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I'm not out yet, I know I'm not ready, and I know that I would lose way more than I could gain coming out, so I don't have any plans to come out anytime soon. But, ever since I realized that I was gay about a year or so ago, I've had the urge to blurt it out in every random conversation. Even in situations where my sexuality doesn't matter to the discussion in the slightest, the words just linger on the tip of my tongue. Have you ever felt like this? Is this a common part of the coming out process?

Also, I'm worried that when I do finally come out it will be to the wrong person :(
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Please share your coming out experiences ^_^
it was my first year in uni so I felt like I should just let go all my gayness, so the second week a guy just randomly took a seat next to me, we chatted and pretty much followed me around, when the last class ended I just blurted out "I feel like drinking some beer" he said "me too" then we went to drink at the beach, we chatted some more and then he say: "I'm gay" so I looked at him and I just said: "me too!" :rofl: we were so happy, he had already gay friends but for me it was the first gay guy

with my best friend it was in high shool, she liked tatu and I liked them too, we chatted about some fanfics and about how "luz de luna" (a tatu fanfic) was pretty much the best fanfic of the world, so the conversation ended with: "you're such a lesbian anon" :gaypimp: , "you too" :gaypimp:
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^ just forgot to add, I came out to my mom, she was in the hospital cause she got a surgery, she was still with a lil pain
I told my sister that day that I was a fabulous lesbian (I knew she would understand cause she has 2 gay friends) but I couldn't say it to our mom cause she'd freak out, she offered me to tell her for me, I said yes cause I didn't believe she would be so shameless, but SHE DID IT! and our mom was there in her bed, I wish I could have seen her face, two days after when she came back home she confronted me, and for a moment I thought about lying, but then I felt like it was time, my the l word posters were not helping me to cover my rainbows, so I said it was true, she didn't talk to me for a day.

she's still working on it, I'm gonna change my old as fuck tlw posters for GG ones soon, I hope she gets ready :rofl:
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I've had the urge to blurt it out in every random conversation. Even in situations where my sexuality doesn't matter to the discussion in the slightest, the words just linger on the tip of my tongue. Have you ever felt like this? Is this a common part of the coming out process?

Also, I'm worried that when I do finally come out it will be to the wrong person :(
Eh, I went through that phase for a while. I actually randomly told a friend over breakfast once. (Although the conversation was somewhat related, since she was talking about her boyfriend and relationships in general.) It gets...tiring constantly having to hide a part of oneself, I guess, so I guess it's normal that at some point one'd just feel like throwing in the towel and declaring it. At least that's how I felt anyway.

Re: coming out to the wrong person--perhaps you could try to gauge their reactions by dropping hints here and there first? Ultimately, though, you're still going to have to take a leap of faith, I think.
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Have any of you dealt with reconciling your religion and sexuality?

My whole family is christian and I've pretty much grown up in the christian church. Sometimes I don't want to admit that I'm attracted to girls because then I'll have to choose between my faith and the person I want to love.

Coming out will alienate me from almost everyone I know, including my family. But it's so tiring to keep pretending. Yeah, I've had the urge to blurt it out just to get it off my chest.

I find it hard to believe that a loving God would condemn people for loving someone of the same gender.. perhaps it's the condemnation I'll get from my friends that will be harder to deal with than separation from this God.

Just wanted to get this off my chest, been struggling with this for a while. -_-
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Yesterday at night..I hanged out with a guy friend because it was his bday.We had dinner,laughed a lot and went to a pub,we drank and were flirty with each other.I have so much confidence with this guy he knows that im bi and who I like.we sang and were playing eating a sweet in the mouth the other...our lips touched a lot..but I was thinking in the beautiful lady that has my heart ,
I arrived home..and went to bed..I was a little drunk (I didnt write more than two words right)
she knows that im jealous of my cousin (guy) because he likes her a lot,they were so cosy together....and he is asking her to go on a date, even when she says that she want him to her friend.she even asked me if I was mad a that .I was mad at him..not at her .I was in a village with my grand parents and she was in the town.
Suddenly she asked me why I was writting like shit..and I told her that I hanged out with a friend(im not so much outgoing), drank and even played with him the game of eating sweets in the mouth of the other .she usually goes to sleep early...and she asked for a pic of his face...I hesitated at first..but she was being annoying so I sent it to her and she started asking me who was that guy , how did I meet him., i felt something weird about her....she then said that I was a crazy goat , and I told her that being without her made me act in that way, I jokingly blamed her ; P ..... she laughed, and said goodbye to me .
she even wrote in her twitter something like 'all my life , I've been , I've been waiting for someone like you' and another twit 'good mod , good mod' , but I dont want to make any spectation Because she tweeted before something like 'cook...my name is cook' .
But 2 weeks ago..she was in my chalet house..we were dancing with another friend..I laid in the sofa..and was sleepy..she then came to me...sat on the sofa..put my head on her lap and started caressing my face for several minutes ...im so confused with her :/
What do you think girls?

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Sep 11 2013, 12:27 PM
Yesterday at night..I hanged out with a guy friend because it was his bday.We had dinner,laughed a lot and went to a pub,we drank and were flirty with each other.I have so much confidence with this guy he knows that im bi and who I like.we sang and were playing eating a sweet in the mouth the other...our lips touched a lot..but I was thinking in the beautiful lady that has my heart ,
I arrived home..and went to bed..I was a little drunk (I didnt write more than two words right)
she knows that im jealous of my cousin (guy) because he likes her a lot,they were so cosy together....and he is asking her to go on a date, even when she says that she want him to her friend.she even asked me if I was mad a that .I was mad at him..not at her .I was in a village with my grand parents and she was in the town.
Suddenly she asked me why I was writting like shit..and I told her that I hanged out with a friend(im not so much outgoing), drank and even played with him the game of eating sweets in the mouth of the other .she usually goes to sleep early...and she asked for a pic of his face...I hesitated at first..but she was being annoying so I sent it to her and she started asking me who was that guy , how did I meet him., i felt something weird about her....she then said that I was a crazy goat , and I told her that being without her made me act in that way, I jokingly blamed her ; P ..... she laughed, and said goodbye to me .
she even wrote in her twitter something like 'all my life , I've been , I've been waiting for someone like you' and another twit 'good mod , good mod' , but I dont want to make any spectation Because she tweeted before something like 'cook...my name is cook' .
But 2 weeks ago..she was in my chalet house..we were dancing with another friend..I laid in the sofa..and was sleepy..she then came to me...sat on the sofa..put my head on her lap and started caressing my face for several minutes ...im so confused with her :/
What do you think girls?

Be careful anon, sometimes girls just like the attention... Doesn't mean she is into you.
Girls are very tricky to read :-/
But try talking to her more, get closer, in order to learn how to read her better ^_^
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Sep 11 2013, 03:27 PM

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Sep 11 2013, 12:27 PM
Yesterday at night..I hanged out with a guy friend because it was his bday.We had dinner,laughed a lot and went to a pub,we drank and were flirty with each other.I have so much confidence with this guy he knows that im bi and who I like.we sang and were playing eating a sweet in the mouth the other...our lips touched a lot..but I was thinking in the beautiful lady that has my heart ,
I arrived home..and went to bed..I was a little drunk (I didnt write more than two words right)
she knows that im jealous of my cousin (guy) because he likes her a lot,they were so cosy together....and he is asking her to go on a date, even when she says that she want him to her friend.she even asked me if I was mad a that .I was mad at him..not at her .I was in a village with my grand parents and she was in the town.
Suddenly she asked me why I was writting like shit..and I told her that I hanged out with a friend(im not so much outgoing), drank and even played with him the game of eating sweets in the mouth of the other .she usually goes to sleep early...and she asked for a pic of his face...I hesitated at first..but she was being annoying so I sent it to her and she started asking me who was that guy , how did I meet him., i felt something weird about her....she then said that I was a crazy goat , and I told her that being without her made me act in that way, I jokingly blamed her ; P ..... she laughed, and said goodbye to me .
she even wrote in her twitter something like 'all my life , I've been , I've been waiting for someone like you' and another twit 'good mod , good mod' , but I dont want to make any spectation Because she tweeted before something like 'cook...my name is cook' .
But 2 weeks ago..she was in my chalet house..we were dancing with another friend..I laid in the sofa..and was sleepy..she then came to me...sat on the sofa..put my head on her lap and started caressing my face for several minutes ...im so confused with her :/
What do you think girls?

I would wait a bit more if she does like you sometimes girls show concrete signs. But they are so annoyingly hard to read.

I am not all that good with girls I am usually the last to know a girl is crushing on me and friends are always like "duh u are so slow"
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Please share your coming out experiences ^_^
I have been attracted to girls since I was younger. And I have been friends with certain friends since I was younger so when I came out to the they told me they were just waiting for me to admit it. But as far as my family none of the know due to religious issues.
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i'm brokenhearted with one :'(
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Yesterday at night..I hanged out with a guy friend because it was his bday.We had dinner,laughed a lot and went to a pub,we drank and were flirty with each other.I have so much confidence with this guy he knows that im bi and who I like.we sang and were playing eating a sweet in the mouth the other...our lips touched a lot..but I was thinking in the beautiful lady that has my heart ,
I arrived home..and went to bed..I was a little drunk (I didnt write more than two words right)
she knows that im jealous of my cousin (guy) because he likes her a lot,they were so cosy together....and he is asking her to go on a date, even when she says that she want him to her friend.she even asked me if I was mad a that .I was mad at him..not at her .I was in a village with my grand parents and she was in the town.
Suddenly she asked me why I was writting like shit..and I told her that I hanged out with a friend(im not so much outgoing), drank and even played with him the game of eating sweets in the mouth of the other .she usually goes to sleep early...and she asked for a pic of his face...I hesitated at first..but she was being annoying so I sent it to her and she started asking me who was that guy , how did I meet him., i felt something weird about her....she then said that I was a crazy goat , and I told her that being without her made me act in that way, I jokingly blamed her ; P ..... she laughed, and said goodbye to me .
she even wrote in her twitter something like 'all my life , I've been , I've been waiting for someone like you' and another twit 'good mod , good mod' , but I dont want to make any spectation Because she tweeted before something like 'cook...my name is cook' .
But 2 weeks ago..she was in my chalet house..we were dancing with another friend..I laid in the sofa..and was sleepy..she then came to me...sat on the sofa..put my head on her lap and started caressing my face for several minutes ...im so confused with her :/
What do you think girls?

it's a straight girl thing, she sees that you're attracted to her and she will take advantage of you and tease you till you finally tell her about your feelings or ask her on a date


...and she will say you're just good friends
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I'm outed just to a trustful circle of friends actually. Dad's a jerk(not exaggerating) and irrelevant to my life, mom once said while news about a gay parade were on tv: "I wouldn't mind if you told me one day you were gay." without me asking anything. Idk did she said that cause she suspected smthn but I was like ok good to know lol. I've known before she was open about that topic from conversations. She's quite liberal unlike society around us but I haven't told her yet. I think because she's never shown actual interest in my love life ever and just minds her own business, never told her about any relationship so far tbh and I know it'd be the same if I was straight as a pole. Rest of the family - irrelevant and most of them r stone age thinking. Sounds like we dgaf for each other and it's true lol.
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^ lol, my mom keeps saying stuff like that whenever the family mentions me getting into a relationship for the first time. "Maybe she won't come home with a boyfriend, maybe it'll be a girlfriend", or "you know it doesn't matter what your sexuality is".

I'm like, mom. Shush. Are you hinting that you want me to be? :rofl:
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you guys have awesome parents
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^ lol, my mom keeps saying stuff like that whenever the family mentions me getting into a relationship for the first time. "Maybe she won't come home with a boyfriend, maybe it'll be a girlfriend", or "you know it doesn't matter what your sexuality is".

I'm like, mom. Shush. Are you hinting that you want me to be? :rofl:
Plot tiwst: our moms r closeted. jk

Mine said once: "I actually don't want to become a grandma." I'm like "lol why?" "Idk when I think about it I don't want you to ever have kids, I can't imagine myself being a granny and taking care of your kids." I just stared at her with a lost expression. I was used to her unusualness but...this...lol. Seriously tho I think the woman just has an aging phobia -_-
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Well, I always knew I liked girls. My first was in kinder while playing mommy and daddy with another girl hahaha... I was always close with my feelings never talked about them and even tried liking guys just because I was suppose to. It didn't work tho. I accepted my sexuality when I was 18, I told my younger sister who was 13 as a test and she was fine with it. After my sister I waited like 3 years to tell my cousin, she was cool with it as well. At 23 I told her that I was a lesbian, it was shocking for her at first but now she's fine with it. After telling my mom I told my dad, my brother, my aunts... So basically all my family knows except for my grandparents just because my grandpa is not as open. I think my grandma suspects but she doesn't say anything, we even have conversations about sexuality and stuff and she seems fine with it but I'm not sure I should tell her haha. Anyway my close family accepts me, at least I haven't had a problem. Even though they know and stuff I don't go around telling everyone about my sexuality is not like I need a sign on my forehead that says Lesbian!! There's nothing wrong with being one and I'm not ashamed but I don't announce it to the world, for me is just natural.
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Well, I always knew I liked girls. My first was in kinder while playing mommy and daddy with another girl hahaha... I was always close with my feelings never talked about them and even tried liking guys just because I was suppose to. It didn't work tho. I accepted my sexuality when I was 18, I told my younger sister who was 13 as a test and she was fine with it. After my sister I waited like 3 years to tell my cousin, she was cool with it as well. At 23 I told her that I was a lesbian, it was shocking for her at first but now she's fine with it. After telling my mom I told my dad, my brother, my aunts... So basically all my family knows except for my grandparents just because my grandpa is not as open. I think my grandma suspects but she doesn't say anything, we even have conversations about sexuality and stuff and she seems fine with it but I'm not sure I should tell her haha. Anyway my close family accepts me, at least I haven't had a problem. Even though they know and stuff I don't go around telling everyone about my sexuality is not like I need a sign on my forehead that says Lesbian!! There's nothing wrong with being one and I'm not ashamed but I don't announce it to the world, for me is just natural.
At 23 I told my mom that I was a lesbian. Sorry I forgot to that haha.
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Sep 12 2013, 01:26 AM
Plot tiwst: our moms r closeted. jk

Mine said once: "I actually don't want to become a grandma." I'm like "lol why?" "Idk when I think about it I don't want you to ever have kids, I can't imagine myself being a granny and taking care of your kids." I just stared at her with a lost expression. I was used to her unusualness but...this...lol. Seriously tho I think the woman just has an aging phobia -_-
I don't think my mom has the patience to be closeted. :rofl:

Our mothers aren't alike there, then. She's desperate for grandchildren, but God knows why.
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I'm outed just to a trustful circle of friends actually. Dad's a jerk(not exaggerating) and irrelevant to my life, mom once said while news about a gay parade were on tv: "I wouldn't mind if you told me one day you were gay." without me asking anything. Idk did she said that cause she suspected smthn but I was like ok good to know lol. I've known before she was open about that topic from conversations. She's quite liberal unlike society around us but I haven't told her yet. I think because she's never shown actual interest in my love life ever and just minds her own business, never told her about any relationship so far tbh and I know it'd be the same if I was straight as a pole. Rest of the family - irrelevant and most of them r stone age thinking. Sounds like we dgaf for each other and it's true lol.
OMG your family sounds exactly like mine! I'm only out to a few friends, dad's an a**hole, mom is awesome (not sure if she THAT liberal though..) and relatives are super old fashioned :wall:
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I’m in the closet (except for a few friends), and I’m crushing so hard on this one girl. I knew her in freshman year, but we’re juniors now, and kinda drifted apart over the years and now pretty much don’t talk :’( There are rumors that she may be lesbian (and I kinda get vibes sometimes lol) but then again, some people say she’s secretly dating a guy. The only sign I’ve shown of my interest is staring at her in class...which is I know is creepy...but she’s so hot....asdfghjkl. I’m scared that if I ask her out and she rejects me, she’ll out me to her friends, which I really don’t want, because some of her friends are total gossip mills. And if I suddenly start talking to her after like 2 years without contact, will it be weird? Heeelp T_T
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I'm outed to my really close group of friends and it happened right after graduation. We were all hanging out at one friend's house nearby school and were having our mini post-graduation party. At one point the 10 of us gathered ourselves in a circle and one by one, everyone began revealing their one secret that they have never told anyone else before. For once, everyone was actually truthful about themselves and I learnt some new things about my friends I've never known about them before. When it was finally my turn, I just decided to go for it and blurted out that I had a crush on this one girl in class since 8th grade and I was pretty much gay. And then, there was that dreaded moment of silence and I remember panicking a little. But thankfully, they were all pretty cool about the whole thing and like all friends do when they know you've got a crush on someone, they start teasing you about it. One of them who's close to my crush had even jokingly offered to give me her number and all her pictures she has taken with her but I was just blushing like mad and stuttering the whole time to even respond to her teasing properly. So all in all, everything went superb and far better than I've ever expected, especially when my guy best friend had decided to come out along with me so we're like the best gay buddies now. So yeah, the day I came out was kind of the happiest day of my life to date. :P
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I'm outed to my really close group of friends and it happened right after graduation. We were all hanging out at one friend's house nearby school and were having our mini post-graduation party. At one point the 10 of us gathered ourselves in a circle and one by one, everyone began revealing their one secret that they have never told anyone else before. For once, everyone was actually truthful about themselves and I learnt some new things about my friends I've never known about them before. When it was finally my turn, I just decided to go for it and blurted out that I had a crush on this one girl in class since 8th grade and I was pretty much gay. And then, there was that dreaded moment of silence and I remember panicking a little. But thankfully, they were all pretty cool about the whole thing and like all friends do when they know you've got a crush on someone, they start teasing you about it. One of them who's close to my crush had even jokingly offered to give me her number and all her pictures she has taken with her but I was just blushing like mad and stuttering the whole time to even respond to her teasing properly. So all in all, everything went superb and far better than I've ever expected, especially when my guy best friend had decided to come out along with me so we're like the best gay buddies now. So yeah, the day I came out was kind of the happiest day of my life to date. :P
So does your crush know you like her? do you guys go out?
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^ lol, my mom keeps saying stuff like that whenever the family mentions me getting into a relationship for the first time. "Maybe she won't come home with a boyfriend, maybe it'll be a girlfriend", or "you know it doesn't matter what your sexuality is".

I'm like, mom. Shush. Are you hinting that you want me to be? :rofl:
she knows :spy:


Q: Can you consider yourself out to people if you don't make any effort to conceal your sexuality but haven't explicitly told them either?

I never know how to answer when people ask me if I'm out because I'm not certain what their criteria for "out" is. When I meet new people, I don't usually discuss my sexuality with them (it doesn't usually come up). However, I find that eventually, they might ask me if I'm dating (a guy), to which I usually just answer in the negative without tacking on the "I don't like guys". All of my close friends know and some newer friends do as well but, without exception, the reaction is "Thanks for telling me, I wouldn't have picked it, ever". If you're not readable as a gay and you don't announce it, are you technically in the closet?
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I'm outed to my really close group of friends and it happened right after graduation. We were all hanging out at one friend's house nearby school and were having our mini post-graduation party. At one point the 10 of us gathered ourselves in a circle and one by one, everyone began revealing their one secret that they have never told anyone else before. For once, everyone was actually truthful about themselves and I learnt some new things about my friends I've never known about them before. When it was finally my turn, I just decided to go for it and blurted out that I had a crush on this one girl in class since 8th grade and I was pretty much gay. And then, there was that dreaded moment of silence and I remember panicking a little. But thankfully, they were all pretty cool about the whole thing and like all friends do when they know you've got a crush on someone, they start teasing you about it. One of them who's close to my crush had even jokingly offered to give me her number and all her pictures she has taken with her but I was just blushing like mad and stuttering the whole time to even respond to her teasing properly. So all in all, everything went superb and far better than I've ever expected, especially when my guy best friend had decided to come out along with me so we're like the best gay buddies now. So yeah, the day I came out was kind of the happiest day of my life to date. :P
So does your crush know you like her? do you guys go out?
I'm... not sure about that actually. As obvious as I get with crushing on her, almost everyone in school used to think I'm together with my guy best friend (who's a 'fabulous' gay man). So much for living in Asia where practically everyone's assumed straight unless proven otherwise. And I honestly don't think that friend of mine who's close to her would have told her about my crush on her since I made her swear not to tell.

And nope, my crush and I have never gone out or hung out before... sadly. The funny thing is that I've sat next to her for a full year and have been her classmate for three, but have never actually had a proper conversation with her before, which is kind of pathetic of me. :-/ Now that we've all graduated from school and have gone our separate ways, I'm regretting real bad for being such a coward and not trying to speak to her at least once in the past, since I hardly ever get to see her anymore these days. :(
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^ lol, my mom keeps saying stuff like that whenever the family mentions me getting into a relationship for the first time. "Maybe she won't come home with a boyfriend, maybe it'll be a girlfriend", or "you know it doesn't matter what your sexuality is".

I'm like, mom. Shush. Are you hinting that you want me to be? :rofl:
she knows :spy:


Q: Can you consider yourself out to people if you don't make any effort to conceal your sexuality but haven't explicitly told them either?

I never know how to answer when people ask me if I'm out because I'm not certain what their criteria for "out" is. When I meet new people, I don't usually discuss my sexuality with them (it doesn't usually come up). However, I find that eventually, they might ask me if I'm dating (a guy), to which I usually just answer in the negative without tacking on the "I don't like guys". All of my close friends know and some newer friends do as well but, without exception, the reaction is "Thanks for telling me, I wouldn't have picked it, ever". If you're not readable as a gay and you don't announce it, are you technically in the closet?
This always gets me, one one hand I don't want to be put in an awkward position where I have to shoot a guy down, but on the other hand I don't wanna be 'that gal', aka the friend who was gay in highschool for a week and introduced herself as gay.

I think that's why I don't go out often, damn society and its pressures :boohoo:
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Plot tiwst: our moms r closeted. jk

Mine said once: "I actually don't want to become a grandma." I'm like "lol why?" "Idk when I think about it I don't want you to ever have kids, I can't imagine myself being a granny and taking care of your kids." I just stared at her with a lost expression. I was used to her unusualness but...this...lol. Seriously tho I think the woman just has an aging phobia -_-
I don't think my mom has the patience to be closeted. :rofl:

Our mothers aren't alike there, then. She's desperate for grandchildren, but God knows why.
Continuing the species is a biological imperative, humans also have societal and cultural forces at work for wanting offspring. Perhaps she wants her line to continue as most do but how nice she doesn't seem to be bothered by your sexuality, that come what may attitude is one many wish their parents had.
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" "Well, I've taken a few dips in the lady pond. I like girls. I've said that (before). I know people think I just say things to be shocking, but I actually do like p**sy. It just depends on whose p**sy it is."

Go GarGar! :gaypimp:
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That's great and all, but that's still no proof. -_-

Reminds me of Megan Fox, Olivia Wilde, Evan Rachel Wood, Anna Paquin, etc.. They all come out publicly as bi-sexual yet we never ever seen them in a relationship with a woman before.
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Sep 12 2013, 11:02 AM
Continuing the species is a biological imperative, humans also have societal and cultural forces at work for wanting offspring. Perhaps she wants her line to continue as most do but how nice she doesn't seem to be bothered by your sexuality, that come what may attitude is one many wish their parents had.
Oh, I know that much, it's just funny. There's no way I'm giving birth to a kid, ever.

Does anyone else want kids/want to get married?
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Sep 12 2013, 02:22 PM
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Sep 12 2013, 11:02 AM
Continuing the species is a biological imperative, humans also have societal and cultural forces at work for wanting offspring. Perhaps she wants her line to continue as most do but how nice she doesn't seem to be bothered by your sexuality, that come what may attitude is one many wish their parents had.
Oh, I know that much, it's just funny. There's no way I'm giving birth to a kid, ever.

Does anyone else want kids/want to get married?
da Married? Some day, I think so. If I find the right person that is. Kids tho... I myself am terrified of giving birth. Maybe in the future I'll overcome that fear, I think it would be nice to have a little or even a few little me's running around. If my partner wants to give birth, I think in no way would I oppose. I love kids. I'm just afraid of the giving birth process.
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Artichoke
Sep 12 2013, 02:22 PM
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Sep 12 2013, 11:02 AM
Continuing the species is a biological imperative, humans also have societal and cultural forces at work for wanting offspring. Perhaps she wants her line to continue as most do but how nice she doesn't seem to be bothered by your sexuality, that come what may attitude is one many wish their parents had.
Oh, I know that much, it's just funny. There's no way I'm giving birth to a kid, ever.

Does anyone else want kids/want to get married?
I'm 31, I think I've come to terms with the idea that I don't want children as egotistical as it may sound, but it's too troublesome
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Sep 12 2013, 11:02 AM
Continuing the species is a biological imperative, humans also have societal and cultural forces at work for wanting offspring. Perhaps she wants her line to continue as most do but how nice she doesn't seem to be bothered by your sexuality, that come what may attitude is one many wish their parents had.
Oh, I know that much, it's just funny. There's no way I'm giving birth to a kid, ever.

Does anyone else want kids/want to get married?
me me me :$
I want to get married and have kids :$ it's definitely one of my dreams, I want to be a mom in the future :$
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