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I'm listening tatu's dangerous and moving and sometimes Lena's voice is sooo like Seohyun's :wub:
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I'm listening tatu's dangerous and moving and sometimes Lena's voice is sooo like Seohyun's :wub:
I loved them when I was 13, my mom liked them too :bigeyes: I only like their Russian songs though

It doesn't sound like Seohyun's voice to me :P
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I'm listening tatu's dangerous and moving and sometimes Lena's voice is sooo like Seohyun's :wub:
I loved them when I was 13, my mom liked them too :bigeyes: I only like their Russian songs though

It doesn't sound like Seohyun's voice to me :P
sa, correction - I kind of heard it now
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I have been listening to this epicness for 3 days :pain:
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I'm listening tatu's dangerous and moving and sometimes Lena's voice is sooo like Seohyun's :wub:
I loved them when I was 13, my mom liked them too :bigeyes: I only like their Russian songs though

It doesn't sound like Seohyun's voice to me :P
sa, correction - I kind of heard it now
haha see? it's not always but sometimes her voice sounds like seohyun's
for example the beggining of all about us imo :shock:
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Speaking of that Russian group...

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^ wtf?
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^ wtf?
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this movie seems be good and funny. ^_^
lesbian movie.
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this movie seems be good and funny. ^_^
lesbian movie.
its really good!
watch watch :thumbsup:
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this movie seems be good and funny. ^_^
lesbian movie.
its really good!
watch watch :thumbsup:
thanks anon. I will. ;)
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Skype doesn't seem to be working for me, and not in a bad relationship kind of way
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Skype doesn't seem to be working for me, and not in a bad relationship kind of way
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Skype doesn't seem to be working for me, and not in a bad relationship kind of way
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... easy there Skype.
We agreed to see other programs.


And you don't have spell check for some reason.
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Just want to rant a little

My relationship with my parents are starting to affect me as a person. I'm rude to people at times when I don't even realise, I'm unresourceful but extremely demanding, I'm angry most of the time, I'm tired and I overdramatise everything.

Then comes this girl, she's bright and happy and full of energy, I don't know why she's taking a liking in me, she cares about me, and she spends time with me to sort my problems out.

I'm this pitiful, ugly person and she's so strong and beautiful. Why is she so nice to me?

How do I remove myself from this pit of self deprevation and become a better person, so I can actually open up to her and be nice back? How do I forgive the past, be a nicer person to my parents, to my colleagues, to my seniors, and give people support when they need it, be resourceful, bright and happy?

Perhaps then I won't push her away, I will try everything to keep her in my life, because then I'll be worth all of this.
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I'm thinking of buying a new phone because of Taeng's inst@gram and mine is too old anyway. I didn't really care about all these new smartphones so idk what's better. What would you guys recommend? ^_^
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I'm thinking of buying a new phone because of Taeng's inst@gram and mine is too old anyway. I didn't really care about all these new smartphones so idk what's better. What would you guys recommend? ^_^
samsung note2 for bigger screen! ^_^
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I'm thinking of buying a new phone because of Taeng's inst@gram and mine is too old anyway. I didn't really care about all these new smartphones so idk what's better. What would you guys recommend? ^_^
samsung note2 for bigger screen! ^_^
Samsung s3 for small hands
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Just want to rant a little

My relationship with my parents are starting to affect me as a person. I'm rude to people at times when I don't even realise, I'm unresourceful but extremely demanding, I'm angry most of the time, I'm tired and I overdramatise everything.

Then comes this girl, she's bright and happy and full of energy, I don't know why she's taking a liking in me, she cares about me, and she spends time with me to sort my problems out.

I'm this pitiful, ugly person and she's so strong and beautiful. Why is she so nice to me?

How do I remove myself from this pit of self deprevation and become a better person, so I can actually open up to her and be nice back? How do I forgive the past, be a nicer person to my parents, to my colleagues, to my seniors, and give people support when they need it, be resourceful, bright and happy?

Perhaps then I won't push her away, I will try everything to keep her in my life, because then I'll be worth all of this.
How do I remove myself from this pit of self deprevation and become a better person?

Try to find all those reasons, persons, events of your life that made or make you the way you are now and try to forgive. From my experience, if you want people to change their behavior, you should change yours first. Being rude will attract rude people, being nice and thinking people are nice will attract nice people or make people nicer, the same way this girl makes you want to be nicer. Sounds stupid but it works.

And also, because then I'll be worth all of this, you have to believe your current self is already worth of it.
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I love ju3tine tmmberlake for music :kittay:
Snsd is my guilty pleasure :pain:
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I love ju3tine tmmberlake for music :kittay:
Snsd is my guilty pleasure :pain:
I love classical music for music, but some of it was considered commercial music too :yes2:
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Tired of reading fanfics where girls lose their virginity from one finger, those authors should do some research :nails:
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Just want to rant a little

My relationship with my parents are starting to affect me as a person. I'm rude to people at times when I don't even realise, I'm unresourceful but extremely demanding, I'm angry most of the time, I'm tired and I overdramatise everything.

Then comes this girl, she's bright and happy and full of energy, I don't know why she's taking a liking in me, she cares about me, and she spends time with me to sort my problems out.

I'm this pitiful, ugly person and she's so strong and beautiful. Why is she so nice to me?

How do I remove myself from this pit of self deprevation and become a better person, so I can actually open up to her and be nice back? How do I forgive the past, be a nicer person to my parents, to my colleagues, to my seniors, and give people support when they need it, be resourceful, bright and happy?

Perhaps then I won't push her away, I will try everything to keep her in my life, because then I'll be worth all of this.
anon rn you're doing something good which is addressing your problem and trying to find a way to fix it.
As Frost said you should try to find the reasons why certain things happened that made you change. When you let go the things that bother you in the past you'll feel better and refreshed.

You should find a place where you could relax and think, take a decision and don't go back, this girl is trying to help you out? then you should accept her help. Tell her you want to change, I'm sure you'll overcome this anon :hug:

(I don't know if it will be useful for you, but where I live most of the time it's very sunny, so when I'm stressed or angered I take a blanket and lied down on the floor of my backyard.)

good luck :gaypimp:
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Just want to rant a little

My relationship with my parents are starting to affect me as a person. I'm rude to people at times when I don't even realise, I'm unresourceful but extremely demanding, I'm angry most of the time, I'm tired and I overdramatise everything.

Then comes this girl, she's bright and happy and full of energy, I don't know why she's taking a liking in me, she cares about me, and she spends time with me to sort my problems out.

I'm this pitiful, ugly person and she's so strong and beautiful. Why is she so nice to me?

How do I remove myself from this pit of self deprevation and become a better person, so I can actually open up to her and be nice back? How do I forgive the past, be a nicer person to my parents, to my colleagues, to my seniors, and give people support when they need it, be resourceful, bright and happy?

Perhaps then I won't push her away, I will try everything to keep her in my life, because then I'll be worth all of this.
Take small steps, and don't expect an instantaneous change. If your parents see you or you have a chance to talk to them, try and be more patient, or try asking how they are and having a conversation. If you see your colleagues or seniors struggling with something, ask if they need a hand, or just ask them how their day or weekend went.

Most of it is in perceptions. If you perceive something as a pain, it'll become a pain. You should attempt to find something you enjoy in doing these things, otherwise you won't stick to it, because it'll seem like a chore to keep up. If you dislike talking to people, why is that? Is there any way you can make this situation work for you so that you do enjoy it?

If this girl is nice to you, she sees something equally as nice to talk to. You should recognise that perhaps you're not as bad as you think you might be, which gives you a solid base to work from already, and that just having the desire to improve yourself shows that you aren't pitiful nor ugly.

If you wanna talk through anything, I could give you my KakaoTalk or Skype. :wink:
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this movie seems be good and funny. ^_^
lesbian movie.
one of my favourite movies! it's just really good! :wub:
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Nicki Minaj seems like she's enjoying the view, I don't blame her :teehee:
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Urgh I am forced to go out tonight when I am not in the mood, anyone got a good excuse for me? :whistle:
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Urgh I am forced to go out tonight when I am not in the mood, anyone got a good excuse for me? :whistle:
Diarrhea.
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I'm the anon who had a rant the other day

Thanks for replying guys, you're such sweethearts.
Intellectually, I know what I need to do to sort out my problems, but I can't seem to do it.
When I see my parents - they're overseas ATM so thankfully I haven't seen them for a whole now - I get mad at them because I remember all the negligence over the years, all the time I have lost and not enjoyed because I was busy self pitying and struggling with self esteem issues.

My parents were never around, they were well off but never give me anything unless I ask, because of my relationship with them I feel like a begger asking so I rarely did. I grew up not having most things girls have, make up, pretty clothes, going to parties etc, and I feel like a loser. I never took any friends home until recently since my parents are overseas, and my friends keep commenting how pretty my house is and they're surprised at the settings at home, that's when I realised, my family is considered upper middle class when for years I lived like a peasant, my friends probably thought my family can't afford to buy me things, that's why they were so surprised to find my house is full of expensive useless gadgets like a $14k massage chair that I have never used once, and never realise pd how unconventional it is to have one. I thus feel very angry towards my parents for not caring that I haven't seen much of the world and is living in my own destitute world when clearly I could have done better. I don't care much about materialistic things but I'm angry at the fact that they never cared, and I hate this unresourceful mental place I'm in. I FEEL unworthy, and I FEEL poor and ugly, when I don't have to be if they had soent some time with me and give me things growing up.

I know I'm whining like an immature bitch and I should just grow up but I can't let go of my anger, nor can I stop blaming them on what happened to me. I'm arrogant on the surface but I'm have serious self esteem issues inside. I don't trust people a lot, and my friends...I don't feel close to them even though I know they're good for me. I don't let people close, I can't have intimate relationships with people, I prefer to be alone, but at the same time I have dreams and I need to interact with people to succeed - I'm aware of that, but sometimes I just hope I could rewind the time, and fix myself with the knowledge I have now.

That's why I'm so surprised when this girl pursued me, she's very pretty and popular, I don't know why she's so intrigued by me to the point she's spending her time with me. I'm so flawed, and I don't want her to see this side of me, and I dislike feeling dependent on others. I want to fix me up before I become close with her, so I keep pushing her away, and she keep coming back, I think I might have a crush on her, this is deadly so I can't let this happen.

I also run into some cashflow problems while my parents are away, they don't know but I've removed $20k from the family account to help me out, i might need more since e problem is still not fixed. I don't know if I'm able to return the money before my parents return, and I don't know what's gonna happen when they find out, I think I'll be okay, but my pride wants me to return the borrowed money...

Anyway sorry for the rant again, I'm stressed out as you can read. Thank god for snsd for giving me a breathing ground, and thank god for this anonymous confession place where people actually give genuine advise. Thank you guys.
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^- I'm sorry to just comment on this, but I'm curious; for what exactly did you need all that money for? Are you involved in some illegal activities, gambling or something?
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Malaysian sones! are anyone of you going to snsd's showcase in may?
how can one get a ticket for that? I really wanna go.. but I bet it's expensive.. and traffic would be killer. :sad2:
Omg i wanna go to the concert too but someone should post the ticket price first :crybabe: i wanna see my honey Yoongie omg :bigcry:
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^- I'm sorry to just comment on this, but I'm curious; for what exactly did you need all that money for? Are you involved in some illegal activities, gambling or something?
Lol of course not, I might have issues but stupidity is certainly not one of them.

I have a start up business and its eating up cash like crazy, I'm waiting for a couple of deals to come through next month but right now the cash reserve is too low to keep the business open.
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Malaysian sones! are anyone of you going to snsd's showcase in may?
how can one get a ticket for that? I really wanna go.. but I bet it's expensive.. and traffic would be killer. :sad2:
Omg i wanna go to the concert too but someone should post the ticket price first :crybabe: i wanna see my honey Yoongie omg :bigcry:
VIP zone is not for sale and the closest zone to stage is rumoured to be around 460 myr.
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