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Topic Started: Jan 30 2013, 10:20 PM (722,593 Views)
The Anon
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orangedaffodils
Aug 1 2013, 07:50 PM
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Aug 1 2013, 07:44 PM
Hey, look, I have read enough Said and postcolonial theory to know where you're coming from. But, I've also read enough SGSD to know that fighting an opinion is as fruitless as shipping Taengsic.

So, I suggest we exist in this imagined universe where I am a creepy Westerner, fetishizing Asian women for their shared "pettiness, submissiveness and meekness", and you can be a first year student of social anthropology with still a limited knowledge in West/East dichotomy, but reflexes fast enough to google "1797, Egypt and the Europe's ideal 'Other'".
Oh wow, you really showed me didn't you? lol

If you don't have anything other to say aside from making petty jabs, then the discussion is pretty much over with. Your lack of self awareness is pretty astounding.

@Arti: you can g00gle personal accounts as to what constitutes racial fetishizism on your own time. I have class to attend to.
I'm not making petty jabs? I'm simply doing what you've been doing for the past hour or so. And that is to essentialize you based on a very limited knowledge of who you actually are (or in my case, what my preferences are). I am as self-aware of my "Western fetishization" as you are of your "meta knowledge". I think this is a fair point to make.

Editing to say... Arti, I like you too.
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Aug 1 2013, 03:22 PM
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Aug 1 2013, 12:29 PM
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Aug 1 2013, 12:22 PM
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Aug 1 2013, 12:19 PM
Why lesbians, why you no like Asian girrrlllsss!?!

well the one's in the area where I live lol
how can you ask us this question? lol why do you think we're here?
Oh it wasn't a question to you girls of course :P just a general venting of my frustrations and maybe a sideeye to the lesbian's where I live lol as if they can hear me
This is so late but I'm going to reply anyway

Most Asian girls I know act and look really straight. Even this Asian girl I knew who was lesbian I would have never guessed. Perhaps you're giving straight vibes and gay girls don't think it isn't worth chasing after a straight girl.
So true lol. I'm one of them.
The only obvious ones are the tomboy/butch Asian girls.
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Aug 1 2013, 06:50 PM
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Aug 1 2013, 06:38 PM
That one was hilarious! Everyone around him didn't look disgusted or weirded out, all of them wanted to take pictures and complimented him on his looks. :rofl:

There were several that I really enjoyed. Interview with a cannibal, Suicide forest, A day with a Russian billionaire, Saudi arabian women unveiled and tons of documentaries about drugs and wars. (Most of the documentaries on there seem to be about drugs and war).

Also watched the one you linked some time ago. That girl looked so sweet and childlike, yet she does porn. Like wat... :blink:

Omg I've watched that one and the one when they went to Liberia too. It's so disgusting :X I don't know what that kind of people had in their mind.
I'm watching that one now. The way the warlord described how they took a heart from a young boy to boost moral is appalling. :X
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orangedaffodils
Aug 1 2013, 07:50 PM
@Arti: you can g00gle personal accounts as to what constitutes racial fetishizism on your own time. I have class to attend to.
I don't think I need to do that, nor do I think contradicting the logic that will undoubtedly be absent within them will do anything for this discussion.
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Aug 1 2013, 07:59 PM
Editing to say... Arti, I like you too.
Do you live in Britain? Because if you live in Britain, you will probably make my list. :dramaqueen:
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Aug 1 2013, 08:04 PM
The Anon
Aug 1 2013, 07:59 PM
Editing to say... Arti, I like you too.
Do you live in Britain? Because if you live in Britain, you will probably make my list. :dramaqueen:
I'm based in London (traveling atm). What list did I make?
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The Anon
Aug 1 2013, 07:59 PM
I'm not making petty jabs? I'm simply doing what you've been doing for the past hour or so. And that is to essentialize you based on a very limited knowledge of who you actually are (or in my case, what your preferences are). I am as self-aware of my "Western fetishization" as you are of your "meta knowledge". I think this is a fair point to make.

Editing to say... Arti, I like you too.
I haven't been doing anything other than continually asking why you would make such a fetishizing statement in the first place, and your responses don't really aide my understanding that the underlying theme isn't what I thought it to be. The fact that you feel the need to insult my intelligence rather than to think critically about why I called you out in the first place is indicative as to how you feel about the issue, and I hope any Asian woman you come into contact with is forever wary of your behavior.

@Arti: I didn't say you needed to, I said you can because I don't feel like talking in circles with you when all you do is fail to see the point of the discussion the entire time.
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The Anon
Aug 1 2013, 08:08 PM
I'm based in London (traveling atm). What list did I make?
Favourite Regs list.

orangedaffodils
Aug 1 2013, 08:08 PM
@Arti: I didn't say you needed to, I said you can because I don't feel like talking in circles with you when all you do is fail to see the point of the discussion the entire time.
If that's how you see and have seen this conversation, then I'm truly sorry that your perception is so distorted. It's a shame you don't want to engage.
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Idiot. :rofl:

Teenage kids seem to try this often on escalator and I always hope they face the same faith as this dude.
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btw, Wind, where are you watching these documentaries?
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Aug 1 2013, 08:24 PM
btw, Wind, where are you watching these documentaries?
http://www.youtube.com/user/vice?feature=watch
http://www.youtube.com/user/VICEjpch
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^ Thanks. I'll go check them out.
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orangedaffodils
Aug 1 2013, 08:08 PM
The Anon
Aug 1 2013, 07:59 PM
I'm not making petty jabs? I'm simply doing what you've been doing for the past hour or so. And that is to essentialize you based on a very limited knowledge of who you actually are (or in my case, what your preferences are). I am as self-aware of my "Western fetishization" as you are of your "meta knowledge". I think this is a fair point to make.

Editing to say... Arti, I like you too.
I haven't been doing anything other than continually asking why you would make such a fetishizing statement in the first place, and your responses don't really aide my understanding that the underlying theme isn't what I thought it to be. The fact that you feel the need to insult my intelligence rather than to think critically about why I called you out in the first place is indicative as to how you feel about the issue, and I hope any Asian woman you come into contact with is forever wary of your behavior.

@Arti: I didn't say you needed to, I said you can because I don't feel like talking in circles with you when all you do is fail to see the point of the discussion the entire time.
You are going at it from your overly politically correct point of view, and just because others don't agree with you, doesn't mean that they fail in seeing the point of the discussion.

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If you don't have anything other to say aside from making petty jabs, then the discussion is pretty much over with. Your lack of self awareness is pretty astounding.
That's a very ironic and abrasive statement to make since you don't know 'The Anon' well enough to come up with such a conclusion.

I understand where you are coming from, but to call her an Asian fetishist solely on what she said about her dating history and attraction is very ignorant.

Opinion =/= Truth

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orangedaffodils
Aug 1 2013, 08:08 PM
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Aug 1 2013, 07:59 PM
I'm not making petty jabs? I'm simply doing what you've been doing for the past hour or so. And that is to essentialize you based on a very limited knowledge of who you actually are (or in my case, what your preferences are). I am as self-aware of my "Western fetishization" as you are of your "meta knowledge". I think this is a fair point to make.

Editing to say... Arti, I like you too.
I haven't been doing anything other than continually asking why you would make such a fetishizing statement in the first place, and your responses don't really aide my understanding that the underlying theme isn't what I thought it to be. The fact that you feel the need to insult my intelligence rather than to think critically about why I called you out in the first place is indicative as to how you feel about the issue, and I hope any Asian woman you come into contact with is forever wary of your behavior.

@Arti: I didn't say you needed to, I said you can because I don't feel like talking in circles with you when all you do is fail to see the point of the discussion the entire time.
... and I have been continually trying to explain that my attraction is driven by physical appearance? For this reason, I am not now, nor ever, inspired to think 'critically' of who I date or why. The only common denominator amongst those I've dated was the physical aspect. None of my exes 'fit' within the popular Western narrative (the ideal 'other'), yet you still introduced common Asian stereotypes into the discussion - submissiveness and meekness. If my attraction was based on such perceptions, then yes, Asian women should be wary of me. However, it is not. If you want to broaden your argument and say that my leaning towards certain 'East Asian' physical features also classifies as 'fetishization', then by all means, stick to your guns. But be aware that you're walking a thin line of classifying pretty much all attraction as fetishization, in this case.

If you feel like I've insulted your intelligence, then I apologize. It was not my attention to do so. However, if you are entitled to be a messiah of all Asian women out there, warning them of my perverse 'Western' ways, then I can be your American Ethnologist, ready to situate you in a sphere of pseudo academia, where you should feel at home. Essentialization works both ways.
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just random post before I go to bed lol...
talking about word 'fancammer'. ifans just call them fancammer but I think It's kind of comprehensive word
It's not like every fancammers run fansites
I wish ifans just use word like Kfans. we call them master or fanma
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Anyone read this really good comic from naver yet?

http://comic.naver.com/webtoon/detail.nhn?titleId=350217&seq=31
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HOLY SHIT! You banned me for merely speaking my mind? I didn't insult you whatsoever, just didn't agree with what you said, and you BANNED me?

Using a proxy might have made you think that I am a troll or trying to stir-shit, but I had no ill intentions towards you whatsoever, only thought that you were very prejudiced in your opinion. Don't think this type of behavior warrants a ban....

I also didn't do anything wrong that validated you checking my IP. Been using proxies the last several weeks because the moderators and admins constantly say they know which anon is what register and anon…. It worries me.
And didn't you forget that you are merely here to take care of obvious trolls and make sure no wanks happen? Not banning anon's that speak their mind….

If you can't stand others disagreeing with you, perhaps you shouldn't have taken this job or have access to discussion boards on the internet.

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Aug 1 2013, 08:55 PM
Anyone read this really good comic from naver yet?

http://comic.naver.com/webtoon/detail.nhn?titleId=350217&seq=31
That scared the crap out of me Anon :'(

I love comics and was very happy when you recommended this. So I continue reading and was not expecting it to move and then bamm! I ended up falling off my chair and yelped at my laptop...
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Aug 1 2013, 08:55 PM
Anyone read this really good comic from naver yet?

http://comic.naver.com/webtoon/detail.nhn?titleId=350217&seq=31
Says it's a 503 forbidden.
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Wow did I come at bad time?



I'm so funny
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Was the banned anon one who posted House meme?
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Aug 1 2013, 09:11 PM
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I'm checking the Admin and Mod history as we speak and there haven't been any bans since two days ago, anon, and that was for a real troll in the main forum.
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Aug 1 2013, 09:23 PM
Was the banned anon one who posted House meme?
I'd assume so.
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Artichoke
Aug 1 2013, 06:32 PM
I'm with The Anon here. I can tell what she means.
As do I, reading the entire conversation all that can be said is: Mole-hill meet mountain because someone made a mountain out of shit no one was even talking about in some personal socio- political crusade.

It was clear The Anon meant she likes Asian women, as in women with Asian looks. Whatever you think about ethnicities or races it can't be denied there are physical, or a cumulus of physical, traits that are denominated as "Asian" worldwide. Of course the more you know the more you learn about just how different those classified as Asians can actually be. But nevertheless even that was beside the point which was The Anon likes Asian women. Good grief, how hard was that to understand?

 :grouphug:

Summary of all this situation:

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Aug 1 2013, 09:24 PM
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I'm checking the Admin and Mod history as we speak and there haven't been any bans since two days ago, anon, and that was for a real troll in the main forum.
Been using the same proxy for a longer time now and just randomly getting banned is awfully suspicious.
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omg :rofl:
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Aug 1 2013, 09:23 PM
Was the banned anon one who posted House meme?
I guess so but really? Overreaction much? :huh: That meme isn't that funny or insulting... kinda boring.

I miss House.


[marq=right]IT'S NEVER LUPUS!!!![/marq]


On another note, I thought Yahoo had banned explicit material from Tumblr? Or closed tumblrs that had such content? :hmmm:
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Aug 1 2013, 09:12 PM
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Aug 1 2013, 08:55 PM
Anyone read this really good comic from naver yet?

http://comic.naver.com/webtoon/detail.nhn?titleId=350217&seq=31
That scared the crap out of me Anon :'(

I love comics and was very happy when you recommended this. So I continue reading and was not expecting it to move and then bamm! I ended up falling off my chair and yelped at my laptop...
Haha, sorry  :grouphug:

:lol:
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is it safe to come out here :spy: ....wat happened?? O_o
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Aug 1 2013, 07:52 PM
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Aug 1 2013, 01:37 PM
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umm YES I KNOW THE CAKE LOOKS DISGUSTING. I COULDNT FIND A BETTER PHOTO.
:rofl: Idec if it does, I'll still eat 'em.

:lol:


Happy Birthday Paper.star.  :grouphug:
:rofl: wtf is that? marmite?
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Looks like a blueberry or cherry pie. I would eat it if too much jam on a cake or pie didn't disgust me so much.
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Posted Image my new single is coming soon
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Aug 1 2013, 07:52 PM
:rofl: wtf is that? marmite?
I've heard of marmite, but what is it exactly? Is it similar to jam or cajeta?
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Aug 1 2013, 09:27 PM
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Aug 1 2013, 06:32 PM
I'm with The Anon here. I can tell what she means.
As do I, reading the entire conversation all that can be said is: Mole-hill meet mountain because someone made a mountain out of shit no one was even talking about in some personal socio- political crusade.

It was clear The Anon meant she likes Asian women, as in women with Asian looks. Whatever you think about ethnicities or races it can't be denied there are physical, or a cumulus of physical, traits that are denominated as "Asian" worldwide. Of course the more you know the more you learn about just how different those classified as Asians can actually be. But nevertheless even that was beside the point which was The Anon likes Asian women. Good grief, how hard was that to understand?

 :grouphug:

Summary of all this situation:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DW2HkjoC1h8
I agree. Having a particular attraction to a particular race can be fetishism if you're attracted to the stereotypes and reputation of that race (I believe "meekness" was mentioned before), but liking a race due to looks is not fetishism in the slightest in my opinion. The race will obviously have similar features (especially with Asians), and having that preference is perfectly ok. I don't have a racial preference when it comes to women, but liking SNSD and being exposed to more Asian women has definitely made me appreciate their features more and it transfers to real life too.
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thank you guys for the birthday wishes and pedohoodie  :grouphug:
that cake looks gross .__.
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