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| Die Zicke | Sep 9 2013, 07:08 AM Post #176 |
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Caffeine is good for you.
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Agreed. Orange and I are just caught in the middle. Spoiler: click to toggle
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| kkab cakes | Sep 9 2013, 07:32 AM Post #177 |
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MEXIBOGGU
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I think I spy a new ship on the horizon. ![]() Spoiler: click to toggle
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| kkab cakes | Sep 9 2013, 07:37 AM Post #178 |
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So who are the idols that everyone suspects of being gay or bi? J0kw0n, Ambro, and K3y are mentioned most often. Though I hear N@N@ and Gyur! too, not sure about them. |
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| Yuwree | Sep 9 2013, 07:45 AM Post #179 |
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Official Pine Tree
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Omfg how did I miss this new thread! Partayyyyyyyyyy! Also scissoring is great if both parties are into it |
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| Die Zicke | Sep 9 2013, 07:58 AM Post #180 |
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Caffeine is good for you.
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My baby Lasagna might disagree lol |
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| 6.63E-34 | Sep 9 2013, 08:38 AM Post #181 |
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/pc-- Ooh, new thread. Very interesting.
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| Yuwree | Sep 9 2013, 09:12 AM Post #182 |
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| babycakes | Sep 9 2013, 12:31 PM Post #183 |
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| Guest | Sep 9 2013, 12:45 PM Post #184 |
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I knew about my sexual orientation when I started to love lesbian series (sk!ns, l!p service, the l w0rd) and got more excited by kissing scenes between girls than between girl-boy I have never beennin a relationship because I had a back hurt and I was depressed some years, so I didnt use to be outgoing until I got an operation and felt better. I would love to taste the lips of a ladie, but I dont know gay people .And Im so confused, A girl that I liked and who I told that I was bi was comfortable with me caressing her, stroking her hair hugging in her bed .She said that she was straight and even kissed a foreign friend of mine on a trip, but she got easily jealous when other people got my attention, and she always said that I was pretty. And I remember that on another trip a year ago I helped a friend to not get caught kissing a guy , and when she entered our apartment (my parents and we had diferent apartments in a hotel) she pushed me on the bed , gave me a hug , and started kissing my neck .I think that have never been so tempted to do something as that day, I was getting hot in seconds.I decided not to do anything...joking I just told her that she was so heavy..and that I couldnt breath...oh god..that was self control .She was such a tease |
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| Guest | Sep 9 2013, 01:24 PM Post #185 |
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I always liked girls, since I was a kid. But I was too clueless and innocent to know what I was feeling. I was very protective of my girl friends, and when one of them got a boyfriend, I felt insanely jealous. I was only 11, and I thought that it was normal, because he took my friend from me. Later that year she moved to another city and I never saw her again. At the age of 13 I started to realize that the way I felt towards girls was different. A year later I met this girl in my school chatroom, she was from another school but had friends in my school, so she was online almost every night. We became closer, I'd go to her house whenever I could, and also would text her for hours before going to sleep. One morning I texted her good morning and said "I love you", to which she texted back "you shouldn't talk like this, I might believe you", and I replied "Maybe I'm telling the truth ". After this we started to flirt with each other, I was almost sure that she was into girls even though we never spoke about it, so around 3 months later I told her that I liked her more than just a friend, and she told me she felt the same about me. We dated for 4 and a half years.
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| Taerrific | Sep 9 2013, 01:35 PM Post #186 |
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I didn't come to terms until a couple of months ago, actually...I'd always pushed those thoughts regarding my sexual orientation and love life to the back of my mind...up until recently, it was one of those family gatherings, they take place quite rarely. And this aunt just up and asked me why I don't have a BF yet. I just shrugged it off, but the whole thought process started when I went home. I just asked myself those questions. And when I looked back, I had a crush on a girl in my dance class back when I was in primary school. So here I am now...undeniably gay. I haven't found anyone yet. I'm just one of those people who doesn't really crave companionship...like I really enjoy the idea of being alone but I wouldn't feel extremely uncomfortable if there was someone else. |
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| Yuwree | Sep 9 2013, 02:43 PM Post #187 |
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You summed up my feelings in a nutshell sorta, I enjoy being alone, being in my own little bubble. But I wouldn't mind expanding it to accommodate another
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| Greeny | Sep 9 2013, 05:01 PM Post #188 |
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This thread is really fun and I've been lurking in this forum since part one but now I decided to register, since irl I really couldn't out myself and talk about this kinds of things, btw I love snsd too so I was introduced to this forum because of them so Hi guys!
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| Windmill | Sep 9 2013, 05:06 PM Post #189 |
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Hello! It's always nice to see more people signing up and see a name with the posts. Hope you will feel comfortable with opening up about your sexuality, and if not, I hope this thread will help you a long way. |
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| Yuwree | Sep 9 2013, 05:52 PM Post #190 |
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Hi there, nice to see a new face and welcome! |
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| The Anon | Sep 9 2013, 06:16 PM Post #191 |
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I was 18 when I fully accepted I was gay. This was the time I developed an enormous crush on a coworker. She was from Sweden, incredibly beautiful and everyone fancied her. I avoided her like plague and she thought I hated her, until we got drunk together and had an amazing time. We started spending every night together in bed, just cuddling. We would also get jealous if one of us was approached by a guy (yeah... jealousy went both ways and we had heated arguments about it). It was an odd friendship. It wasn't healthy and the fact we worked together made everything so much more intense. We acted like a couple. When we were working the opposite shifts, she'd pick me up and take me home for dinner, and I remember venting about how no guy deserved her. Long story short, I was moving and quitting my job. On my leaving do, I got drunk and made this big deal about how I had something important to tell her. I was dropping hints everywhere, but ultimately failed to say anything concrete. I moved and we lost touch, so I hoped all was forgotten. Then 2 years later, I hung out with an old workmate and saw her again. We went for a drink afterwards (there's a pattern here) and she ended up telling a bunch of random dudes at a bar how I was once in love with her. I brushed it off - figured she was doing that thing some straight girls do when they treat lesbians like bragging rights or an episode in their super exciting life, but she brought up the topic again on the way home. There was a lot of talking, more drinking and we ended up hooking up. Things were not awkward in the morning. Maybe cuz I was no longer attached to her. Or maybe cuz I was finally at ease with who I was and out to everyone, which, in turn, made me a much different person than a horny gremlin I once was. |
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| HolyYoong | Sep 9 2013, 06:25 PM Post #192 |
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My shupanova
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Yay LGBTQ thread. Next time let's all meet up irl
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| Guest | Sep 9 2013, 07:09 PM Post #193 |
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xyz, are you gay and out? You don't have to answer if you're not comfortable. |
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| Abc | Sep 9 2013, 07:20 PM Post #194 |
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The real cat lady.
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Fuck this thread is moving fast lol |
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| Abc | Sep 9 2013, 09:09 PM Post #195 |
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The real cat lady.
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Bishes please check this out! |
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| ShipCaptain | Sep 9 2013, 09:19 PM Post #196 |
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thanks for the kind words babe I actually tried a lot of things on the butch girl, I even dropped many hints that I'm into girls, I have this feeling that she has a soft spot for me, she even made my phone number one of three that she can call for free. But then, I wouldn't want to lead her on, when in fact I'm much more attracted to our boss
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| Lingerie_Anon | Sep 10 2013, 01:49 AM Post #197 |
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No prob, bb. <3 Ahhhh I see. Well, attraction is a BIG factor. The husband the kid thing for your boss is nagl, so hopefully someone more available with come floating along for you~~ :3 |
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| Abc | Sep 10 2013, 01:53 AM Post #198 |
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Do you girls believe in the whole "I fall for the person not the gender" thing? |
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| orangedaffodils | Sep 10 2013, 01:56 AM Post #199 |
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For some people sure if that's their thing. But i'd be reluctant to push that theory on everyone; you can't put people into a tidy little box like that. |
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| nane | Sep 10 2013, 02:18 AM Post #200 |
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each person has a way of love/fall in love. if a person says that she falls to person and not gender, I believe. there are so many topics I don't know where to look first. |
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| Abc | Sep 10 2013, 02:29 AM Post #201 |
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The real cat lady.
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You mad? stay mad bish!
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| nane | Sep 10 2013, 02:34 AM Post #202 |
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GG's biotch.
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I am not mad. ![]() unnie~ you owe me...a strip... |
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| Abc | Sep 10 2013, 02:41 AM Post #203 |
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The real cat lady.
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DON'T GO OT NANE! *runs away* |
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| nane | Sep 10 2013, 02:50 AM Post #204 |
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come here,unnie. ![]() I swear,I will be good.
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| Greeny | Sep 10 2013, 03:29 AM Post #205 |
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I don't really remember but since I think I begun having a mind for things, I found out that I have been having crushing on every girls here in our neighborhood It's crazy but I brush it always off, it was a child thing at first though my firs real crush was a guy but my first love is a girl, I'm thirteen that time, I met her when my friends and I were playing volleyball in their neighborhood cuz my friend live there, and then yeah we met. We were playing volleyball when she was watching us and then my eyes met her's-she's looking back at me that time- and I think that's when I fall for her, I even change school into her school just so that I could see her everyday and we became friends after that but I found out that it was wrong to fall for someone like her so after a year I changed school again , I still stalk her account on fbook till now and I think that my feelings for her still haven't washed away.
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| 125 | Sep 10 2013, 03:46 AM Post #206 |
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you are must love me
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I think I've always been a really gay kid. I used to stare after girls and just watching them but trying to do it secretly - even at that age, I guess I knew it wasn't something normal(?). I distinctly remember favouring the young female teachers that were nice and pretty since kindergarten, and I've always felt that attractive pull towards some girls in my elementary school classes and onwards. Middle school and early high school was my 'confusion' period, where I had a crush on one of my best friends, and then my teacher...and this whole period where I tried to convince myself I was crazy about boys. Eventually, I'd say between the age of 15 or so, I figured out and finally accepted to myself that I liked girls. I'm not out yet, though, because of my parents. |
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| Die Zicke | Sep 10 2013, 03:50 AM Post #207 |
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LIAR lol |
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| Greeny | Sep 10 2013, 03:54 AM Post #208 |
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Strict parents? and Are you still under eighteen? |
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| 125 | Sep 10 2013, 03:55 AM Post #209 |
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you are must love me
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No, it's just a matter of...not wanting to disappoint them? I suppose. To clarify, you could say I feel a strong obligation to them. And unless something happens to change my mind, I probably won't tell them for a while. |
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| nane | Sep 10 2013, 04:00 AM Post #210 |
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but I am a good girl.
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Wish $M would go to at least a somewhat closer city...




If they come to LA I think imma share a hotel room with Poulet, not sure yet though.
". After this we started to flirt with each other, I was almost sure that she was into girls even though we never spoke about it, so around 3 months later I told her that I liked her more than just a friend, and she told me she felt the same about me. We dated for 4 and a half years.


so Hi guys!

Long story short, I was moving and quitting my job. On my leaving do, I got drunk and made this big deal about how I had something important to tell her. I was dropping hints everywhere, but ultimately failed to say anything concrete. I moved and we lost touch, so I hoped all was forgotten. 
Next time let's all meet up irl 

) Anyways, I got a new job 3 months ago and there are two women I'm interested in there - one looks like a total butch, short hair and everything, is single but says she had a relation ship with a guy for more than 10 years before breaking up with him. I have a feeling she likes me, but I'm confused whether she is into girls... The other lady is my boss. I'm totally attracted to her as a personality, she's like the reason I go to work with a smile on my face. We joke a lot since we are in adjacent rooms, I always find ways to touch her, tickle her, pull her hair or something and she responds with skinship as well. I told her I'm jealous because on some photos she was hugging closely another girl and she said: You know I love you
BUT she is married with a daughter.... 


, I still stalk her account on fbook till now and I think that my feelings for her still haven't washed away.
Eventually, I'd say between the age of 15 or so, I figured out and finally accepted to myself that I liked girls.

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