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Abc
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Sep 27 2013, 10:01 PM
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Sep 27 2013, 04:26 PM
Long text, that's why I spoilered it :P

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Mhm... I would say you're bisexual, it doesn't matter if what you feel about women is different to what you feel about men, you have feelings for both.

Some people have their sexuality very clear since the beginning but others are late bloomers. Don't worry too much, you'll figure it out if you still have doubts. And if you have to explain it to someone else just tell them what you told us, you don't have to label yourself if you're not sure.
I agree with the cat.

Anon, don't worry about labeling yourself, you know, eventually you will see the answer, or not! lol just care that you feel comfortable with both.

I really dislike labels. If you like what you like, so what? as long as she/he treats you well and you feel content ^_^

Btw, my ex, she had never liked girls and she was old enough to be "sure" but then bam! she became my gf for almost 4 years! and it was awesome. (now she's back to men lol).
I also heard a different story, from a psychologist. That she was treating this 60yo woman, and that she had been married and had 2 kids, she got divorced eventually. The interesting thing is that she told the psychologist that now, at the age of 60 she had found love, in a woman, and that she was happier than ever, that she did not see that coming.
I guess, anything can happen, at any age!
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So umm, girls...
Serious question:

Do you as lesbians/bisexuals, enjoy girl on girl porn?

In my humble opinion, I hate it so much. :nails:
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Sep 24 2013, 10:02 PM
Anyone who has been to TLC knows there's a big problem there against bisexuals, if you thought that was just TLC being the cunty hell hole it is, you were wrong.

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You would hope that a marginalized community would have some greater degree of acceptance and equality since that is what they want from the general populace but as history has shown that's not the case most times. Minorities can be quite intolerant to even smaller minorities.

I don't really get some lesbian's problems with dating true bisexuals (not bi-curious, not I know I'm queer but I don't know what labels fits me, not I'm a straight girl that enjoys the attention of lesbians), is the image of your woman leaving you for another woman instead of a man really all that much more pleasant? Lesbians seem to be really preoccupied with the bi partner leaving them for a man but they could just as easily leave them for a woman the same way a lesbian partner would. It's like they are expecting it but why would bi's be any less reliable as partners than lesbians? Why is it they act like a bisexual has more of an inclination to leave them, and for a man, than a lesbian partner would for another woman?
It's a mix of fear and cowardice
I can see that but I don't think "losing to" a man is inherently worse than losing to a woman, they are both equally though differently bad. There should be less judging and fear, then maybe less people would be lonely.
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Sep 28 2013, 06:49 PM
So umm, girls...
Serious question:

Do you as lesbians/bisexuals, enjoy girl on girl porn?

In my humble opinion, I hate it so much. :nails:
It's totally fake and unrealistic. Not a fan at all.



This provides for a good giggle, in my opinion.
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Sep 28 2013, 06:49 PM
So umm, girls...
Serious question:

Do you as lesbians/bisexuals, enjoy girl on girl porn?

In my humble opinion, I hate it so much. :nails:
There is a mental vomit inducing reaction to watching two people who so clearly don't enjoy what is going on, that are doing it for pay only. The quality when its two straight women is atrocious but not all F/F porn is done by straight women aka "gay for pay". I would say gay for pay in F/F porn is worse in quality than M/M gay for pay since they sell it better. "Lesbian porn" is mostly aimed at straight males so that explains the lack of quality. However there is female porn showing only F/F made for women featuring queer (bi/les) women, I would say there's a difference in quality.


Not a fan but the porn industry itself is an interesting subject, there are a lot of misconceptions. Porn is a human expression as old as the hills, from the erotic frescoes of Pompeii to the salacious street theater in Ancient Roman times. Humans have this desire to immortalize their sexuality and titillate the senses as well. Part of the reason why queer women seem to dislike most "lesbian porn", it fails to immortalize true arousal and pleasure between two women. Straight men don't focus on those details but queer women do, if the porn had some identifiable raw desire then it would be a hit.
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Sep 28 2013, 07:22 PM
Not a fan but the porn industry itself is an interesting subject, there are a lot of misconceptions. Porn is a human expression as old as the hills, from the erotic frescoes of Pompeii to the salacious street theater in Ancient Roman times. Humans have this desire to immortalize their sexuality and titillate the senses as well. Part of the reason why queer women seem to dislike most "lesbian porn", it fails to immortalize true arousal and pleasure between two women. Straight men don't focus on those details but queer women do, if the porn had some identifiable raw desire then it would be a hit.
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You are totally right.
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It's hard to find lesbian porn that looks fine. It irritates me when you click the gay category in porn web sites and it leads you to different web page, with rainbows and shit that's clearly for gay males, but when you click the lesbian category it stays in the straight web page. Porn is for males.
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Sep 28 2013, 09:38 PM
Porn is for males.
Sigh, so true.

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Dude, I know many women that would like to watch girls getting it on, but like REAL lesbians! that are clearly enjoying it! not fucking blondes with tons of make up, wearing heels and with huge long ass fake nails.
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I find porn, straight, gay, lesbian, to be pretty boring. Like it stops being interesting after you grow out of your 16 year old horny all day, everyday phase; especially after you actually start having sex. At least that was happened in my case.

Not that there aren't people out there who actually like porn, but I don't see the appeal of a couple of people (or a group, whatever) who are just there to put on an unsexy act. I also agree with Kitteh that it's mainly targeted towards males; not to mention that "lesbian" porn sends the wrong concept to already dumb people.

Ever been hit on by a guy at a club or somewhere else and you're like "Sorry, I'm into girls," and the dude suddenly gets a creepy smile on his mug and then asks you if you're into threesomes? Ugh.

I'd rather fantasize or read a good erotic book...or actually have some sexy times with a sexy friend. T^T
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Sep 28 2013, 10:21 PM
Ever been hit on by a guy at a club or somewhere else and you're like "Sorry, I'm into girls," and the dude suddenly gets a creepy smile on his mug and then asks you if you're into threesomes? Ugh.
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lol, porn.
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Just read that the project of making a movie about Tchaikovsky's life was turned down because of russian laws.
Wae you do dis russia. -_-
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Sep 29 2013, 12:51 AM
Just read that the project of making a movie about Tchaikovsky's life was turned down because of russian laws.
Wae you do dis russia. -_-
Are you shitting me... :eyeroll:
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Sep 28 2013, 06:49 PM
So umm, girls...
Serious question:

Do you as lesbians/bisexuals, enjoy girl on girl porn?

In my humble opinion, I hate it so much. :nails:
of course the lesbian p0rn with made-up blondes and high heels is :X
but I really like a couple of videos where it really looks like the girls enjoy themselves, I even have a favorite "actress", she goes by the name Blu3 Ang3l and she's done some terrible stuff with dudes, but she's an expert when it comes to pleasing girls, at least that's how it looks to me :$
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my longest crush of 5 years (from my teenage days haha) just posted new pictures of her baby son. He's soooooo cute and gorgeous (just like his mother *sigh*) lol. No, I dont have any feelings towards her anymore, it was ages ago and she only sees me as her sister haha. That's as good as it's gonna get tbh, didnt expect anything more.

just curious, anybody share similar situation? I mean crushing on someone for years and how does/did it end?
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Any of you girls tried online dating? I'm tempted to but online dating sounds pretty drastic and dare I say... desperate :-/ yea I dunno what are your thoughts on online dating?
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Any of you girls tried online dating? I'm tempted to but online dating sounds pretty drastic and dare I say... desperate :-/ yea I dunno what are your thoughts on online dating?
I guess I'm guilty of online dating. Tried it out on okcup1d once and it was kind of a waiting game there. It's almost like, if you don't make your move and PM someone, then no one would. But yeah, after a while, I disabled my profile because it made me feel like I was real desperate or something. Which I think I am. :unsure:
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Sep 29 2013, 02:30 PM
my longest crush of 5 years (from my teenage days haha) just posted new pictures of her baby son. He's soooooo cute and gorgeous (just like his mother *sigh*) lol. No, I dont have any feelings towards her anymore, it was ages ago and she only sees me as her sister haha. That's as good as it's gonna get tbh, didnt expect anything more.

just curious, anybody share similar situation? I mean crushing on someone for years and how does/did it end?
x2 on everything
She has a baby girl though :dramaqueen:
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my longest crush of 5 years (from my teenage days haha) just posted new pictures of her baby son. He's soooooo cute and gorgeous (just like his mother *sigh*) lol. No, I dont have any feelings towards her anymore, it was ages ago and she only sees me as her sister haha. That's as good as it's gonna get tbh, didnt expect anything more.

just curious, anybody share similar situation? I mean crushing on someone for years and how does/did it end?
Isn't ending. 2 years, getting stronger. :gaypimp:
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my longest crush of 5 years (from my teenage days haha) just posted new pictures of her baby son. He's soooooo cute and gorgeous (just like his mother *sigh*) lol. No, I dont have any feelings towards her anymore, it was ages ago and she only sees me as her sister haha. That's as good as it's gonna get tbh, didnt expect anything more.

just curious, anybody share similar situation? I mean crushing on someone for years and how does/did it end?
Back in highschool. it lasted 3 years. Ended bad :unsure:
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my longest crush of 5 years (from my teenage days haha) just posted new pictures of her baby son. He's soooooo cute and gorgeous (just like his mother *sigh*) lol. No, I dont have any feelings towards her anymore, it was ages ago and she only sees me as her sister haha. That's as good as it's gonna get tbh, didnt expect anything more.

just curious, anybody share similar situation? I mean crushing on someone for years and how does/did it end?
Back in highschool. it lasted 3 years. Ended bad :unsure:
Define bad, are we talking you didn't get together or Lost in Delirious bad? :ermm:
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Any of you girls tried online dating? I'm tempted to but online dating sounds pretty drastic and dare I say... desperate :-/ yea I dunno what are your thoughts on online dating?
I don't see it as desperate because online is just as valuable as offline, its just another medium.
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Any of you girls tried online dating? I'm tempted to but online dating sounds pretty drastic and dare I say... desperate :-/ yea I dunno what are your thoughts on online dating?
I don't see it as desperate because online is just as valuable as offline, its just another medium.
SA

Also I think people need to get over certain hang-ups; the world has changed and being afraid or derisive of meeting that "special someone" online is just as ridiculous as thinking you can't meet them at the supermarket, park, bookstore, in the check out at some store. The place is irrelevant, what matters is the connection you may share. If you have a connection and an interest to pursue things further the relationship will evolve at its pace. Off-line, on-line; both have their pros and cons but both are valid gateways to a relationship, I don't see why anyone would close the door to either one.

I don't have nor have I ever had an account on a dating site but that has more to do with having been in a relationship or no interest in being in one, not any reservation to join. ^_^
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my longest crush of 5 years (from my teenage days haha) just posted new pictures of her baby son. He's soooooo cute and gorgeous (just like his mother *sigh*) lol. No, I dont have any feelings towards her anymore, it was ages ago and she only sees me as her sister haha. That's as good as it's gonna get tbh, didnt expect anything more.

just curious, anybody share similar situation? I mean crushing on someone for years and how does/did it end?
Back in highschool. it lasted 3 years. Ended bad :unsure:
Define bad, are we talking you didn't get together or Lost in Delirious bad? :ermm:
I did hear that Abc has a falcon pet.
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^falcon pet :rofl: :rofl:

must be careful every time she's climbing on a roof of a house, just in case :rofl:
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LMFAO, bitches =_=

Bad as in water lilies bad.

jk :P

Well, at least I didn't see her fucking a dude against a tree. Altho then the falcon pet might have been useful *strokes chin*
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is it good? I mean not film but novel....
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Blue is the warmest color graphic novel is released in my country
is it good? I mean not film but novel....
Yep, I got the English edition since my français is not that great. I highly recommend it!
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Blue is the warmest color graphic novel is released in my country
is it good? I mean not film but novel....
Yep, I got the English edition since my français is not that great. I highly recommend it!
thank you for the answer :D I hope it's translated well
and It seems film will release in here too. :thumbsup:
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Blue is the warmest color graphic novel is released in my country
is it good? I mean not film but novel....
Yep, I got the English edition since my français is not that great. I highly recommend it!
thank you for the answer :D I hope it's translated well
and It seems film will release in here too. :thumbsup:
Where are you from anon?
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Blue is the warmest color graphic novel is released in my country
is it good? I mean not film but novel....
Yep, I got the English edition since my français is not that great. I highly recommend it!
thank you for the answer :D I hope it's translated well
and It seems film will release in here too. :thumbsup:
10 more days fangurlemo
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Blue is the warmest color graphic novel is released in my country
is it good? I mean not film but novel....
Yep, I got the English edition since my français is not that great. I highly recommend it!
thank you for the answer :D I hope it's translated well
and It seems film will release in here too. :thumbsup:
Where are you from anon?
Korea ;)
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thank you for the answer :D I hope it's translated well
and It seems film will release in here too. :thumbsup:
Where are you from anon?
Korea ;)
Oh okay. Are you going to see the film also?
The actress who's playing Emma, Lea is so cute... :$
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Where are you from anon?
Korea ;)
Oh okay. Are you going to see the film also?
The actress who's playing Emma, Lea is so cute... :$
I read film description... oh.. I should go alone :P
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my longest crush of 5 years (from my teenage days haha) just posted new pictures of her baby son. He's soooooo cute and gorgeous (just like his mother *sigh*) lol. No, I dont have any feelings towards her anymore, it was ages ago and she only sees me as her sister haha. That's as good as it's gonna get tbh, didnt expect anything more.

just curious, anybody share similar situation? I mean crushing on someone for years and how does/did it end?
lol mine wasn't a crush but a three-year on and off one-sided love. :rofl: i confessed it to her but as expected, she turned me down because she's straight, and only sees me as a bestfriend/sister (she also had a boyfriend that time lol). yeah, of course it's bad (unrequited love hurts) but i guess i took it well. the only thing i wanted that time was to let the feeling off my chest, and i had no intention of pursuing a relationship with her no matter how in love i was. we're still friends until now, but not as close as before because we went to different universities. -_-
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