yeah I feel ya, my hair's really thick and wavy, it always takes ages to dry and mine grows quickly too. #thickhairproblems :lol:
So much hair suffering...
I think I'll probably get a haircut in a few weeks and get it cut shortish so I don't have to worry about maintaining it for a while.
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