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Sep 6 2013, 06:05 PM
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whyyyyyyyyy does she do it?
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Sep 6 2013, 06:16 PM
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whyyyyyyyyy does she do it? She obviously has BDD, don´t know if her family, love ones or her company dude are doing something about it (and it doesn´t even look like it, but I´m not in any place to judge them). But it´s so painful to watch her, really.
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Sep 6 2013, 06:31 PM
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twatter is variety? and they don't cause scandals, the only time he got in trouble properly was when he tweeted a photo of him with his finger up, which he said sorry for. if he didn't care he'd not have done the usual sorry! i'll show a better side! like i said on variety shows he plays the polite typical male idol, he only acts different outside of korean shows so i get amused when people act like he doesn't care when he uses the idol side of things to promote and pay his bills.
it doesn't matter if it's not variety, it's still in the public eye. korean stars have done a lot of damage to their images because of what they've said on twatter. his middle finger was a while ago, but he had another controversy recently for some pictures he took that referenced to his private parts. he doesn't give a fuck about what he does. i'm not defending him and saying he's a great role model or like that. i'm just saying he is one of the idols/stars who really doesn't give a fuck.
saying sorry for not doing anything bad isn't not giving a fuck and he really isn't when he goes on tv and plays the same idol role everyone else does but alright what are you talking about? the pictures were bad.
i don't know what we're arguing anymore. you can't say someone like j park acts the same as anyone in shiny or even soojoo.
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Sep 6 2013, 06:38 PM
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This makes me so upset. The PS has completely ruined her ability to sing and is obv not helping with her insecurity. I really love B0m as a person, she was always my fav part of TwoN31tv. I wish she could see how great she is and by some miracle get her voice back.
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Sep 6 2013, 06:45 PM
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gotta be honest, her face scares me, I have the impression it's going to melt anytime or something freaky is gonna happen like her nose will fall or something her self image must be very fucked up this is a serious psychological problem
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Sep 6 2013, 06:49 PM
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gotta be honest, her face scares me, I have the impression it's going to melt anytime or something freaky is gonna happen like her nose will fall or something her self image must be very fucked up this is a serious psychological problem da i was eating my lunch and then i just see her new face, holy shit i feel like throwing up
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Sep 6 2013, 06:55 PM
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That comment by kyoo really irked me. Way to imply so many f*cked up things when you know people who are watching are just dying to get any little soundbite to blow out of proportion. What are they gonna think when they hear that? Their brains are going to work overtime and come up with all these ridiculous scenarios. Scenarios that are fueled by all her little minuscule ~scandals~. She had every right to get mad and in my opinion she tried to play it off with the whole standing up thing. She was saying what she wanted to say but kind of smiling. I don't blame her for crying. When I'm really mad i can't control it and cry. God forbid she shows any human emotion. You can't stop things like that from happening. I get that most of the time they have to bite their tongue and just put up with all this bs that people throw at them but there comes a point where you can't take it anymore. I'm surprised she put up with it the way she did. I would've lost it big time and given all those people something to REALLY comment on. you know it gurl maybe I would actually throw the bottle, to the face too and say "talk about this now bitches, I QUIT!"
I find it weird how much idols put up with I mean, in america, if a singer feels pressured in any way by a reporter or whatever, shit gets real, and they actually give something for people to talk about lol
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Sep 6 2013, 06:56 PM
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^goddamnit sorry if i sounded mean, actually i'm really sad for that woman, she needs help and friends
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Sep 6 2013, 06:57 PM
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oh I would not last as an idol I would probably pull a jay p@rk and not give a fuck
lol expect j@y is famous for being in a boy group, promotes his solo stuff the same way other idols do, goes on variety shows and gives the same sugary sweet answers everyone else does it's only outside of korean stuff he acts a douche and "not give a fuck" didn't he diss korea on his old blog or something and then left 2peeeem?
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Sep 6 2013, 07:13 PM
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You're right about the argument going nowhere, I guess we should just agree to disagree.
I'll just say that since this show is about scandals, these MCs did their jobs and treated her like any other guest. Maybe you don't like the concept of the show, and that's fine, but I don't know why I should treat Hara differently when there have been past guests that were grilled over their controversies and kept their behavior in check. They didn't slide their bottle across the table, stand up and raise their voice because they didn't like what someone said.
I will not defend female idols for something that I would not defend male idols for. I think that's true equality. Maybe other people won't treat her that way, but that doesn't mean you have to do the opposite and protect her just because she's female. Both behaviors (attacking/defending behavior just because of gender) are wrong.
I agree with you. If she didn't want to be put in the position she was in, she shouldn't have gone on the show, knowing full well what was likely to happen. It would be equally embarrassing if a male had reacted that way, so I'll be equally as embarrassed that a female did. da Sorry, but I can't let this go. "If this was a male idol" is completely irrelevant to the topic and an informal fallacy. A man will never experience what H@ra did in this situation. It's superficial as fuck to even equate the two. Saying she could have done this or that differently is just subtle oppression. Her job is to entertain not listen to derogatory comments and be harassed on television.
At the end of the day she is a goddamn human being. She told them to stop and she tried to keep her composure, but she couldn't. She shouldn't be blamed for showing emotion ffs.
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Sep 6 2013, 07:17 PM
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oh I would not last as an idol I would probably pull a jay p@rk and not give a fuck
lol expect j@y is famous for being in a boy group, promotes his solo stuff the same way other idols do, goes on variety shows and gives the same sugary sweet answers everyone else does it's only outside of korean stuff he acts a douche and "not give a fuck"
didn't he diss korea on his old blog or something and then left 2peeeem? he was kicked out in the end but apparently it was for doing something wrong outside of that idk if he did or if it was an excuse but that whole scandal was lame lol he was like 18 and missing home it blew over in a few days but it was really over the top at the time
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Sep 6 2013, 07:18 PM
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You're right about the argument going nowhere, I guess we should just agree to disagree.
I'll just say that since this show is about scandals, these MCs did their jobs and treated her like any other guest. Maybe you don't like the concept of the show, and that's fine, but I don't know why I should treat Hara differently when there have been past guests that were grilled over their controversies and kept their behavior in check. They didn't slide their bottle across the table, stand up and raise their voice because they didn't like what someone said.
I will not defend female idols for something that I would not defend male idols for. I think that's true equality. Maybe other people won't treat her that way, but that doesn't mean you have to do the opposite and protect her just because she's female. Both behaviors (attacking/defending behavior just because of gender) are wrong.
I agree with you. If she didn't want to be put in the position she was in, she shouldn't have gone on the show, knowing full well what was likely to happen. It would be equally embarrassing if a male had reacted that way, so I'll be equally as embarrassed that a female did.
da Sorry, but I can't let this go. "If this was a male idol" is completely irrelevant to the topic and an informal fallacy. A man will never experience what H@ra did in this situation. It's superficial as fuck to even equate the two. Saying she could have done this or that differently is just subtle oppression. Her job is to entertain not listen to derogatory comments and be harassed on television. At the end of the day she is a goddamn human being. She told them to stop and she tried to keep her composure, but she couldn't. She shouldn't be blamed for showing emotion ffs. da x2 its ridiculous
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Sep 6 2013, 07:23 PM
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it doesn't matter if it's not variety, it's still in the public eye. korean stars have done a lot of damage to their images because of what they've said on twatter. his middle finger was a while ago, but he had another controversy recently for some pictures he took that referenced to his private parts. he doesn't give a fuck about what he does. i'm not defending him and saying he's a great role model or like that. i'm just saying he is one of the idols/stars who really doesn't give a fuck.
saying sorry for not doing anything bad isn't not giving a fuck and he really isn't when he goes on tv and plays the same idol role everyone else does but alright
what are you talking about? the pictures were bad. i don't know what we're arguing anymore. you can't say someone like j park acts the same as anyone in shiny or even soojoo. i'm not arguing in the first place i just don't agree with your view lol that he doesn't give a fuck when he plays up the idol image to get albums sold.
on variety shows he does exactly that watch him on that singing show or any variety he's done in korea. i used to be a fan but i got tired of his arrogance and acting like he's above being an idol then see him going on variety shows and putting on a nicer image and doing the things his friends laugh at on his youtube channel to sell more albums in korea.
this isn't going anywhere i don't think and i've said the variety thing like 4 times already so no point saying it again after this
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Sep 6 2013, 07:34 PM
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You're right about the argument going nowhere, I guess we should just agree to disagree.
I'll just say that since this show is about scandals, these MCs did their jobs and treated her like any other guest. Maybe you don't like the concept of the show, and that's fine, but I don't know why I should treat Hara differently when there have been past guests that were grilled over their controversies and kept their behavior in check. They didn't slide their bottle across the table, stand up and raise their voice because they didn't like what someone said.
I will not defend female idols for something that I would not defend male idols for. I think that's true equality. Maybe other people won't treat her that way, but that doesn't mean you have to do the opposite and protect her just because she's female. Both behaviors (attacking/defending behavior just because of gender) are wrong.
I agree with you. If she didn't want to be put in the position she was in, she shouldn't have gone on the show, knowing full well what was likely to happen. It would be equally embarrassing if a male had reacted that way, so I'll be equally as embarrassed that a female did.
da Sorry, but I can't let this go. "If this was a male idol" is completely irrelevant to the topic and an informal fallacy. A man will never experience what H@ra did in this situation. It's superficial as fuck to even equate the two. Saying she could have done this or that differently is just subtle oppression. Her job is to entertain not listen to derogatory comments and be harassed on television. At the end of the day she is a goddamn human being. She told them to stop and she tried to keep her composure, but she couldn't. She shouldn't be blamed for showing emotion ffs.
da x2 its ridiculous x3

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Sep 6 2013, 07:36 PM
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You're right about the argument going nowhere, I guess we should just agree to disagree.
I'll just say that since this show is about scandals, these MCs did their jobs and treated her like any other guest. Maybe you don't like the concept of the show, and that's fine, but I don't know why I should treat Hara differently when there have been past guests that were grilled over their controversies and kept their behavior in check. They didn't slide their bottle across the table, stand up and raise their voice because they didn't like what someone said.
I will not defend female idols for something that I would not defend male idols for. I think that's true equality. Maybe other people won't treat her that way, but that doesn't mean you have to do the opposite and protect her just because she's female. Both behaviors (attacking/defending behavior just because of gender) are wrong.
I agree with you. If she didn't want to be put in the position she was in, she shouldn't have gone on the show, knowing full well what was likely to happen. It would be equally embarrassing if a male had reacted that way, so I'll be equally as embarrassed that a female did.
da Sorry, but I can't let this go. "If this was a male idol" is completely irrelevant to the topic and an informal fallacy. A man will never experience what H@ra did in this situation. It's superficial as fuck to even equate the two. Saying she could have done this or that differently is just subtle oppression. Her job is to entertain not listen to derogatory comments and be harassed on television. At the end of the day she is a goddamn human being. She told them to stop and she tried to keep her composure, but she couldn't. She shouldn't be blamed for showing emotion ffs. Agreed. Couldn't have said it better.
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Sep 6 2013, 07:48 PM
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saying sorry for not doing anything bad isn't not giving a fuck and he really isn't when he goes on tv and plays the same idol role everyone else does but alright
what are you talking about? the pictures were bad. i don't know what we're arguing anymore. you can't say someone like j park acts the same as anyone in shiny or even soojoo.
i'm not arguing in the first place i just don't agree with your view lol that he doesn't give a fuck when he plays up the idol image to get albums sold. on variety shows he does exactly that watch him on that singing show or any variety he's done in korea. i used to be a fan but i got tired of his arrogance and acting like he's above being an idol then see him going on variety shows and putting on a nicer image and doing the things his friends laugh at on his youtube channel to sell more albums in korea. this isn't going anywhere i don't think and i've said the variety thing like 4 times already so no point saying it again after this you're stuck on variety that's why. i'm saying everything they do, whether it's on variety or twatter or IG, it's all judged by the public eye. anything that is on the internet, on camera in pictures and film will be judged.
anyway, i don't like him because he's not good at anything. he's an average rapper, dancer, singer at best.
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Sep 6 2013, 07:53 PM
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what are you talking about? the pictures were bad. i don't know what we're arguing anymore. you can't say someone like j park acts the same as anyone in shiny or even soojoo.
i'm not arguing in the first place i just don't agree with your view lol that he doesn't give a fuck when he plays up the idol image to get albums sold. on variety shows he does exactly that watch him on that singing show or any variety he's done in korea. i used to be a fan but i got tired of his arrogance and acting like he's above being an idol then see him going on variety shows and putting on a nicer image and doing the things his friends laugh at on his youtube channel to sell more albums in korea. this isn't going anywhere i don't think and i've said the variety thing like 4 times already so no point saying it again after this
you're stuck on variety that's why. i'm saying everything they do, whether it's on variety or twatter or IG, it's all judged by the public eye. anything that is on the internet, on camera in pictures and film will be judged. anyway, i don't like him because he's not good at anything. he's an average rapper, dancer, singer at best. da I think he was the best performer on 2peeeem compared to the others of course
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da Sorry, but I can't let this go. "If this was a male idol" is completely irrelevant to the topic and an informal fallacy. A man will never experience what H@ra did in this situation. It's superficial as fuck to even equate the two. Saying she could have done this or that differently is just subtle oppression. Her job is to entertain not listen to derogatory comments and be harassed on television. At the end of the day she is a goddamn human being. She told them to stop and she tried to keep her composure, but she couldn't. She shouldn't be blamed for showing emotion ffs.
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x3  x4 that was summed up very succinctly anon, thank you.
Didn't really want to get involved in this discussion, but male idols are not affected by dating scandals the same way female idols are - it's not as damaging for them; their entire reputation isn't hinged on the amount of people they've dated or slept with. And it's not only a kpop problem - this whole female purity myth thing really needs to end; the effects it has on treating women with respect is damaging on a global level. The fact that it's casual enough to be used as variety show fodder should tell you how pervasive this way of thinking is.
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if this was hara's first time seen as rude, she would not have been so scrutinized. but because of past incidents regarding her attitude, people see her as an idol with no manners. but even so, many viewers felt they can understand why she got upset. [never read NB and take it as fact for all netizens] s3ungy3on made everything worse because of her comment.
antis are digging up all the times hara was seen rude and using it to bash her and some people are following them but mostly people are angry with s3ungy3on and jiy0ung.
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Sep 6 2013, 08:25 PM
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someone has the link of this incident just so I can see what was so fucking offensive about it?
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if this was hara's first time seen as rude, she would not have been so scrutinized. but because of past incidents regarding her attitude, people see her as an idol with no manners. but even so, many viewers felt they can understand why she got upset. [never read NB and take it as fact for all netizens] s3ungy3on made everything worse because of her comment.
antis are digging up all the times hara was seen rude and using it to bash her and some people are following them but mostly people are angry with s3ungy3on and jiy0ung. S3ungyeon was trying to fire back which everyone keeps saying is the point of the show, but I guess her comment can't be taken as a joke while the entire conversation before is considered to be. Maybe J1young's reason for crying isn't as serious as H@ra's but whatever. Why is she being asked to do aegyo when she is legally an adult and has already been working for five years?
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someone has the link of this incident just so I can see what was so fucking offensive about it?
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da x2 its ridiculous
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x4 that was summed up very succinctly anon, thank you. Didn't really want to get involved in this discussion, but male idols are not affected by dating scandals the same way female idols are - it's not as damaging for them; their entire reputation isn't hinged on the amount of people they've dated or slept with. And it's not only a kpop problem - this whole female purity myth thing really needs to end; the effects it has on treating women with respect is damaging on a global level. The fact that it's casual enough to be used as variety show fodder should tell you how pervasive this way of thinking is. how many of you actually watched the show instead of basing your opinion off of comments?
the host made the "what are we going to talk about if we can't discuss dating" because the only scandals she's had are dating related, not because she's a female idol. if ni(hKh00n said "please don't talk about driving" there would be nothing for them to discuss because his that's his only scandal. if you're even remotely familiar with korean variety shows, you'd know the 'you're done if i open my mouth' joke is one of the most common jokes when celebs discuss personal life. if you watched the show, the captions show a fishing reel when he says that. when they use that on shows it means hosts are 'fishing' for a response because they don't really have anything to say.it's an empty threat and a common way of teasing someone, especially fellow members/idols. nobody (plus the audience) takes it seriously when it's used on them because they know it means nothing. her standing up and throwing down her bottle (again, but this time down at the table instead of sliding toward the hosts) and saying "what are you talking about? you can't be confident saying this either!" makes it seem like she really is hiding and makes the atmosphere more serious than it's suppose to be. everyone else (including kyu_yun) keeps laughing/smiling and remain calm. the hosts try to turn it into a 'dissing battle' to make the situation less serious and give the girls a chance to throw playful jabs back. instead she slumps back down and kyu_yun says "hey, it was just teasing". then she turns around and starts crying and says "ah, seriously..i'm seriously mad" the cast and jayYpee kind of pause and look awkward/guilty. then s_ungyeon, when the atmosphere is already awkward, says "oh, you guys are too much...we hear things too".
she's not in trouble because of her dating scandal. nobody except netizens cared that she dated some other idol, and it became a 'big deal' because usually idols don't come clean about dating. even j0nghyun/7 had tons of people hating on them and tons of fans leaving their fansites because they went public. she's getting heat because of her reaction to people bringing it up on a show where it's suppose to come up.
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sa even the cast of the show is trying to help salvage their image asking the public to blame them.
"I think that their tears were the most honest response.. We were being harsh like we always are.. so if one was to get cursed at, we should be the ones to get it.. Not everyone can respond to our questions with wit and laughter.. They were probably things that the members had a hard time with while experiencing.. So as one of the ones who took the most active role, it is my fault.. I'm sorry ^^"
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idk man, I think koreans are naturally uptight sure it's a dissing program and all, they are making fun of the girl and laughing about it but then she laughs and throws the bottle at the dude and everyone is like "OMG SO RUDE UGH" and netizens lose their minds I don't get it to make it less awkward they should have just laughed it off and join the joke. but again, koreans love awkwardness
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x4 that was summed up very succinctly anon, thank you. Didn't really want to get involved in this discussion, but male idols are not affected by dating scandals the same way female idols are - it's not as damaging for them; their entire reputation isn't hinged on the amount of people they've dated or slept with. And it's not only a kpop problem - this whole female purity myth thing really needs to end; the effects it has on treating women with respect is damaging on a global level. The fact that it's casual enough to be used as variety show fodder should tell you how pervasive this way of thinking is.
how many of you actually watched the show instead of basing your opinion off of comments? the host made the "what are we going to talk about if we can't discuss dating" because the only scandals she's had are dating related, not because she's a female idol. if ni(hKh00n said "please don't talk about driving" there would be nothing for them to discuss because his that's his only scandal. if you're even remotely familiar with korean variety shows, you'd know the 'you're done if i open my mouth' joke is one of the most common jokes when celebs discuss personal life. if you watched the show, the captions show a fishing reel when he says that. when they use that on shows it means hosts are 'fishing' for a response because they don't really have anything to say.it's an empty threat and a common way of teasing someone, especially fellow members/idols. nobody (plus the audience) takes it seriously when it's used on them because they know it means nothing. her standing up and throwing down her bottle (again, but this time down at the table instead of sliding toward the hosts) and saying "what are you talking about? you can't be confident saying this either!" makes it seem like she really is hiding and makes the atmosphere more serious than it's suppose to be. everyone else (including kyu_yun) keeps laughing/smiling and remain calm. the hosts try to turn it into a 'dissing battle' to make the situation less serious and give the girls a chance to throw playful jabs back. instead she slumps back down and kyu_yun says "hey, it was just teasing". then she turns around and starts crying and says "ah, seriously..i'm seriously mad" the cast and jayYpee kind of pause and look awkward/guilty. then s_ungyeon, when the atmosphere is already awkward, says "oh, you guys are too much...we hear things too". she's not in trouble because of her dating scandal. nobody except netizens cared that she dated some other idol, and it became a 'big deal' because usually idols don't come clean about dating. even j0nghyun/7 had tons of people hating on them and tons of fans leaving their fansites because they went public. she's getting heat because of her reaction to people bringing it up on a show where it's suppose to come up. Imo culture difference is the reason we can't agree on this e. if that was me i would throw the bottle straight at him and make sure it hurts, but it isn't me and it isn't my culture or country. my only problem with this is her crying if she wants to cry she can cry she's free to do so maybe what they were talking about hurt her and she couldn't take it. and i don't think we should compare this with nikh00n's scandal talking about someone's dating life where she's practically called a slut is different from drinking for fun and then driving and getting caught for it.
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Sep 6 2013, 09:10 PM
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she's probably pissed at him because she asked him (being "friends" and all) to not ask about her dating life and the douchejunior did it anyways Is there anyone in douchejunior that is decent?
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Sep 6 2013, 09:10 PM
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"if that was me" lol, ok. "i'll do what i want and react however and no one can criticize me"-attitude will work out well for you when you're an adult.
my colleague said something mean to me, i'll throw a bottle at his face.
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Sep 6 2013, 09:12 PM
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^Anon above conveniently ignoring that H@ra tried to laugh it off at first. Tired of arguing about this though. Some of ya'll need to learn about microaggression before making comments.
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Sep 6 2013, 09:12 PM
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"if that was me" lol, ok. "i'll do what i want and react however and no one can criticize me"-attitude will work out well for you when you're an adult.
my colleague said something mean to me, i'll throw a bottle at his face. if someone was threatening me that way yes i would react however i want but like i said it's not me and i am not an idol, and like someone said that line is used usually on variety shows as a joke.
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Sep 6 2013, 09:14 PM
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she's probably pissed at him because she asked him (being "friends" and all) to not ask about her dating life and the douchejunior did it anyways Is there anyone in douchejunior that is decent? SA watching the video I can understand where this girl was coming from she was probably upset because her friend was hurting her, I know the feeling during the segment she was the whole time looking at him, red faced and he just kept teasing her
he made the girl cry and she gets the blame for it great
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Sep 6 2013, 09:19 PM
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if this was hara's first time seen as rude, she would not have been so scrutinized. but because of past incidents regarding her attitude, people see her as an idol with no manners. but even so, many viewers felt they can understand why she got upset. [never read NB and take it as fact for all netizens] s3ungy3on made everything worse because of her comment.
antis are digging up all the times hara was seen rude and using it to bash her and some people are following them but mostly people are angry with s3ungy3on and jiy0ung.
S3ungyeon was trying to fire back which everyone keeps saying is the point of the show, but I guess her comment can't be taken as a joke while the entire conversation before is considered to be. Maybe J1young's reason for crying isn't as serious as H@ra's but whatever. Why is she being asked to do aegyo when she is legally an adult and has already been working for five years? the situation was already awkward and hara was recomposing herself. s3ungyeon's comment was not necessary at all. it only made the awkwardness last longer.
jiy0ung was stupid. really stupid. it doesn't matter what your age is, if an mc asks a simple task like aegyo, which is so common on shows that people have these planned before they appear on shows, you do it.
if you remember snsd radio star, you know that the mcs asked yoona to act out so many different scenes and she did it without complaining, crying, or bitterness. she just did it. back then it was normal behavior for a guest to listen to what the mc requests. now, compared to kara, people are praising her so much for being such a pro about it.
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Sep 6 2013, 09:47 PM
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I thought these shows were scripted ...
generally for shows like this the topics and questions are planned out beforehand and given to guests so they can prepare their answers some show writers interview planned guests and make an outline of show topics and ideas based on what will be the most interesting to viewers, it depends on the show. sometimes they will plan parts of conversations based on these interviews. ultimately guests will answer however they want and its up to mcs to follow up on answers and string together parts of a conversation to make it entertaining but it's usually not word-for-word scripted
How about the label the work under, wouldn't they pressure them to not broadcast the awkward parts that might affect their idol's image? It's not live or anything.
this show is for controversy. controversy is batter than indifference for celebrity. who knows? maybe It's a noise marketing. since people lost interest about them after they focus on Japan activity Yeah maybe it was, I never liked these shows anyway and especially the way MCs treated the guests during broadcast. Maybe it's a cultural thing...
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Sep 7 2013, 12:14 AM
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^Anon above conveniently ignoring that H@ra tried to laugh it off at first. Tired of arguing about this though. Some of ya'll need to learn about microaggression before making comments. x2 she tried to downplay it at first then asked not to talk about it more than once, as hosts they should have listened not carried on making her uncomfortable which lead to her crying
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