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Topic Started: May 11 2013, 08:53 PM (57,045 Views)
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Sep 8 2013, 11:45 PM
Since we know it's definitely Anon with a different ip, we will be banning them every time they make an appearance until they decide to pull up their big kid pants and act like a civilized person.

We will keep their offensive misogynistic posts up to remind people (and them in case they forget) as to why they were banned in the first place. Perhaps after a little self-reflection, they'll take a little less of hostile approach to making what they want us to know clear.
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Yeah, i'm thinking the spoilers around their obnoxiousness is easier to scroll past...

hope that's alright with everyone. If not, i'll unspoiler it. Just let me know what's easiest for y'all to scroll past and avoid.
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Since we know it's definitely Anon with a different ip, we will be banning them every time they make an appearance until they decide to pull up their big kid pants and act like a civilized person.

We will keep their offensive misogynistic posts up to remind people (and them in case they forget) as to why they were banned in the first place. Perhaps after a little self-reflection, they'll take a little less of hostile approach to making what they want us to know clear.

We're sorry for taking so long, but it wasn't an easy decision to make.
They do make good points but like I said their delivery needs some work and that women comment was a serious lack of judgment at best so I get this decision. Suspension For Reflection is what the anon is having now, reflect.

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I think we should wait a little bit longer (a few hours) regarding the new threads.
If no new opinions show up, I say we should just create the new threads, Asian entertainment, western one and LGBTQ one.
Maybe once they're created they'd get the attention they deserve. If it doesn't work out, we can always close and remove them ^_^
Glad the new threads will soon be here but like I explained to jyhu, compared to the main thread all other threads here are comparatively dead. Many times hours and hours pass without a single post and yet no one calls their existence into question because its obvious there's interest in the topics and these topics do not have (nor should they ever) have a place in the main thread. So I don't see why any new threads should then have some activity litmus test previous threads never had to pass. Unless you mean something besides activity by if it doesn't work out, then ignore this post. ^_^

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Also I vote for Rexie as a silencer ^_^
Silencers.

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IT'S ALIVE!!

http://sogayshidae.com/topic/9126955/1/#new

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Sep 9 2013, 12:08 AM
Suspension For Reflection is what the anon is having now, reflect.
:lol: I quite like you, when I don't feel the other way.
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Sep 8 2013, 10:27 PM
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Sep 8 2013, 09:37 PM
I don't think this forum having women instead of men (because the fuck do we know if that's even true =_= ) would change much. Like I said, you've made good points but in the eyes of many they get erased by your subsequent behavior. If you really cared enough for this change you would realize what your audience takes well and adjust your way of projecting yourself. Its a simple rule of knowing your audience, you don't seem to care about the audience (this includes the mods) yet expect them to pay attention when you do things in a way that turn them off your message. Should the only thing that matters be the message? In a way, yes but everyone knows it's not as simple as that so really don't whine about the audience not accepting your message as is when you already know they won't ever do so. You are setting yourself up for failure and blaming others when you do. I still think you make good points but at least I can see why others won't bother with you.
But I'm protesting the fact that they can't just focus on the core of the issue. It's like you have to talk to them in a certain way to make them do shit instead of just them seeing that something makes sense and should be done. I care about my message but if I do change my attitude and butter them up, etc. to get them to listen to me, that would be hypocritical because I'm doing what I think is wrong in the first place. And anyway, that's kind of manipulative.
I didn't mean manipulate or butter anyone up, just stick to the core issues yourself. You don't even have to be friendly but if want something changed then state what you want changed, why and done. Anything else is just filler and if that filler is full of negative comments your points will get lost. I do believe you make good points, valid points, that you aren't doing this to troll and that even with your asshatery your points should be considered but you have to know the majority won't see things like this so why make it harder on yourself? Just state your case as cleanly and clearly as you can and let it be, don't attack because your post isn't immediately responded to or flood the thread, that does nothing. But if you think your way will magically start serving you well then by all means.
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Sep 9 2013, 12:14 AM
:lol: I quite like you, when I don't feel the other way.
Who is that Anon, then?
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:lol: I quite like you, when I don't feel the other way.
Who is that Anon, then?
The anon who I recognize from before. Don't look for problems where there is none.
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Sep 9 2013, 12:21 AM
The anon who I recognize from before. Don't look for problems where there is none.
I didn't say there was a problem, I was just curious.
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Sep 9 2013, 12:08 AM
Suspension For Reflection is what the anon is having now, reflect.
:lol: I quite like you, when I don't feel the other way.
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I understand those feels.
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We're going ahead and adding both a Western and Asian Ent. threads to see if they work and take it from there.
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Sep 9 2013, 01:13 AM
We're going ahead and adding both a Western and Asian Ent. thread to see if they work and take it from there.
Sounds good to me.
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Thank you for adding those threads ladies.
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You're welcome ^_^
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So now what are we going to do on the chat thread besides talking to each other about personal stuffs and sharing selcas?
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Keep it that way?

Bishes always have stuff to say/share and it's already a chat room so why not. ^^
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So it's okay to share stuffs related to the other threads on the chat thread?
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yes, besides some complained that the chat thread "belonged" to a few regs and anons, so other ppl felt rather turned down.
These new threads could be helpful regarding that, and more inviting to other ppl ^_^
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Great then, thanks :D
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Maybe about a week, maybe not. It all depends on you.

Like I said, until you can pull up your big kid pants and act like you were raised with some manners you'll be banned whenever you appear.
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One week anon, within that time if you keep coming we will continue banning every proxy of yours.
I hope that by the time the week ends, you learn to express your opinions, any kind, in a more proper way.
Like the other anon was indicating, it's the way you come across that pisses ppl off and make them not take you very seriously, besides you cannot come to a LESBIAN and FOR LESBIANS forum, then proceed to state that you are a male (which is not very welcome here as you've noticed) AND on top of that make sexist remarks and think you can get away with it.
We will NOT allow that.

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One week anon, within that time if you keep coming we will continue banning every proxy of yours.
I hope that by the time the week ends, you learn to express your opinions, any kind, in a more proper way.
Like the other anon was indicating, it's the way you come across that pisses ppl off and make them not take you very seriously, besides you cannot come to a LESBIAN and FOR LESBIANS forum, then proceed to state that you are a male (which is not very welcome here as you've noticed) AND on top of that make sexist remarks and think you can get away with it.
We will NOT allow that.

Okay, I understand that, but why did the mods ignore me when I asked them if they were going to consider censoring all the words they want to censor through the system? I just wanted to know you weren't just ignoring me. It took two seconds to say either yes or no or "We'll think about it". You only responded to Arti when she responded to me about it. I don't get it.
About censoring, we're not even sure we are gonna worry about that. Like I replied to Artichoke, I think the way it is now works nicely, I don't see the need of turning it into something automatic.
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I won't reply to you again, see you in a week.
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idk how I feel about these new threads
I hope the GG thread doesn't fade away
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isn't korean pop culture asian entertainment? this is gonna be confusing
people will probably talk about k-pop in asian entertainment
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I don't think the main will die. We are here for the girls.
The threads are some kind of a test, we will see how they turn out to be ^_^
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A week...? Really?...
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I don't think this forum having women instead of men (because the fuck do we know if that's even true =_= ) would change much. Like I said, you've made good points but in the eyes of many they get erased by your subsequent behavior. If you really cared enough for this change you would realize what your audience takes well and adjust your way of projecting yourself. Its a simple rule of knowing your audience, you don't seem to care about the audience (this includes the mods) yet expect them to pay attention when you do things in a way that turn them off your message. Should the only thing that matters be the message? In a way, yes but everyone knows it's not as simple as that so really don't whine about the audience not accepting your message as is when you already know they won't ever do so. You are setting yourself up for failure and blaming others when you do. I still think you make good points but at least I can see why others won't bother with you.
But I'm protesting the fact that they can't just focus on the core of the issue. It's like you have to talk to them in a certain way to make them do shit instead of just them seeing that something makes sense and should be done. I care about my message but if I do change my attitude and butter them up, etc. to get them to listen to me, that would be hypocritical because I'm doing what I think is wrong in the first place. And anyway, that's kind of manipulative.
I didn't mean manipulate or butter anyone up, just stick to the core issues yourself. You don't even have to be friendly but if want something changed then state what you want changed, why and done. Anything else is just filler and if that filler is full of negative comments your points will get lost. I do believe you make good points, valid points, that you aren't doing this to troll and that even with your asshatery your points should be considered but you have to know the majority won't see things like this so why make it harder on yourself? Just state your case as cleanly and clearly as you can and let it be, don't attack because your post isn't immediately responded to or flood the thread, that does nothing. But if you think your way will magically start serving you well then by all means.
Alright, let's do what you said.

My suggestions are as follows:

1. Janitors - Vote on whether there should be janitors. If that passes, vote on who will be janitors. Afterward a confirmation vote, with 50% being the percentage of votes they need to be confirmed. Make sure they have strict guidelines to follow and reprimand them harshly when they deviate from it. Or we will do the reprimanding and vote them out ourselves.

2. Behind-the-curtain decision-making, completely gone. Unless it's censoring words.

3. No more mod additions. This isn't a request to the mods, but an appeal to everyone here. Don't vote in anymore mods at this point. I've stated the reasons already. If possible get a poll started on setting a limit on the number of mods who can simultaneously be active. My suggestion is 3. Stepho doesn't count.

4. Opposite camp mods - It's not as important as issue #3 right now. We can table this until it becomes a problem.

That's it for now.
This was very well done, all fine points. I don't disagree with any of them since they are quite pragmatic. :gaypimp:
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honestly dont think a male should have any input on the operation of this forum. why the fuck are you even here? you have 43543434 other snsd forums and sites that cater to your interests. this is why we cant have nice things
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